I never fight with a girl over a guy. If I like a guy, and I find out another girl likes him too, I back off.
If a girl likes my boyfriend, I let him choose.

凡事要看淡一点，

乐在当下，享受当下，

不要为当下的失受太大的伤痛与烦恼，

这是我们必须努力学习的生命过程，

每天都应该从心底锻炼'放下'的酒脱，

往后才会有一番格局与自在

I guess this explains it.

i'm confuse who is who d... Lena314, u face same problem or... 

Haha....Why worry when u already know what you want?
There's always a good reason why couples choose to breakup - for something not good of course.
Reminiscing your past relationships will only make you want to make the same mistake again.

haha! i did ask him whether is he happy that there is a gal like him..(i asked in a teasing way) den he jus smile den say yes la (in a shy way) but den he say "i stil love u very very much"..
yeah i noe i cant stop her from expressing her love to him, thats y i din kacau that gal, jus make sure my bf tell me everything..i told my bf if she is using higher attack skills to him (skills to attract my bf) i wil not hesitated to take action..hahahaha!! (tell the gal's mum) den she wil be finish. hahaha!jus my imagination 2 "smack" her!

jealousy is also a case in every relationship..i find that nowadays guys r very controlling at their gf..example..my fren(gal)..have 2 report who is she going out with...need 2 ask permission sumore from the guy..if the guy dun approve, den she wun ask her parents..if the guy approve oni she wil ask her parents...if my bf do like that 2 me..i sure "smack down" him den break off wit him!!

wah he come back n find u again ah?!?!! ur ex rely is an idiot..i dun like this kind of guys...take us ladies 4 granted...wen wit us...find another gal..dun even appreciate..oni come find us wen need us back...i also cried a lot...haha!my bf say im a "ham bao lou po" ..i noe how it feels 2 c the guy u like with a another gal...pain pain pain oni...but i wil soon 4get him..thank god 4 my frens...making me happy n myself again...FRIENDS ARE SO IMPORTANT!!!

yeah i noe wat u mean aso....i also would like 2 noe wat my bf is doin n where he is..but those controlling guys wun even let my fren talk or go out wit guy frens even there is gals coming 2geta!!!!sometimes 2 controlling aso no good..dun have the freedom to do anything...if 1 day the guy decided 2 break off wit the gal..den the gal wun have any1 close 2 turn 2 cuz wen she is with him...his bf forbbiden her 2 mix around..who is the 1 who wil suffer more???sure lah the gal...kasihan..

steeling guys.....not my thing but then anything can happen.

My story is my bf last time had a gal, and i was shocked cuz when i know him and got close to him, i didn't know he had a girl he liked. Then with all the might i have in my heart, i make them two together, like play matchmaking.

Then i was so sad i cried and cried for days. Just hiding myself in the room and cried. Best is, my bf called me and ask me advice and keep on smsing and talkng to me, and caring for me. He seems like he liked me.

Then there was one day, it strucked him, i told him that it does not matter what i want or what i think is right, u have a gf and all that is important that is u console her and not me. He was shocked and then he learned that i will not and i pledge that i don't steal another girls guy. And i wun kau guys. Unless the guy tell me he like me, i will not accept him.

After that he say he wanted to break up with the gal (after 1 week ) and i was supporting him. I dunno why.... my heart just keep on supporting him. Then i kinda unknowingly hugged him and stayed with him.

After that i know that he liked me all this while, had a crush on me for a year edi, but he is too shy to confest and is afraid that i might reject him, hemake this whole girl story up to make me confess to him first.

I was suppost to be angry but i was happy to know that he didnt like her. But poor girl, she cried for months.....

so...............i feel bad, but what can u do? i am with my bf for over a year now and things are good.

so....sometimes, u just cant control urself.

or course what i am trying to say here is the girl who is keep on contacting ur bf, may not be able to control herself, she just looking for comfort, like rebound guy. In my opinion

sometiems the gal does not know the guy have gf! usually in this situation. The gal shd call up the guys gf then both pretend as very close frens. He sure pee in his pants.