DO NOT even ATTEMPT to reconcile with her, unless you've sorted yourself out. Whether its being a daddy's slave or scheduling your time better so that you can both spend time together. Seriously, 5 minutes a week?? You're telling me you couldn't even take 5-10 minutes out of your daily eating schedule to give your gf a call and talk to her?

Wah, the TS update sounds too fake to be true. Need some source to back up the story, otherwise it sounds too fabricated. Written by a nerd dreaming about what his career and love life could have been like and all the drama that it entails.

In the end, your story just paints you as another loser, the name "Winner" doesn't suit you at all. Your "best effort" is basically begging her to accept you back, if that is your best, it is very pathetic.

I is dull and dumb?

Don't need pictures.

Just have to give us things like what exact performance the girl played in during that time. Which university he is under/going to, his real name and we can see if his credentials are real. Which project was he managing that netted him 300,000 in 6 months. Stuff like that will help substantiate his story.

All I ask is that you substantiate your claims. If you're 1/2 as smart as you say you are, then you would know how to substantiate it without needing to reveal any personal information.

I asked for private information? Dude, are you really a PhD holder? Please READ. I gave "examples" which would help substantiate your story. The main point is that you provide some sources to substantiate that you're not just talking out of your ass.

Its a suggestion

A cost is going to be a strong point to substantiate your claims I'm just trying to tell you that your story is just too unbelievable and sounds more like a fantasy from a daydreaming nerd than something that actually happened. Did it really happen? I'm not sure, but if you can substantiate your story then it would give you more credibility.

oi, don't spoil the fun

What he did was right, especially if he is her current BF. Heck, even if he was just a friend, what he did would be right.

Try to think how it looked like from his perspective and imagine if some other guy was doing what you were doing to her, and she was showing signs of resistance and pushing that guy away. Wouldn't you step in to defend her? Just because you don't have the balls to throw a punch, doesn't mean what he did was wrong.

What YOU did was wrong, your approach on her was incredibly stupid and can easily be seen as sexual harassment. You want to sue? You'll lose.

n00bi3 has proven himself worthy in this forum already, just because he is a "junior" member doesn't mean anything. He is far more credible than you, and based on the way you write, he has way more intelligence than you do.

Second, your English is poor. Don't bother trying to justify it by saying you talk Manglish casually and only proper English formally, language isn't so easily separated. From the way you write, its obvious that English isn't your first language and that you're not very good at it. Its not THAT bad, and just because you have a Ph.D and probably write a lot of reports and stuff, doesn't mean your English level is any good.

I've read many poorly written English text from professors and such, its not a problem really, as long as you can understand what they're trying to say.