u n ur bf r not yet marriage, so it is reasonable other wan to fight with u...sorry of using example below...
' u tried a dress in boutique, u luv it n u decided to buy later...there is another gal cums in n luv it very much also, she nvr tried it but straight away take n pay at the cashier......'YES, u luv the dress n u tried it, u hint everybody that u want it, but the problem is u haven;t pay it!!!!
if i reli like the dress, of coz i will hold it in my hand, nt let anyone grap it before me...

Luv is fair game, winner takes all...u couldn't blame other trying to 'grap' ur bf, BUT....u can prevent it. Since ur bf n the gal ald atr that stage( i mean keep sms, phone....) u cannt stop it inone short, but u should tell ur bf SERIOUSLY, u dun like it...sms n calling is nothing, but if she keeps flirting with ur bf, u r sick of it! then i think ur bf would be behave a bit....
n u r onli 20~~~~u can actually scan for a better one...

gals, if u dun wan the dress to be graped, better hold it tight...because i will grap the one i like if the owner doesn't watch it well...