i manage to get a girl 10 years younger than me at 39... mid 30s is not old, old is above 60, hell, i never think age is a factor

i guess TS just need to comb his hair, put on some foundation , and post a professionally taken photograph.

well at least to look presentable and well-groomed on a dating site

i am getting rejected just based on age so far, i dont know, we are living in different world.

Via dating apps?

If apps yeah, I think apps sucks. I did use them, but too much waste of time.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Feb 9 2023, 12:39 PM

Normal to get rejected on dating app. Just keep trying. My female friend had to try like 2 years there just to get a boyfriend. Now getting married already.

Then how did you manage to date girls in 20s and 30s if they are not from dating apps??
Through your own social network??
I am just curious....

That's why we have social media!

There's always someone better out there. When you think you've met a beautiful woman, you'll notice there's another better one later on. That is a never ending loop because you'll cross path with many people in this lifetime. It's the same with anybody.

Personally - I've got friends that I feel is doing really well in life, and then I meet others who is even richer and better off. Does that change my perspective? No. To me, that's just another person/ human being. So this boils down to that person's character or personality. Take away his money and looks, is that a person I'll wish to continue associating with? If yes - I'll proceed to keep as a friend. If no, I'll just compartmentalize this person as an associate/ acquaintance and have less contact.

Secondly, you're still looking at something superficial. When you socialize say, with 3 or 4 girls in a group setting, assuming all of them looks similarly good and appears pleasant. There must be something that sets them apart which gives you a certain preference to either 1 or 2 of them. People may say things like "clicking" with someone is too cliché but its still true IMO. How do you even make friends with people you have no common topics or can't click with? Maybe some can, but I find such friendship/ relationship is hard to sustain.

What pool are you looking at? I've never mentioned you're looking at the wrong pool. I guess you're not looking for an average jane but high standard beauties, that's why you kept mentioning money and looks lmao.

TS you've already set your mind so I'll just stop here because I don't see any point in going further. All the best.

This post has been edited by sweet_pez: Feb 9 2023, 04:30 PM

There are some girls from dating apps. Only I do find apps produce very slow results. The rest are just girls I say hi to, or from business network. My approach is to make casual friends among this age group. Then we do some fun things, follow each other on social.media etc.

Basically this gives me an opening into their social circle. They have friends (n btw pretty girls tend to have other pretty gfs), and this is where I came across my current GF.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Feb 9 2023, 05:39 PM

I like your approach of being casual friends with girls. Not many guys have this social skill to mingle around the opposite sex.

just need to work on your charm

It goes back to the two things TS mentioned.....Look and Money...

Not so simple. These 2 things are important but not the only factors. Personality and how u game are quite important as well, n can compensate for s9me of the shortcomings on the look n money part. Similarly, even if good look and rich but bad personality and bad game will be hard to get a nice girl.

I remember you were super negative

Sounds like you've gotten past that stage? Is life getting better for you now?



This bugger (nick vujicic), no limbs also can get pretty wife and now 4 kids I think... what f`king excuse the guys in here have?

No, its charm and having a good reputation.

Women's perception of you is heavily biased by your social reputation. Which is why apps suck, cause that signal is typically missing.

So if her circle of friends think positively of you, your attraction factor goes up. If you are respected by your peers, then that factor increases as well.

redracer2004kindly listen to this podcast
https://m.soundcloud.com/howtotalktogirls/s...iend-series-1-8

when u start with 1.....then rest just comes automatically.
TS, u can do it too !

that bugger is a unique item, got cheat code on it.
1 in a billion should not be an example.

Not to forget he's popular and rich. Don't think women will go for him if he's a nobody. Let's be practical here.

That's just the surface

What qualities did he have to allow him to get there in the first place?

I guarantee he wasn't sulking in front of the computer saying how women don't like limbless men or all they want is money and looks. Don't even talk about women first, if you had a choice to have a drink with him vs redracer, who would you rather spend time talking to?

He worked on himself, and some women liked him for who he is and he just chose from that pool. He just needed one.

I am guessing hardworking, determined, never say die attitude.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 11 2023, 11:48 AM

there was a japanese defect guy who became a player sleeping many women after being a professor for inspiration on stage. if you see the video its on youtube he's just an average old man. Women crave status and preselection, because they're born as passive sex they cant just go around sleep with 100..200 guys just like that (small percentage of asian women), that's why they look at daily mirror and seek external validations. Majority of spending nowadays aim at women insecurity.

nice girl doesnt require much game
Its the hot one that requires polarizing ZFG given attitude
also it depends on the smv of the guy and the girl
if the difference is big, of course game is required