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That's why I said, what I know or what I have seen is just a tip of the iceberg, or some say just a drop from the entire bucket.

I found him already, and reading now. Thank's wind.

No need lah. I like this thread. I want to know how the money minded girls thinking.

oh you again english police

you havnt answered me how much only can call rich?

since now you brought up about sufficient/decent, may I ask you how much qualify for that?

What is decent? 2k a month? 5k a month? 10k a month? for a family of 3, parents and baby.



First of all you keep asking me, and I'm answering you, infact you complaint I havnt answer you enough, then you turn around and say I should stop this thread? you're very confusing.

2nd you know malaysia style, you tak suka you keluar? you dun like this thread yet you come in here and participate

you want this thread to die off, yet you keep posting to bum this up

moorish please open your eyes and expose to what is reality and worldwide issue, or maybe our country is enough.
if you marry someone rich, pls bear in mind that he works very hard for it, and learn appreciate it. Then I bid you happiness for the rest of your marriage and congratulate you.

Human has a survival instinct, and contantly learning new things to survive, you are human also. Take a look outside, I have seen many working mothers regardless of race, and I highly respected them. Because they can multi-task both at home mother and at work. Biologically they are same as you, a woman. If she can, why can't you? Of course in a corporate life priority is given to ladies, my superior is a lady I have no problem working with her.

this thread can continue for millions years until Girls are money minded NO MORE.....

You want to teach us not to have a life? And are you trying to say money is more important than the life? OMG!

Do you know we only live in this world once? If work hard until got no life just for money, then what is the purpose to born in this world? What is this life for? A robot? To feeds the princess? So they can goyang kaki at home or hangout with friends?

I really pity to the people who have a simple minded. In their mind all think about money.

Please watch “Clicks” to understand more about what I’m trying to say.

For me, life experience is more important than the money because money anytime also can get. Life experience is not.

i tell u this, not all gals are money minded. Those gal who money minded i've meet in real life, never rely on their boyfren and husband, they made their own single cent, this is what i looked up. Some even support their boyfren, of course their boyfren own some decent quality as well. And because of that, i look at this thread title, and see what other replying. It gives me a feeling that "Guy who not rich = not self motivated, and is a huge sin for not getting rich." Do u get what i mean. these people live in their own world.

both men and women are money minded.

Men have no choice but have to work for money.

Women have 2 choices either work for money or marry a rich man

The is a myth that being rich are normally sad and lonely. Since when having too much money makes one feel sad or lonely.

Chinese proverb :

If you have no money even if you live in a busy city, no one will visit you.
If you have money, be it you live way out of town people will still visit you.

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Added on October 7, 2009, 2:46 pm200% AGREE

YES, it is a SIN for men to be lazy, and not earning money.

If girl want money, girl go work for money.

This post has been edited by blitzboy: Oct 7 2009, 02:46 PM

kawan, i dun think they will understand even after they watched that movie.

Yes, I will go on on this topic. And I hope this mindset of pursuing-higher-income husband/bf will got sapped off by your professional comments, which has been set as a goal for myself and my future husband since I was in secondary school. I don't mind to tell you I don't come from economics background and I come from art background. So I seriously hope that with your economics knowledge and qualificiation, convince me to lower down my criteria, both I set for myself and my future husband.

No, it's alright if you share me the 4 Chinese virtues, I'm ok with it, my mother is a woman with this typical virtue. Ok then, "出嫁从夫", so I hope the woman will just follow her man wherever he goes, work and stay at home take care of children and house works and not to drop a tear whenever his husband get laid off and change to become self-demotivated, instead of never cease to get discouraged and be possitive and look for new opportunities. Can you do this?

Please don't insult me to call me kiddi, if you claim you are high educated person. Respect other while you respect yourself.

Yes, your attitude is very impressive.
I sincerely hope that you won't give up though your salary may not be decent enough to bare the family alone.
My belief is very simple: self-motivated guy will have a yielding life.
My best wishes to you.

I don’t like when some spoilt girls trying to brainwash the good girls.



Must be they are ego to understand because too much fantasy playing in their head.

No.
Can you guys please don't take the example literally? Can you please don't quote the sentence out of its content? I'm just telling you if a man is willing to take up the responsibility and self-motivated, he will make his own effort to do his best. Even if he is sick, but you can't close the whole company and sleep at home when you only have normal flu or cough. Read the meaning! Don't just read the words!

When you have done the calculatioin to feed children for private colleges, bills to pay, you won't simply close down your office just because you are fever. Take it or leave it. Up to you. It's because of my father, I love him very much and I tell myself I would rather stay single if I can't find a man that is as tough as him. It's because of my parents I put high aim for myself to sacrifice my own dream in art industry and work hard and smart in another industry, which I don't have a proper knowledge for the entire industry, climb higher for better income to feed my parents.

And I do encourage gal who wants individual extra material luxury and expenses, go and work and earn money for that, not cling on husband.

What disappoint me is there are some guys have not done their best in career and ask gals to work to bare the family expenses with them so that they can continue to stay at comfort zone.

Totally understand what you mean I agree what you said, it's kind of insult for those guys who work out of their socks and still not rich. Do they not self motivated?

Lines from Robert Kiyosaki :

A highly paid slave is still a slave. (slave=employee)

There no job security as long as you are still employed.

Therefore being an employee, must have savings and mind his own business by diversifying his investment portfolio. Until a point his investment generates passive income he/she can retire early.

Not all people are lucky. Some people work gawd dang hard until retire also didn’t reach 5 figures of monthly income. Some people no need to work hard but money is like drop from the sky for him to enjoy.

Now a days Men have choices like woman as well beside work for money, they can marry a rich GAL..
"Little White Face"

Lol.. ya.. last time she call me 21 yrs old guy not yet self dependant/cant support family n d cant provide my view..


Now u call her kidi..

Yeah, moorish.. why so quiet?. No reply for my early post?
Tat means my assumption on ur answer is correct.

hahhaha

"Slipper rice eater ". That man like that must hide his face somewhere else away from public.

I can't tolerate men like this. If my wannabe-wife earns more than me, I will threat it as a bonus, not an entitlement. I will work harder to prove I can do it also.

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Added on October 7, 2009, 3:11 pmI think she is looking and seeing reality now.


This post has been edited by blitzboy: Oct 7 2009, 03:11 PM

I dowant cham ka the chat threads. Can't I just buaya you here?