Sry ya i need to ask you all abit... sry sry i need you gals opinion...

Hi and greetings...
To all girls..Hi i wanner ask you all something.. I have already been with my gf for 5 yrs and now she says that she wanner call it off coz SMALL MATTER of arguement. Now she didt sms and call me for already 1 week ++ i called her but she ignor me and didt reply my sms's. She told me that she is dam piss off when she see my calling and sms. She event told me that stop calling my house, stop calling me , stop calling my parents, stop calling my friends. She says that she told me very clearly that ' Its over' and its not 3rd person which comes out she says. She told me that i have no more chance not a single one.

I go to her place and beg on the floor outside her house, after her mum saw me she told me that her daughter wont be comming back coz im here.So her mum sent me off.Next day at 5am i reach her place and waited there for her to go to work then i can block her car and get to talk to her face to face since she dosent wanner talk to me.So i did that and when to her car and stop her, then she ask me wat you want? i say i wanner talk abit, she say that there is nth to talk anymore i already told you its over. Then i say can you just fatch me to the nearest bus station? she at 1th says no but after a while she says ok she take me there. then in the car i ask her that im sry i know im wrong already i wake up already im sry and i wont take another chance from you anymore i beg for your last chance. She says that i gave you too much chance already.

Its already been 1 week +++ comming to 2 weeks.. she pick my calls a few times and she scold me that dun call her anymore she says that this make her more hate me.Normally she and me cant tahan one, after 1 day nia we get back togather already but this time its already comming to 2 weeks.. and i told her i will wait for her and she says that 'up to you'. Maybe 1 month maybe 1 yrs? i also duno. After 5yrs of relationship....   

I can feel in my heart she also crying in her heart and it makes me very sad. i wanner fix this things but she keep ignoring me. Ilove her so much and she knows it very well, i let her crawl til my head and i didt even get angry.. but one thing i do get angry is when other guys come in. She is my big baby and my lovely 'Wife'.

Now i wanner ask you gals out there, izzit when you girls piss off you will say all this things and after will she come back after she COOL down?
Some of my Friends gal they told me that sure come back to me and its matter only of time coz its already 5yrs relationship. Do you gals think the same thing also? or? How? got 2 sides of me... my brain says that ' Hey ppl already dont want you anymore give it up ba!!!' but my soft hearts is telling me that ' Hey you still got chance just give her sometime... to cool down afterthat then buy some gifs and flower to TAM her back then settle already!!!'

Which is true........help needed..Thanks.

im think in this 4 years we have been so much progress..i taught him a lot of things, he 2 taught me a lot of things..Example..im an english+cantonese background,so i duno mandarin,he is super chinese backhground,in order 2 woo me,he learn english (from zero to something at least)hahaha!i alwis teach him how 2 communicate in english,hear english songs..there r more ..what i have learn from him is patience,not 2 get angry easily (i often get angry easily)hahaha!!like if we have a problem,we will talk it through,say everything what is bothering us...I mean..i c a lot of couples..after 1 year or so..they wil break up bcuz non of them willing 2 step down n say IM SORRY..(eventhough they r wrong) wen i did wrong..i dun say im wrong..i will twist everything so i wil be the 1 who is right hahahaha!!normally he wil be the 1 who say..OKLAH IM WRONG PLEASE DUN ANGRY ME ANYMORE DEAR...but now,i wil say im sorry if im wrong,learn 2 ask 4 forgiveness...mayb u wil think its jus sumtin normal what we do in our relationship but 4 us i really mean a lot... so i think my relationship with him is stil "panas" hahaha!about that gal..she stil wouldnt give up although i ask my bf 2 ignore her sms...she jus sent a mms 2 him with a sunset pic n midi song "close 2 u" 

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Added on May 1, 2008, 10:36 pm

yeah i din pull or control tight tight,i wil jus ask him whether the gal do anything 2day..or he wil ownself tel me what she did...how 2 show that gal i have a strong relationship with him if i dun even know her...i din even sms or call her 2 confront her bout tis b4....i jus let my bf handle it...i hope he wun do anything wrong behind my back...   sometimes i feel like i dun deserve him...mayb he deserve this gal...mayb this gal will make him more happy if they r 2geta..haihz..duno la..jus hope everything wil cool down between them...