Gal, love take 2 hands to clap.. if u r so capable enough plz go ahead to grap the guy u wan.. n plz dun say other didnt watch well their belonging.. u r not the gal how well u know the situation n condition.. dun b bias n juz hear to one side story.. n love is not an item.. dun compare it wif a dress..

Unethical.

Can you sleep well after you steal the guy?
Fear of losing him to others?

Hmm..

Topic is interesting..


hehe

certainly not ok....but it dpends on ur bf...nobody can force him to leave u if he doesn't wan to..rite?

Well.. I did an attempt once... but then again, he was the one who was harassing me even when he had a GF. So instead I was "sort of" using him la... so its like his GF was worried (we act a bit lovey dovey) and told me off through a friend of mine...

When he got kicked out, she actually snatched her ex's bestfriend to replace him and tried to show off her latest fling around me... and I was like, "Whatever..." the guy wasn't that attractive anyway...


This post has been edited by aoibhealFae: May 20 2008, 01:08 PM

Good job.. let's all those jerk lost everything.. n like hell..

Veli agree with this.

aiya.
if she gt 'penshi' to steal
den steal la.
how u overcome oso cant one ma.
u got 'punsi' den is urs la.
ez.

LoL

any1 offended ?
>.<

Tell ur bf, a girl who would steal a guy away from the other is not royal to any guy, this type of girl can steal guy away from any girl later on like what she doing now.

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Added on May 23, 2008, 1:11 pmIm disagree....
Its not the matter of marry or not, when ure together with ur love 1, would u mid if some1 try to steal her away? No right? Thats why.

This post has been edited by anti-informatic: May 23 2008, 01:11 PM

hmm a woman stealing a guy from another girl , Clearly this guy wants only s3x so the one who has stolen ( watch out for physical demands ) , to the one from whom the guy was stolen (fate has removed a loser from your life , move on )

This post has been edited by xmsa666: May 27 2008, 07:19 PM

if the guy leave his current gf.. sure in the future he will leaver u.. unless u leaver him first LOL

i dun think steal a guy from other is a good thing... it might hurt the origin gf of tat guy...

if he wanna ciao you hold how tight also no use. prevention? maybe. but i think the better method would be to prove to your bf that youre better than her. correct me if im wrong

if the cat been given a delicious fish. The cat sure eat. Unless the cat is full, the cat might eat later.

If I were you, i'd just ask my bf to totally ignore her.
after all, if he really loves you den he'd be willing to ignore her.
why should he keep in contact with her if he knows that talking to her is dangerous (meaning she can steal him lah)
PLUS, if she so easily get him from you, he's not worth stealing back ><
but that's just my opinion lah. 4 years relationship ad mah he should be more understanding towards your feelings.

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Added on May 28, 2008, 7:42 pmps. aiseh, if he can leave u for her, what makes him better than leaving her for another girl?
Let her be. >< karma will pay it back

This post has been edited by alexandrak: May 28 2008, 07:42 PM

so long i din enter tis thread bcuz i tot the prob has been solved..but now things has change...last sunday my bf wanted 2 break off with me..den of cos im not willing 2 do so..i cried beg him try 2 talk him through wit him but he dun even react 2 wat i did..(i never cried b4 so much in my whole life..i nvr beg ppl b4 aso)den on tues wen i decide to let him go cuz he cried wen he call me n told me that he change him mind cuz he cant imagine life without me wen he took a look at those letters i wrote 2 him last time...den i tot everything is ok...we were back 2geta again..but the nex day..in the morning..means 2day...he sms me again.saying he is confuse between both of us...he is makin me so painful..so painful that i cant even bear it anymore... den i jus giv him time 2 think about it whether he stil wants 2 be wit me anot..in the evening i met him..we talked bout it n were back 2geta in each other arms..den i question him y he can do this 2 hurt me if he rely love me so much..den he say that the gal i was talking about..(that ashole)he say he was touched by her cuz she buy cough medicine 4 him(he is having cough)..but at 1st he dun 1 2 tel me y he hurt me like that..until i make him told me this..i was like.."ping pang" glass pecah al over(my heart)he say he aso love that gal..he say he duno y he love her,mayb sumtin new..my heart more pecah....but he say he choose me cuz he noe he loves me more..i think the gal's strategy rely works...i tot my bf is diff from other guys..1 that who wil not cheat on me..one that wil love me always..cuz in these 4 years..i really feel very happy with him..until sunday...now i realize al guys r the same,have the habit of cheating..(mayb sum good ones r stil out there i duno)i stil love him very very much...i stil 1 2 be wit him..wen he ask me ist worth it i do lik that.i say yes,he cried 2...he say i treat him 2 wel...n tis jus happen...help me..im feel so weak right now...i duno wat am i thinkin...

