Hi, been following your story for some time. Just a piece of my mind.

No one can force you to do things that you don't want. That is the one thing that God gives you.... a free will. You make your own life. You make your own money. You are who you are.

Just to clarify, do you listen to your dad cos you need his money to survive? Or cos you are obedient. If it is the former, than I can't advice you. If you are the latter, I strongly feel that you should make your stand.

And I can't help to wonder what is your current stand. You are so worried about your parent's wish. Get a grip of yourself and stand by your decision. Either go against your parents or leave Winnie alone.

I feel that you are just playing it safe. You don't want to make your stand against your dad because you are not sure you will win Winnie/Alice 's heart again. You are making a calculated risk decision. It's up to you really whether you want to take the risk or not. In the end, its your life and your happiness.

EDIT: When i said make a stand, what i have in mind was jsut do it your way whether your parents agree or not. You tried talking to them and it doesn't work. So, you jsut don't care them and do what you like. No need waste time to talk and explain to them.

This post has been edited by cadmus: Dec 10 2009, 12:03 PM

Mistake is still a mistake. Memories will always remains memories.

I'm not saying she is a liability/risk. I meant that you are making a dicision based on the risk of either loosing her or loosing your family. You are weighing between that and that's why i said you are playing safe.

So, the way i see it is either your parents accept her for who she is or you leave her and nvr look back.

Make a choice. Don't stand in the middle. It hurts. Fight back and make your stand or leave her forever.

It's your call man.

Are you saying regardless of whether what your parents say, you will marry her?

Erm... Mind to share what you think he says?

Thanks ya