got good looks mean being fashionable, even if you had no money you can package yourself so that the girl (presumably she's also hot and dress revealing), both of you can match or she THINKS you can be high achiever

nowadays everything is about marketing, but if you want long lasting result you have to work on many things and its gonna take unknown number of of time

-looks (body, fashion, plastic surgery)
-money (assess to better place instantly)
-fame (assess with better people financially, or better socially to exclusive parties etc)
-game (frame with how you perceive yourself and people around you)

if your gf or partner leaves you for a better one,
just imagine it's a life and death situation
can you be peaceful about it?
If you can, you are on your path

I don't know how many girls I gone out on dates already
majority of them are who themselves, I have absolute no control with how they behave, I can only exercise my own willpower

If I think ALL women are hypergamous is BAD thing, of course I will have a strict reality or lens how I see people. Same goes to how you see women 'trying' to take your money, you will always be restless and cautious how people perceive you once you having a little bit of success in life.

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Feb 1 2023, 11:19 AM

there's a mix of values that women are looking for, and its also tied to their history and how they perceive the world. Objectively a teenager girl thinks being handsome and good looking and football leader is more alpha than having money.

There's also saying that having women in school arena is way easier than being in adult world

lucky then okay, when both of you can be content
there are many people who are spoilt inside and outside until can't receive objective reality

divorced doesnt mean its bad
being a former sl*t doesnt mean its bad

It depends on the person whether he or she can be aware for changes

what's traditionalist men or women do is, they judge someone past and have a restricted mindset how to move forward in life

Divorced males in US are almost zero out because the family court system heavily favors the women, thats why they're not often talked about because of guilt and ashamed.

Thats true, ive asked out a girl she didn't mention whether she had legal arrangement with her 'husband' as she still keen to see me, i was cautious as i didnt want to suddenly getting knocked door when i was trying to hook up with her

I've tried going on dates or approaching stranger girls purposely dress out of my league myself (smarter), most people have a longer lasting impression when initially meeting each other.

If you couldnt change your look, you must change your fashion immediately. You can buy some time for a girl willing to respond to you

there was a japanese defect guy who became a player sleeping many women after being a professor for inspiration on stage. if you see the video its on youtube he's just an average old man. Women crave status and preselection, because they're born as passive sex they cant just go around sleep with 100..200 guys just like that (small percentage of asian women), that's why they look at daily mirror and seek external validations. Majority of spending nowadays aim at women insecurity.

nice girl doesnt require much game
Its the hot one that requires polarizing ZFG given attitude
also it depends on the smv of the guy and the girl
if the difference is big, of course game is required

Most people would rather stay with mediocrity than trying to restart again because they are afraid to be hurt and rejected again. This applies to people with getting older age because life circumstances hardened their perspectives in life that brought them to unwillingness for changes. Which leads to 'less efforts, more outcomes' mentality while themselves may not acquired abundant mindset and resources. They use money as clutch for successes.

Talking to girls being social is a skillset you cant just skip the thing, its part of self development journey (unless if someone treats like means to an end thing which points to the next). I had acquitances who pay for sex, the main reason they confess is 'i just dont want to go through the whole process and courting and possibly getting shamed of my male ego', 'i have not much time to deal with women bullshit'. Even when you try to engage they lack of depth with conversations, their topics always revolve around money with heaviness around it. When you're adjusted to socialize, you can quickly pick up the vibe of who's a real deal in the room

I can get the idea of socializing but spending money on open bottles try to impress peers/girls bringing them for food escapades that can easily out of their normal spending or buying unnecessary stuffs is waste of money

id say majority of youngsters do not have the concept, they like living in the moment

rich guys, they just open wallet its like showing their d*ck size

you dare to say is there any property or smartphone that can fulfill all buyers wishes? Absolutely not. Even if there were inventions done, the market would still hold it just to stir up consumer hunger and buying appetite

In other words, there's no singular product or a person that can fulfill all your romantic/sexual needs. Hence, monogamy is a fucking lie