Don't you know real story is hard to be script? There are many who could follow, so if you can't, I just could not help.

LMAO you really dig that. Why didn't you reply my previous post but now so sensitive when your identity is almost disclosed?

So answer me, what makes you claimsthat James is an ahole as if you knew him for 12853281592350 years?

8-9 years ago, when I was a teenager, I rarely thought about the price to love a girl. It was real blind love. Forget about match or not based on our family background.

After my PhD graduation, I confessed, I took her for grant. I thought she had been waiting for many years, so separating seemed impossible. That's why I was quite aggressive to change her in the past. I was aggressive at times after drinking as well.

She is not a liability/risk at all! I love her deep down. I just hope to gratify both my family and her. I presumed that dad and her would have countless spat in the future. And I would have hard times to pacify all sides. If I fail to convince my dad, even after marriage, she might be unhappy.

I guess it's better to solve the problem right now rather than putting it off.

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Added on December 10, 2009, 12:40 pmSorry that I would not reveal any location information in response to your inquiry that put my privacy at edge. Please respect my privacy as everyone in the forum has their own right to privacy. I see revealing my location won't help at all to authenticate this thread.

You could have thousands and one reasons to accuse me of being a liar.

I reiterate, if you are unhappy with this thread, which is your own personal issue, please ask the moderator about my IP location. I have been most considerate to support the moderator to tell the truth. From now on, all replies related to private information would be ignored.

Thanks for being understanding for me, and Winne.

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Added on December 10, 2009, 12:49 pmYou owed everyone in this forum an explanation! My IP address! What was your finding? It's going to be 24 hours soon since your pledge to authenticate my IP.

Don't twist and turn our attention to James. I'm in the least bit interested to know about James. You better give a good response as I have nothing to hide!

Just tell everyone, is the IP address an NZ one! Unless you twist the fact, it's NZ!

This post has been edited by theWinner: Dec 10 2009, 12:52 PM

How will it violate your privacy? Who's going to come knocking on your door? I'm not asking for your exact street address, I just want to know which city you live in.

You're only destroying your own credibility. Fake.

Yes yes. I'm a mod. And I can ban your IP address whenever I want to. So I suggest you be polite to me or I'll make your thread vanish into thin air.

You owe me (and others) an explanation too. Why you say James is an ahole? If you choose not to answer this, I'll assume that you're a troll and delete this thread.

Looks like OP is still down and about being on his father's leash. There are times when, one just HAS to grow up and tell daddy no >.> Unfortunately, to you theWinner, intelligence was just something that happened to other people wasn't it?

Mistake is still a mistake. Memories will always remains memories.

I'm not saying she is a liability/risk. I meant that you are making a dicision based on the risk of either loosing her or loosing your family. You are weighing between that and that's why i said you are playing safe.

So, the way i see it is either your parents accept her for who she is or you leave her and nvr look back.

Make a choice. Don't stand in the middle. It hurts. Fight back and make your stand or leave her forever.

It's your call man.

Are you saying regardless of whether what your parents say, you will marry her?

aiyo.... the ending sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo unwanted 1

This post has been edited by outsider: Dec 10 2009, 09:02 PM

I don't think you understand what his sentence says.

Erm... Mind to share what you think he says?

Thanks ya

TS you dont answer my reply since i post the reason.. or are you tring to attract symphaty of your failed life?

You are just like my worker, want to leave work because hes homesick and the fathersick or what shit hes talking about. Giving all the bullshit excuses and last i found out he ACTUALLY do NOT want to work !! Have no heart to work at all. I told him all the shitzers he's spewing is nonsense and all he wanted is to go home and suck his mother milk.
Which he say "YES" i DONT WANT TO WORK !! This is from the bottm of my heart."

So TS i guess you are like this guy. He is only been in a rig, where is is isolated from any form of contact except communication. He cant stand being away and making shitzer excuse just to leave the rig ASAP knowing the consequences when he goes back before his time.

So TS tell me the truth, why the hell you keep giving all this people Bullshit excuses??

I SUPPORT THIS!!!

well honestly, since the very beginning when I first read ur post, it seemed rather alright but as it progressed into the later part, it simply makes me doubt bout the authenticity of the story as if it was extracted out from a love drama or something. You probably might think that you will attract lots of people's attention to ur storyboard but somehow people's gonna starting flaming ur thread, I suggest closing this thread to avoid any further misunderstands too.. Unless otherwise, provide some pictures or something that might just convince us of ur *so glamorous* life..

*comment left by a normal girl who just thinks that this is toooo fairytale-ish for her...

This post has been edited by mandyxt: Dec 11 2009, 12:01 PM

Winner, that's why I said: post up your picture.

+1
p/s : oh ya, since u said u are busy business man.. why u still got so many time to browse and reply on LYN i tot business man just know reply all their jobs things only.

