Sounds right on paper but in the world we live in, that's a big lie.

I have friends who got a gf from this method, the girl just leaves him for another guy who is more loaded.

Actually it's not only true on paper. It's true in real life as well. You just haven't meet the right one. I have seen girls who goes out with normal guys (my friends). They are ok looking, not rich. Few even get married. Yes they are only making around RM5k/month. Your average Chinese looking guy. Not fat, thin. no muscle, small eyes, normal height.

If were that guy, I will be thankful that I dodge a bullet. Those type of girls they better leave. I don't mind.

You have to consider some girls are very strict in the sense that they won't date divorced guys. That could be the other reason why they don't want to date you.

Er your post regarding Chinese not so accurate. Again as I said so many of my friends making RM5k, now engage or already married.

However money does help. The girl need to feel that you can proceed for her and the kid.

I like your approach of being casual friends with girls. Not many guys have this social skill to mingle around the opposite sex.