my condition oso nearly as same la...but even more ridiculous..lol..i try to try to act in open minded way...dunwan care so much le..prepare for the worst le...so u stil wit him now?

swt.. i also feel very teruk today... wonder wats wrong.. some probs with my relation also now.. cham.. ex dowan let go n kept on treatening wanna die here n die der... sienz.. not mine la.. my other half.. i just act stupid onli.. sienz...

hahaha..each case aso have their own ridiculous ler..yeah alwis prepare 4 the worst..but IF..if oni...if worst rely comes..that time i think i aso duno wat 2 do except finding friends 2 play with...mayb cry until my eyes super panda..yeah im stil with him now..love him 2 much 2 let him go..haihz...wat 2 do..i love him more than he loves me..sometimes i jus 1 him 2 appreciate me 4 the things i did 4 him..not buyin expensive stuff that kind..mayb jus a nice thank u card wil do..but 4 him..it seems like a very hard thing 2 do..dunoler.mayb i demand 2 much from him..do ur guy do anything that u feel u r being appreciated?

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Added on June 8, 2008, 9:40 pmhahaha..y so many ppl feel so down n sad 2day..its a sunday!!should be out happily shopping or whatever which is fun!!!!!


This post has been edited by gracechew: Jun 8 2008, 09:40 PM

I hv the same thinking like u.. knock on the wall n faint n no need to think so much.. my case is not day per day solved n go nicely.. but more worst.. i really hate to think abt it.. but my brain keep on picturing those images n questions.. i feel my brain n soul wil b explored soon.. really headache..

i have a story to share here also ..

one of my gf is similar to this kind of gal , she used to call to other guy and told them how bad her bf treat him , how her bf look her down because of she is not from rich family and complaint tat her bf request too much from her , like ask her must to make up when date with him and this and tat ...

for us , as a friend , as a third party who not in the circle and look on her relation , she is really ......... bi*ch....

the reason she be together with her recent bf high percentage is because of money , income of her ex bf is lower than recent bf , even before dump her ex bf , she dy keep close with recent bf , like complain to him that ex bf treat her not good , and told everyone the reason she dump her ex is because of religion , but in fact , her ex was convert to kristian because of her and the most funny is the recent bf which she choose is not kristian and square tat will not convert to be kristian ...haha ....

before together with recent bf , he did promiss to her that , if you together with me , sure i will buy .... and ... to you , but after be with him, he din work out his promiss so she complaint to friend all around her including me . And with this she charged tat her recent bf seem like not a trustable person ...

and even now after she break with ex , she still will call to him and cried to him to complaint this and that, not only to her ex BUT to the guy friend around .. .

gal ... u say lah .... as a gal i feel shame to this kind of person lo ...

this type of girl... 2 face n b*tchy la... i hate these type of girls... see money big... no dignity... shame the community.. ceh!

oh i noe got a lot of these kind of gals out there..but never knew any of these species yet..luckily my girlfriends r not like that..suddenly felt so bless cuz my gf-s r nice ppl!!!i think that gal that my bf like(which alwis complaint 2 my bf n cry cry cry)..she is wit around 30years old guy..she is jus 20..same s me..but i dun think she is that kind of money species gua..

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Added on June 9, 2008, 6:24 pmim rely concern bout u..u have worse case than me but u stil come forward 2 console n advise me...mayb im the 1 who should be consoling u..hehehe!!take it slowly la..im sure time wil make everything better...that time wen we look back and think bout what had happen..mayb we wil jus laugh at how stupid we r that time..hahaha! but i think now...we jus knock our head against the wall la,hahaha!! mayb u should play sum yahoo games..rely takes ur mind off things!!
I REALLY HOPE U WIL FEEL BETTER..SMILE NOW!!!

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Added on June 9, 2008, 7:32 pmomGOSH!!!alice...i read ur thread..ur case n thinking is totally same s my thinking!!!about the appreciation thing..settle things by meeting her wit u n ur bf..but ur bf dun1 2 settle bringing u..bf say u r thinking 2 much..same same same..but i din go contact the gal la..jus everything hear from my bf's mouth...i feel no confidance anymore on love..mayb i should break off wit my bf n continue my life without partners..like 1 of the guy's say in ur thread..

Similar as u, i told my ex i want to maintain the relationship, but tht time my heart is like going to the other gal
this sentence had rely struck me hard hard n i mean HARD..my bf say he 1 2 be wit me..but wat i scare that his heart is going 2 that gal..u noe ler..wat they have they dun appreciate..what they dun have..they sure wan it..

all this sounds so familiar..with dun 1 2 contact the gal anymore..but stil keep on contacting..haihz..alwis me who asking him 2 cal n sms me..alwis me who call wen i go 4 holidays..me who ask him call wen he go holiday..i rely felt that im not being appreciated by him..he say he willing 2 come meet me is how he show his appreciation 2 me..like im not the 1 who is sacrificing my time 2 meet him...wen ist rely going 2 stop all these nonsense...i dun 1 2 go tru all these stupid pain anymore..i think i wil discus it wit my bf later..


This post has been edited by gracechew: Jun 9 2008, 07:32 PM

dear grace... its hard i know.. but if u really wanna keep with ur bf... u shud be tough...but if u think u r being taken for granted... then make ur best decision for ur future. so many 'fishes' in this world... u know wat i mean.. u will find somebody who will appreciate u n love u more .. watever ur decision.. i will support u wor..

Dun worry.. i m ok n strong enough to handle it.. juz sometime my feeling is "playing around".. giving advise to u is a must to me.. i dun wan 1 more victim like me.. n of coz i should stop think i m the victim.. i should start a new life by next week.. i think there's a full stop btw him n me.. watever he do is none of my business anymore.. i must stand still n b tough toward him.. n waiting for my new love to comes..

Remember to love urself more..

love urself...good idea

yes darling!
don't let things you can't do
stop yourself from doing something you can do!
life is still great!

he'll permanantly stay with u if he's ur true love =3

i second that... if he's ur soul mate.. he will be with u till the end no matter how many obstacles there are....

your bf should knw what to do .

i also duno wat should me n my bf do..my head full with many thoughts now..the girl did sms my bf n saying she is sorry..but sorry 4 duno wat..den say she not that kind of girl he thinks she is..den this part where she say she like my bf..y she wants 2 continue hold on 2 my bf when she has her own bf..my bf pulak dun rely 1 2 solve it..im so tired of all these u noe..i will close this thread..thanks 4 all of u who had given me advises..i rely appreciate it..