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Added on May 28, 2008, 10:06 pmwat i say in my 1st post is totally opposite of wat i tot he would be...i tot i was having a happy n good relationship.......but everything is so wrong now...wat i did until i deserve this painful punishment......y the gal is so cruel...y my bf wil like her....y am i so stupid.......y y y.......yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.......

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Added on May 28, 2008, 10:34 pmplease any1 who c wat i wrote now...please i need sum1 2 talk 2...im very very sad...i have been crying 4 4days non-stop..my eyes is like swolen like hell..i need sum1 2 hug...

This post has been edited by gracechew: May 28 2008, 10:34 PM

you know in a relationship there is always problem, even if the girl din't exist now, maybe till you get married your husband will still did this too, it's something special that hold the bonds together not just love alone believe me, maybe between both of you he wants something that you don't have at the same time he feels "sam yun" to let go, cheers

This post has been edited by nickisthemost: May 28 2008, 10:49 PM

I put my advice to u in 3 options:

(A) Curse ur ex BF rite at his face.. Throw everything he gave u including gifts back to him.. vow to be the better woman in terms of future and career.. make ur ex regret in the future.. Stop thinking of him.. seek professional advices and support from a matured fren.. Just think of anger not sadness.. slowly it will fade away.. trust me.. anger is the may not be the best medicine but at least it work..

(B) Fight back lo.. Go all-out war.. use every means necessary to eliminate ur competitor at all cost.. use all ur asset..

© Just ignore him and wait and see how things progress in the next few months.. If after a month without any progress that means gg d lo..

Anyway, what for Give up the entire forest for a tree.. Always leave the option open whatever u do..

If u are asking "y am i so stupid" that means u already understand and accepted it.. Just think and do what's best for u.. maybe around the corner there is a far better guy waiting for u.. u might never know.. anyway nvr closed ur option for a guy..

U still have ur obligation to ur family.. maybe true love can be found in ur own family.. they will never disowned u.. tell ur parents what had happen to u.. they will help u for u are their lovely daughter..

Anyway, after a few week u will totally forgotten him if u just stop thinking and ignore him and think back how silly of urself for shading tears for a useless guy.. No point la shading tears for BF.. live still moves on, earth still moving, time moves on, ppl still come and go..

from your words, i found out your bf willing to get u back because u still love her, and not he love u, why the hell he still tell u that he still in love with that girl
my opinion, forget about it and start a new life, no point to get him back since his heart has no space on u

and sorry to hear that, hope u will get well soon, go travel or something might feel u good

Well sorry to hear that, hope you are feeling better now?

I don't know what you want to do after this, but IMHO I will not stay with a man who cheat, period. It's not worth the heartache, pain and youth (hey a woman's youth is limited you know, why waste it?). Once a cheater, always a cheater.

4 years into a relationship, he should have been matured enough to weight the importance of your relationship instead of falling into temptation. Even if he did fall, him dragging this issue out like this shows how incapable he is in dealing with life. Do you want to stay and risk him telling you he fall in love with another woman who bought him flu medicine in the future? That kind of excuse is plain lame.

Treasure yourself girl. Don't let him play you around. If he can't be loyal to you, he's not worth it.

Go out with your friends, go enjoy life. Go for a vacation, do things that will pleased yourself. Move on.

omg. yup, i agree with this.
DON'T LET HIM PLAY WITH YOU!!!!
If that was my bf i'd personally slap and kick him in...someplace ad.
NO guy should ever have that privilege of letting you wait while he makes up his mind about whether he still wants you or not.
you're not an object to be toyed with. period.
if he's so confused then just dump him, cz i'm sure he can do it again next time. ><

ps. that's why i hate guys in relationships
but you cant help but love them too right?
my heart bleeds for u.

pm me if you wanna chit chat or anything.

This post has been edited by alexandrak: May 29 2008, 10:10 PM