QUOTE(shankar_dass93 @ Aug 7 2011, 03:06 PM)
Take things easy man. Its all part of life. Understand how you feel.
QUOTE(razorboy @ Aug 7 2011, 03:12 PM)
I agree with all except bolded part. Don't wanna get smacked LOL. For as long as you're all right doing it, then it's all good man
QUOTE(ZintanthraX @ Aug 7 2011, 03:55 PM)
errrrr, i thought i'm the only one BBing with that reason. when i'm with her, i can only lift 5kg for db curls. but after we broke up last month, i lift more, to 7.5kg, and now 10kg. some sort of boost for me to move on.
QUOTE(hoxy @ Aug 7 2011, 04:27 PM)
Dont worry, you'll find out someone suitable for you. Women outnumber men greatly now... just need to search the right ones and bear with the process of getting to know with each other, and all the argument and fighting.
Thanks guys. Much appreciated. I was pretty shattered seriously. Shed a few tears and shit like that. Like I said, 3 good years. She started changing when she took a part time cig job, I guess meeting new people, new night life and more money than she was used to. It happens. As of now, when I retrospect and analyze things, if i was still with her the way she is now, I would not be happy and I would drift sooner or later. I guess things happen for a reason, better I find out now than later.
hoxy: you're the luckiest among us. A happily married man. =) I'm aware women outnumber us, but how many good ones are out there? Maybe there are quite a few but at this moment I don't know if I want to take the chance. Subconsciously I might still be healing.
QUOTE(van_takawa @ Aug 7 2011, 06:02 PM)
The thread became quite sentimental.
Bro Darklight, u are still young, so just enjoy SINGLE for the moment, while keep your stimulus on for the Right Lady.
I started training when I have a relationship, she has no comment abt it but later was happy seeing my physical change and start urging me for the 6 packs.
But,later we broke up for some other reasons.
Anyway, I still think that finding a gf who share the same interest is something good.Like HOXY.
Haha.
Screwed my back, brisk walking will be the only thing I'm allow to do.It's time to start from zero for me.
Yeah well, we bodybuilders have our own lives too right? I don't know about you guys but when I broke up, hitting the iron gave me some sort of focus. The anger, the sadness, etc. The iron never leaves you. I neglected to eat properly for a few days, maybe a week, then I was thinking f*** this, she wouldn't give a shit. But if I let go of my body, I would be the one who regrets. So bam! Back I went. And it's better than ever.
This post has been edited by darklight79: Aug 7 2011, 07:37 PM