Yeah, she's lovely! For the past eight years, I have been stressful and having sleeping disorder at times, and frankly speaking, I could only sleep while thinking her smiling to me.

But, I'm in a difficult position as well as my father is very strict, he has the highest expectation on me.

My father advice was to avoid me being "Yee Sai Zhou", a womaniser who play around and fail to achieve everything. That's why he totally disagree I have any intimate relationship before marriage.

But, she misunderstood. She aroused me just to test if I'm strong and wanted to know why I never approached her. I was extremely angry on this! How could she think I'm weak? She should be more logical!

u choose your own wife or you let your father choose the girl that he wanted to be your wife???

u should ask yourself this question .....
have you heard "a successful businessman behind him must have a successful woman"??

use this statement to fight your dad    bcos it your own choice...not him
i cant help you, my advice may not be correct ... but your answer is in yourself.... sometime people forgot this kind of question.... you need to ask yourself ....the answer is in you...not in us ~~~

TS,

I bet u are enjoying this. you present us with your beautifully orchestrated love story just hoping to be blessed back with our sympathy especially from girls. i read your posts and replies, u only accept comments from the girls and condemned the guys. i know people like you, sweet talk to get girls. you tell us stories that will melt every girls in here, people like you are really cocky and talk the talk. some guy here even said u r enjoying this, and yes you are man.

you have proof yourself to be a really desperate guy. forcing her to be with you, therefore you are officially a wussy.

At this point, I would just have to say, the choice is her's. If James happens to be her BF, and she chooses him, that's fate, I have really tried my best. Yes, it was my fault, I hope she could accept a fresh new Winner.

I beg to differ your point. What if James is a real Axxhole? What if James is a womaniser? Or James has debt under his belt? Isn't that I'm a savior?

I agree, I see no point James punched me, but I might appear aggressive. I was a bit aggressive in the past especially when drunk. She knows I like drinking and my slight aggressiveness when drunk.    

In short, the choice is hers.

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Added on December 8, 2009, 12:30 pm

Alright, I'm sheep A gentle sheep

So, you meant I skip flight? I might be kayu, but actually, I need to come back to conclude my research in NZ, after which I would be free and I might go London next year. Too much to contemplate during that one hour before flying. I communicate with her daily now, though I never ask about James and patching up. I'm afraid she gets worried.

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Added on December 8, 2009, 12:32 pm

Why should I listen to you with your "didi" remarks? The unfavourable joke that nobody cares, didn't you realize?

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Added on December 8, 2009, 12:33 pm

Plagiarise? Please substantiate your claim. I would appreciate you show me who is plagiarising my love story.

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Added on December 8, 2009, 12:35 pm

Noted. Priapuseros vs. Dad 

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Added on December 8, 2009, 12:38 pm

Priority now:
C : your winne
A : your dad & mom
B : your job , your phd or watever

I have put my own priority (B) at last. Yeah, I have good job and prospect, supportive mum. I need Winne! She need my caring and love too

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Added on December 8, 2009, 12:40 pm

Why you want my picture? I don't think you'll believe my picture anyway. Even if I put up one, it will be censored (like JAV) with mosaic.

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Added on December 8, 2009, 12:41 pm

Not twisted, but incomplete. There are some interesting parts that I skipped. Actually, other than flight tickets in my suit jacket, there were... secret! I think she was touched with those secrets.

happy ending or not i'm still wondering why is there people still enjoying posting here to talk about someone else relationship