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So if you got no looks and $$$,can still get girl?, Question time
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Ramjade
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Feb 1 2023, 12:26 PM
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Feb 1 2023, 10:47 AM) Sounds right on paper but in the world we live in, that's a big lie. I have friends who got a gf from this method, the girl just leaves him for another guy who is more loaded. Actually it's not only true on paper. It's true in real life as well. You just haven't meet the right one. I have seen girls who goes out with normal guys (my friends). They are ok looking, not rich. Few even get married. Yes they are only making around RM5k/month. Your average Chinese looking guy. Not fat, thin. no muscle, small eyes, normal height. If were that guy, I will be thankful that I dodge a bullet. Those type of girls they better leave. I don't mind. You have to consider some girls are very strict in the sense that they won't date divorced guys. That could be the other reason why they don't want to date you. This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 1 2023, 01:43 PM
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Ramjade
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Feb 1 2023, 07:19 PM
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Like I said before unless you are super confident and Playboy type, don't go for looks. If you go for looks, how many other guys also going for look. She is spoilt for choice. So you will need to stand out in your dating app.
That's why for I don't bother about those with super model looks, or nice makeup. I went for those normal girls without makeup in dating app and all replied to me like normal.
Yes nice to have super beautiful and hot girl but as the saying goes beautiful girl is not your wife and handsome guy is not your husband.
For me, I am just sharing what works for me.
This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 1 2023, 07:22 PM
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Ramjade
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Feb 2 2023, 11:54 AM
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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Feb 2 2023, 11:34 AM) Btw is this a Chinese culture thing? Avoiding divorced men. P/S Im assuming TS is Chinese also. Maybe. I don't know. What I know is in the US, is one of the yellow/ red flags of a female is divorced female. Based off YouTube I watch. But nothing mentioned about divorced men (maybe I didn't search for yellow/red flags in men). Also when it involved divorce male/female what you are hearing from them is their part of the story. You never hear their the other partner part.
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Ramjade
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Feb 3 2023, 10:10 AM
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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Feb 3 2023, 09:17 AM) 99.9% on looks. Loaded with money is useless unless you're a billionaire. Honest and loyal means nothing when you can't even attract with looks. Money only works on sex workers. I can only answer this from Chinese perspective. I heard the Malay world is more forgiving. Er your post regarding Chinese not so accurate. Again as I said so many of my friends making RM5k, now engage or already married. However money does help. The girl need to feel that you can proceed for her and the kid.
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Ramjade
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Feb 3 2023, 10:22 AM
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QUOTE(ctys2012 @ Feb 3 2023, 10:20 AM) money plays an important part in family upbringing without money you cannot maintain the minimum quality of life, go to school, have nice food, go holidays once in awhile. but do not put too much focus on it else it will eat you up. buy only what u can afford do not wear a bigger hat than ur head... prioritize True. Minimum amount of money is needed for any relationship. But it's not the ultimate cheat code or the main issue. This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 3 2023, 10:24 AM
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Ramjade
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Feb 7 2023, 02:54 PM
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QUOTE(jaycee1 @ Feb 7 2023, 12:32 PM) Haha...right on sis. TS needs to dig deep into what makes a girl tick. Ultimately all girls want is a father figure or what they think or wish thier father could be to thier mom. Read the musings of Carl Yung and the Electra Complex.
No point TS goes after girls that want a rich guy or a good looking man....he's playing out of his league and girls that want that hasn't really figured out what's really important in a life partner. That said, I'm not discounting the biological and cultural precedents of putting emphasis on wealth and appearance. It certainly helps your case to have either or both. But that's not the end of the world if you don't. Do you have a sense of humour? are you well read and spoken? Can you whip up a Michelin star meal? Are you willing to help with house chores as a family man taking care of the household? Some people will inevitably say you are a beta to do it but I can assure you, if a girl finds an alpha willing to go to that level to do those things for her, I'm sure you find many girls wet between the legs for you. What book is that?
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Ramjade
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Feb 7 2023, 03:24 PM
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QUOTE(jaycee1 @ Feb 7 2023, 03:18 PM) LOL I wrote that as a joke. But if you are really interested, you can just do a Google search for Carl Yung, Theory of Psychoanalysis. Jung was a swiss psychiatrist. Jung proposed this as the opposite of Freud's male Oedipus complex. I Google and saw psychoanalysis. I think a bit deep for me. Lol. This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 7 2023, 03:24 PM
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Ramjade
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Feb 9 2023, 12:01 PM
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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Feb 9 2023, 11:57 AM) since when women prioritise looks when looking for a husband/partner?? if u say money, then i believe la if u say looks, it's hard to believe, unless u r really really reallyyyy ugly I think TS is saying need to get the girl out on a date first. The first step to getting the girl out on the date is girl must be attracted to you physically. If you can't attach a girl physically, how is the girl going to come out with you? Just my guess. Btw. I am neither rich or handsome and girls still want to come out with me. Lol. For me, I just be honest and myself. I have nothing to hide unlike bossku. Hahaha... This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 9 2023, 12:02 PM
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Ramjade
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Feb 9 2023, 12:43 PM
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QUOTE(gundamsp01 @ Feb 9 2023, 12:33 PM) i am getting rejected just based on age so far, i dont know, we are living in different world. Normal to get rejected on dating app. Just keep trying. My female friend had to try like 2 years there just to get a boyfriend. Now getting married already.
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Ramjade
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Feb 11 2023, 01:58 AM
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Ramjade
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Feb 11 2023, 11:20 AM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Feb 11 2023, 01:01 AM)  This bugger (nick vujicic), no limbs also can get pretty wife and now 4 kids I think... what f`king excuse the guys in here have? No, its charm and having a good reputation. Not to forget he's popular and rich. Don't think women will go for him if he's a nobody. Let's be practical here.
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Ramjade
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Feb 11 2023, 11:47 AM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Feb 11 2023, 11:42 AM) That's just the surface What qualities did he have to allow him to get there in the first place? I guarantee he wasn't sulking in front of the computer saying how women don't like limbless men or all they want is money and looks. Don't even talk about women first, if you had a choice to have a drink with him vs redracer, who would you rather spend time talking to? He worked on himself, and some women liked him for who he is and he just chose from that pool. He just needed one. I am guessing hardworking, determined, never say die attitude. This post has been edited by Ramjade: Feb 11 2023, 11:48 AM
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