This post has been edited by StrawberryGirL: Dec 11 2009, 12:15 PM

Sorry everyone for tardy reply lately.

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Added on December 11, 2009, 7:48 pmBecause the stranger punched me! If not because of Winne, he might have turned me into vegie. He is more than an ahole!

I have forgotten about the incident now, otherwise I will show many true colour.... legal action! Well, I'll never do it coz it will hurt Winne most.

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Added on December 11, 2009, 7:55 pmPut it this way, I'll marry her based on her decision.
Parent wise, there is only one way to please dad, the results! He wanted to see my results, anything else seems to be so trivial. If I could deliver, I guess he wouldn't constraint much, but this is just my guess. Having said that my success should be largely credited towards her, then dad will know she's a good daugther in law. Sigh... my burden is getting heavier!

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Added on December 11, 2009, 8:15 pmLife's complicated. What you have read in this thread are just tip of the ice berg.

Pressure was mounting from all sides:
1. To give Winne a happy life;
2. To convince my rigid Dad that Winne is a good DIL. And, Dad is getting old and sick, so if we could not see eye to eye, it might deteriorate his health condition, something that I never want to provoke;
3. To deliver extraordinary results expected by Dad who always proud of getting business on the run from scratch!

I'm more like a living dead to fulfill others, and sadly the pressure was the only thing that has kept me driven to this day.

Some blame me for many reasons because you never see this in a holistic manner. I'm trying my best to make things work, while keeping everyone happy.

Yes, some of you said, if you love her, go and get her, don't bother your Dad. It will never work if you see this dilemma from the aforementioned three perspectives. To me, I never regard my happiness important. I just hope everyone happy, as simple as that. If Winne feels she could be happier with me, I would be grateful for I love her very much.

Now, I'm a loser who has yet to achieve anything. Fingers crossed, I'll pull through.

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Added on December 11, 2009, 8:23 pmIt was just my perfunctory attempt to help you all to believe in me so as not to disappoint those who have helped me a lot. Sorry, if you feel I'm here to claim my own credibility, I'm in the least bit interested to do so. I don't need credibility, I just hope the good posters could continue to help others in CC.

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Added on December 11, 2009, 8:30 pmWinner and Winne Song:

無求甚麼　無尋甚麼　突破天地　但求夜深

奔波以後　能望見你　你可否知道麼

平凡亦可　平淡亦可　自有天地　但求日出

清早到後　能望見你　那已經很好過

當身邊的一切如風　是你讓我找到根蒂

不願離開　只願留低　情是永不枯萎

而每過一天　每一天　這醉者

便愛你多些　再多些　至滿瀉

我發覺我最愛與你編寫　以後明天的深夜

而每過一天　每一天　這醉者 (這情深者)

便愛你多些　再多些　至滿瀉 (然後再多一些)

我最愛你與我這生一起　哪懼明天風高路斜

名是甚麼　財是甚麼　是好滋味　但如在生

朝朝每夜　能望見你　那更加的好過

Winne, I'm sorry for I have hurt you deeply.
I'm an ordinary man trapped in a wealthy family with stringent rule.

How I wish we could understand each other more than anyone else.
How I wish I could come from an ordinary family to be with you unconditionally.
How I wish I could turn back time to re-kindle the simple love once we had.
Finally, how I wish you could read this thread.

This post has been edited by theWinner: Dec 11 2009, 08:44 PM

Well, that proves it then.

I know why you're afraid to reveal where you live in NZ - because some of us here have been there, and can question you about it. I was certainly going to. I lived there for a year and a half, and I had a whole questionnaire prepared, one that anyone who's lived there long enough can easily answer.

And if you did answer it, if you were for real, I'd vouch for you. But since you chickened out, that just confirms what you are.

Winner, I thought you said you are 28? How come you practice Traditional Chinese characters? Do you know only our parents' generation that practice Trad. Chinese?

Cantonese is in traditional Chinese like 滿瀉.

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Added on December 11, 2009, 8:54 pmBaseless accusation is unscrupulous. Your many "IF" statements tell you are uncertain about me. You might want to ask mod about my IP, or you might want to get a mod account if you are so keen to know about my location.

It is 1:55am here in NZ. I'm drinking alone, so don't ask why I still awake at this time.


This post has been edited by theWinner: Dec 11 2009, 08:54 PM

What he did was right, especially if he is her current BF. Heck, even if he was just a friend, what he did would be right.

Try to think how it looked like from his perspective and imagine if some other guy was doing what you were doing to her, and she was showing signs of resistance and pushing that guy away. Wouldn't you step in to defend her? Just because you don't have the balls to throw a punch, doesn't mean what he did was wrong.

What YOU did was wrong, your approach on her was incredibly stupid and can easily be seen as sexual harassment. You want to sue? You'll lose.