Still, I believe yours is a fake hiding under an alt. There is no freaking way anyone can pour their life story out into an internet forum when they haven't been here before unless it is fabricated.... duh.

I asked for private information? Dude, are you really a PhD holder? Please READ. I gave "examples" which would help substantiate your story. The main point is that you provide some sources to substantiate that you're not just talking out of your ass.

Of course I have been in LYT, but I was in the other forum, the real world issue. I was then BN supporter under username WizGuy, but people misunderstood and thought I was a BN cyber troop and being scolded endlessly! Desperate, I never go to real world issue anymore.

This is my first time here in CC under, and I'm comfortable using my real nickname, Winner.

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Added on December 9, 2009, 5:34 pmYou are good at twists and turns! You suggested real name, remember?

Go and find some decent proof yourself. I said a Kelab Golf DIRAJA cost about RM20,000, can you proof this? Thanks!

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Added on December 9, 2009, 5:36 pmNorth Island. that's the most I could tell.

This post has been edited by theWinner: Dec 9 2009, 05:36 PM

it's funny to see people argue over the matter of Winner being real or not, in a place where almost everyone remain anonymous - you can't even be sure who's troll, who's fake, and who's real. How some people here can make bold statements is beyond me...

Why can't you tell exactly where? If you did, you could prove yourself.


This post has been edited by n00b13: Dec 9 2009, 06:27 PM

Its a suggestion

A cost is going to be a strong point to substantiate your claims I'm just trying to tell you that your story is just too unbelievable and sounds more like a fantasy from a daydreaming nerd than something that actually happened. Did it really happen? I'm not sure, but if you can substantiate your story then it would give you more credibility.

oi, don't spoil the fun

close this topic la ~~~
the winner always correct...and he always win

we all are loser ~~~~
there no point to argue

let him become ghost haunt her forever .....
i demand close this topic .....

I think, real or not is not the matter anymore.

The only thing I want to know is the outcome. But then, to wait for the outcome, it gonna to be a never-ending-thread, huh?

Where's your finding? Can't you tell? Or you don't want to tell the truth? I have been waiting for long, though there are some who are more anxious than me.

Doesn't CC rot your brain and make you want to /wrist at the same time?

It's like participating in the Jerry Springer show and Geraldo Riviera. I feel like b****slapping myself for this.

Dude, I fear nothing out of this. A handful of elite/senior member are making remarks that are uncalled for, and I do not want to disappoint those who have been helpful and serious to this day. I received many PMs and good advice here, and with hands over heart, I definitely never want to demotivate them.

This post has been edited by theWinner: Dec 10 2009, 04:00 AM

Seriously, if ur name is really winner...
i swear i going to vomit every time i call it out...

And his gf is winner with out an r

Yeah. I got confused when reading the story. There was Winner and Winne. I thought it was a typo, I thought it was the same person
Then came Alice out of nowhere. I got real lost there :\

Lets review the story and the what you reply..


Marrying a girl comes with a great responsibility to a guy. After so much discussion here, I hope you see the reality of marriage. Someone said we do not match because of the stark contrast among our families. I agree with their points that one should have a long insight what's gonna happen in long term. It's about bringing a happy life to her in the long term.

You know the responsibility but you decide to break off meaning you accept the fact that you cant give her a happy life but then again you try to hit back on her again so she could be in your arms once again. What the hell is that? And you listen to this "someone" about you and your GF not match?? This mean you are NOT mature to make a life decision, if next time you marry her, and listen to this "Someone", i bet your marrige will last less then a year. You Dare to approach her but dont have the BALLS to start your life with her?? If you cant move on with her to the next level.. DONT move at all. Stay and read this Theads of people option until you rot and until she marry someone else.


Now, say you do what you have preached, do you think your family will accept her with open heart? For any problems or issues, no doubt, she will be blamed. The fault is not at her side, it's me if you see in the bigger picture. It's me who never convince my family to accept her.

Question is.. DO YOU LOVE HER? Why do you care what your family thinks? Human thought change in time, and time is what we have currently but limited.

