PhD in Engineering

I'm not geek lah... I'm not smart enough... definitely not Cambridge material.

My GF is stressful lately with work and her sister illness, so I never ask her about our relationship. We have Skype everyday for 15 minutes, embarassingly, it's much longer than ever before. Good progress eh?

I wonder if you are havin' your alarm clock set to maintain your Skype conversation in 15 minutes? So everythin' done accordin' to what you set strictly is a good progress? Aren't you following the flow and feel instead?

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Dec 13 2009, 05:31 PM

To be specific, I count every single word, and mystically it ends exactly in 15 minutes! That's more accurate than an alarm clock!

P/S: Sarcasm is a norm in NZ. But somehow, Malaysian could get ireful out of it. No offence, just in case some people do not understand the culture.

Actually, I never sweet talk. I'm reluctant to do so, don't ask why, I don't know either. Probably I have lost interest in sweet talking at 28? We chat about our routine and recent happenings. So, it takes longer than before.

This post has been edited by theWinner: Dec 13 2009, 05:46 PM

I see I see.

So what are you tryin to me about the Sarcasm matter? You get offended by my questions?

No lah! Just in case some people could not catch and thought otherwise, though I'm certain you understood.

In fact i get what you meant but after you have mentioned about Sacarsm, I confused. Cos it seems Sacarsm has nothin to do with alarm clock setting conversation...

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Dec 13 2009, 06:15 PM

Winner, your dad sound like my dad and your mum sound like my mom.

haha i had a girl like you, unfortunately she found a better bf. I once say "I love you" and "trying to win her backl" too, but it was a failure, going to clubbing also the same, as she do not like to go clubbing, i feel guilty when i went clubbing, and your age different almost similar with me.


Up tilll today, i think of her everyday.. esp some song which reminded of her and Dec, oh December...is the days she give her love to me but thing doesnt turn out as i thought it should be and i left all the memories behind, trying to find a new beginning as MY is tainted with sweet memories, so i left MY to further study. yes escaping! After i left MY, she got a bf, lucky as*hole.

For your Dad, is the same as my dad, my dad always like to challenge with me and expectation is high. Me and my dad always argue everyday, i find it annoying that my accomplishment doesn't fulfill his needs, since he is a successful man

However, my dad is in Engineering field which mean no life field, last 9 years ago he had persuade me to go study Engineering, i got in of course and fail misery which intended so.. that time is was my rebel moment with my dad, then i told my dad i couldn't continue your foot step but my brother can, and so after my bro finish high school, he straight goes in Engineering field, and yes my brother is like you Winner, Daddy Successor I create my own success, thank you very much.


Right now, my current stage, i feel regret but i learn to accept the reality of life that she is gone, my dad still support me , my mom told my dad "not everyone like you, your son want to create his own success" then my dad straight LOL then my mom very piss off with my dad because he LOL, in the end my mom doesn't cook for 2 weeks, asking my dad to go out eat. Yes my mom cooking is very good!

Seriously, i dislike my dad, however when i got into some serious business trouble, he always there to yell at me and then help to fix the problem.

Now i am in Australia, going back in Jan, i always go back MY feel sad, honestly deep inside my heart, comparing to other girls like Korean, Taiwanese and Hong Kong, i will never feel content because no girl can compare her but i always tell myself dont do that which sometime doesnt work.

This post has been edited by Plant: Dec 13 2009, 06:31 PM

Hi Mr Winner. Try talking to real life girls.

Then maybe you'd feel less of a need to create elaborate forum stories and defend them.

I hope I would not follow your footsteps! I love Winne most, I could not lose her Every night I think of her. Mystically, she always looks young in my mind, and I could never fall asleep without her beaming at me!

Yeah, Dad and I always roar to each other. But, I have been getting soft lately because he is getting old and sick. I could only use the soft approach now. Same here, when my GF and I separated for one year (I'm trying to patch up now), I used to fantasy Korean, Japanese and Taiwanese cute girls, I thought I could forget about her, but instead, the sense of guilty and love for her grows as time goes by. Sigh... my fault.

Winner, I don't want to bash you nor disappoint you but from what you have portrayed thus far, you are going to fail for the second time.

Oh gosh, u people need to stop feeding him the ATTENTION!

U went Uk and didnt get to know any Korean, Japanese and Taiwanese cute girls? O.O" u seriously joking? i am in Australia and most of my friends are from different country, i didnt know any malaysian.. well a couple rich malaysian.

if ur dad pass away, mean u inherit his wealth and u r his only child right?? if not, the elder right??? so .. u know what to do.

just jk.

btw is this ur first love? the first love is hardest to let go... as u say love for her grows as time goes by.. yes i agree but in time the grow will stop at some point and slowly disappear. I understand how u feel, i dunno why u post such a thing in lowyat, i mostly deal my problem with some personal close friend of mine, not forum stranger who give advise and bashing you.

so.. if u want to win her, u can try.. i am not advising u or anything, i just see the surface story, the whole story never reveal. No one that innocent.

So this is my last reply, good luck, u will need it.

i think u stil do but this time u add a specific character .... well,seems like nothing gonna update til christmas ... beside the 15mins skype.

All men like that de....

so disappointing

Man is man;
PhD man is still a man.

So, do not put high hope on men who are high-educated.

PLEASE LA.. I DUNT BELIEVE TAT A MAN THAT HAD HIGH EDUCATION, RICH AND GOOD LOOKING WILL ONLY LOVE ONE GIRL ONLY ...

FROM UR STORY, U R BEGINNING TO LOOK DOWN ON HER WHEN U R IN HIGHER LEVEL...

PLEASE DUNT ACT TAT U R SO LOYAL N GOOD MAN , OK?

CUT THE CRAP....


U REALLY WASTE OUR TIME HERE....

err, are you watching too much taiwan dramas?

You could never undermine my capability! I'll win this time

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Added on December 15, 2009, 3:59 amYes, first and only love for 8 years since 19 years old. I have only one lover!

This post has been edited by theWinner: Dec 15 2009, 03:59 AM

What kind of loser who blatantly calls himself a winner?

This post has been edited by Deadlocks: Dec 15 2009, 07:56 AM