The problem is not your looks or your money. Its your mindset. Your negative mindset gives off negative vibes and women can pick up on it.

I'm short and not good looking, and during my hunting days I wasn't even loaded. Yet, you'd be surprised with the women I managed to pull.

You need to change your perspective on life, and also your views on women in general. If you always think of problems or worry so much about what they think of you, you'll never attract the right person. You'll only attract the very thing you're thinking of; the bad women that will fulfill your prophecies.

Apa takut? Anything its not your fault right, its her. Just tell the dude "Hey, warmed up her up for you, have fun"


Lots of people saying it doesn't mean its true. Especially if most of them are not good looking and have bitter experiences.

Yes, looks play some role.. but to women its really not as important as you think. The #1 thing to a woman is their emotion, their feelings. Looks help you because it gives them that immediate feeling of attraction, but it can just as easily go away if you're a deadbeat loser or do something stupid. Likewise, you can be average and still catch their heart, and it won't matter that other people are better looking, she'll think you're the best.

Guarantee this relationship won't last.

I remember you were super negative

Sounds like you've gotten past that stage? Is life getting better for you now?



This bugger (nick vujicic), no limbs also can get pretty wife and now 4 kids I think... what f`king excuse the guys in here have?

No, its charm and having a good reputation.

Women's perception of you is heavily biased by your social reputation. Which is why apps suck, cause that signal is typically missing.

So if her circle of friends think positively of you, your attraction factor goes up. If you are respected by your peers, then that factor increases as well.

That's just the surface

What qualities did he have to allow him to get there in the first place?

I guarantee he wasn't sulking in front of the computer saying how women don't like limbless men or all they want is money and looks. Don't even talk about women first, if you had a choice to have a drink with him vs redracer, who would you rather spend time talking to?

He worked on himself, and some women liked him for who he is and he just chose from that pool. He just needed one.

Good to hear that

Where did he mention open bottles to impress peers/girls?