Just because I love her, and so dad should accept her is not gonna work for a rigid person like him.

Even the most stongest defence have a weak spot. As any parent, is the children childrens.

I'm trying my best to convince my dad to see this in a holistic manner. Having said that, one should evaluate a daughter in law, with hands over heart, in a logical manner. I told my dad, what does golfing, swimming, attending important functions have to do with her as a mother, wife and daughter in law? She has been obedience and patience with me during the past eight years.

Your Dad wants to see is RESULT !!! All talk and talk is talk, he knew you will not do anything cause he says so and you are obedient enough to follow order. Make RESULT !!! He will eventualy accept cause you are his only son. If he sees a grandson, i bet you he will say different thing than before.

I regret and realise that she's truly my GF.

You realise but still havent got the balls to say " I DO".

My advice.
STAND FIRM WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT and JUST DO IT !!!! like the NIKE way. " JUST FREAKN DO IT".

Oh! I thought the story was only on page 1 first post

Hi, been following your story for some time. Just a piece of my mind.

No one can force you to do things that you don't want. That is the one thing that God gives you.... a free will. You make your own life. You make your own money. You are who you are.

Just to clarify, do you listen to your dad cos you need his money to survive? Or cos you are obedient. If it is the former, than I can't advice you. If you are the latter, I strongly feel that you should make your stand.

And I can't help to wonder what is your current stand. You are so worried about your parent's wish. Get a grip of yourself and stand by your decision. Either go against your parents or leave Winnie alone.

I feel that you are just playing it safe. You don't want to make your stand against your dad because you are not sure you will win Winnie/Alice 's heart again. You are making a calculated risk decision. It's up to you really whether you want to take the risk or not. In the end, its your life and your happiness.

EDIT: When i said make a stand, what i have in mind was jsut do it your way whether your parents agree or not. You tried talking to them and it doesn't work. So, you jsut don't care them and do what you like. No need waste time to talk and explain to them.

This post has been edited by cadmus: Dec 10 2009, 12:03 PM

Which city in NZ do you live in?

If you can't even reveal that much to clear your name, it'll be pretty obvious you're just a fake.

wah this fella TS ar ... really cant read one hor .... watever post tht is opposing him , he sure had some idiot explanation.

ppl ask for exact place in NZ , not address ma. juz gif the town + street name la.y u scared we all gather as a group come find u izzit? ( althou this can stil b fake coz easily can b find thru internet )

secret in suit? wat secret make her cry? wats so sensitive it cant b reveal here? unless its ur naked pic la then u r shy to say ... if its a letter said its a letter , if its a ring say its a ring ... secret? either it doesnt exist or u dunno wat u put thr.

all the while u r saying EX or Winne .... suddenly changed to "GF" then said she havent answered .... if she havent answered means she isnt ur GF la ... urself got problem recognizing words some more wanna say im wrong ...

for the camry , i onli said "a bit" not logic ... means thr is stil possibilities its real ... ini phd ada faham "a bit"? some more if company car also wouldnt b 100% logic lo ... i knew a lot of ppl bought car under company for tax purpose ... means they will get something better n more expensive coz its under company irb wont kacau much .... some of my frens company not as big as urs , manager got accord , directors drives bmw 5-series .... n u as anak boss drive camry? then means other directors n managers no company cars or they given myvi? or i think must b ur chinaman dad lo ... wanna save money liao ...

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Added on December 10, 2009, 11:12 amsome more i already support u ma ... c my previous post ... i already say u shud get bek "winne" liao ...

but u din comment on tht post la ... u muz agree liao lo ... coz if u dun agree u sure got tembak balik 1 ... so now im ur supporter .... lazy to tell anything liao la

yala yala , tht james is an ******* la , winne is destine for u la , u 2 love each other very much , ur dad is the best dad in the world , n u got the best job in NZ while u r goin to inherit a very big company , everyone here MUST support u , thr is no reason for any1 to say u r bad now coz u CHANGED.

c , i re-affirmed my support towards u ....

This post has been edited by santaclaus: Dec 10 2009, 11:12 AM