A love story from busy guy, My failed relationship
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 Dec 23 2009, 08:10 PM
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Winner, finally it's the end, and glad you did the right thing!
 in the end, you've learned about love, you'll eventually meet another girl that you love, and also love you. life has got so much more meaningful things waiting for you to do. so live on a cheerful life! take care and God bless!  |
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Dec 23 2009, 10:30 PM
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283 posts Joined: Sep 2008 From: KL 
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good luck winner!
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Dec 23 2009, 10:32 PM
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QUOTE(Winning11 @ Dec 23 2009, 10:30 PM) good luck winner! LOL Another winner here... |
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Dec 23 2009, 11:16 PM
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Keep Walking !!! |
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Dec 25 2009, 12:46 PM
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that is one KAO story. i read while taking a dump.
but looks like it was your mistake for taking what you had for granted. i think if you really show it you might have a chance, but then again, maybe its best you found some NZ chicks? diversify your portfolio sometimes you dont know what you might be missing out on. and you're one smart guy. with good prospects of earning 50K a month for projects as a freshie. thats really good. |
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Dec 25 2009, 02:23 PM
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We never know maybe she sacrifice alot too but maybe TS dont understand what she wants? There so many possibilities in reality.
Sometimes ppl give their love ones everything they can but question we all wonder is , is that what she really wants? Some ppl release their tension differently some will get themselves drunk, some will sleep around, some will just cry alone, some will just shop like crazy, some will just blaST THE music loudly, some will travel, some will just stay home watch TV. Dont always feel sorry for every story you hear because you are not the spectator you are just a listener like radio they tell u what they want u to hear. Not what is really really true. It could even be that guy she with 3months gave her what she wants or need. Maybe TS after 8 years still do not know what she wants? We do not know but its one of the many possibilities. |
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Dec 25 2009, 02:38 PM
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This thread reminds me of Proposal Daisakusen, Operation Love.
http://wiki.d-addicts.com/Proposal_Daisakusen |
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Dec 25 2009, 11:22 PM
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romantic bro...so sweet ..keep it up u deserved to be with her ..wish u good luck and have a happy ending ...n_n
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Dec 26 2009, 04:00 PM
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QUOTE(little ice @ Dec 23 2009, 08:10 PM) Winner, finally it's the end, and glad you did the right thing! Knowing you all are supportive here in LYN, I come by the CC on a whim in the end, you've learned about love, you'll eventually meet another girl that you love, and also love you. life has got so much more meaningful things waiting for you to do. so live on a cheerful life! take care and God bless!  Thanks for your encouragement.I don't kow it's a happy or sad ending, but I'm glad she has chosen the right man Anyway, I think I have come to term with it though I was adrift a couple of days ago. I just came back from a short vacation during this Christmas season and feel much better now.Meet another girl? Probably some time later You know I have been a horrible BF, I know.Added on December 26, 2009, 4:03 pm QUOTE(simplesmile @ Dec 25 2009, 02:38 PM) This thread reminds me of Proposal Daisakusen, Operation Love. Nah... if I could turn back time...http://wiki.d-addicts.com/Proposal_Daisakusen Added on December 26, 2009, 4:04 pm QUOTE(jd low @ Dec 25 2009, 11:22 PM) romantic bro...so sweet ..keep it up u deserved to be with her ..wish u good luck and have a happy ending ...n_n Nah, we have separated....This post has been edited by theWinner: Dec 26 2009, 04:04 PM |
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Dec 27 2009, 11:38 PM
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now break again
 see when u will post together again  |
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Dec 28 2009, 12:32 AM
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QUOTE(theWinner @ Dec 11 2009, 07:43 PM) Sorry everyone for tardy reply lately. u should forward this thread to winne so that she will know your deep down feelingAdded on December 11, 2009, 7:48 pm Because the stranger punched me! If not because of Winne, he might have turned me into vegie. He is more than an ahole! I have forgotten about the incident now, otherwise I will show many true colour.... legal action! Well, I'll never do it coz it will hurt Winne most. Added on December 11, 2009, 7:55 pm Put it this way, I'll marry her based on her decision. Parent wise, there is only one way to please dad, the results! He wanted to see my results, anything else seems to be so trivial. If I could deliver, I guess he wouldn't constraint much, but this is just my guess. Having said that my success should be largely credited towards her, then dad will know she's a good daugther in law. Sigh... my burden is getting heavier! Added on December 11, 2009, 8:15 pm Life's complicated. What you have read in this thread are just tip of the ice berg. Pressure was mounting from all sides: 1. To give Winne a happy life; 2. To convince my rigid Dad that Winne is a good DIL. And, Dad is getting old and sick, so if we could not see eye to eye, it might deteriorate his health condition, something that I never want to provoke; 3. To deliver extraordinary results expected by Dad who always proud of getting business on the run from scratch! I'm more like a living dead to fulfill others, and sadly the pressure was the only thing that has kept me driven to this day. Some blame me for many reasons because you never see this in a holistic manner. I'm trying my best to make things work, while keeping everyone happy. Yes, some of you said, if you love her, go and get her, don't bother your Dad. It will never work if you see this dilemma from the aforementioned three perspectives. To me, I never regard my happiness important. I just hope everyone happy, as simple as that. If Winne feels she could be happier with me, I would be grateful for I love her very much. Now, I'm a loser who has yet to achieve anything. Fingers crossed, I'll pull through. Added on December 11, 2009, 8:23 pm It was just my perfunctory attempt to help you all to believe in me so as not to disappoint those who have helped me a lot. Sorry, if you feel I'm here to claim my own credibility, I'm in the least bit interested to do so. I don't need credibility, I just hope the good posters could continue to help others in CC. Added on December 11, 2009, 8:30 pmWinner and Winne Song: 無求甚麼 無尋甚麼 突破天地 但求夜深 奔波以後 能望見你 你可否知道麼 平凡亦可 平淡亦可 自有天地 但求日出 清早到後 能望見你 那已經很好過 當身邊的一切如風 是你讓我找到根蒂 不願離開 只願留低 情是永不枯萎 而每過一天 每一天 這醉者 便愛你多些 再多些 至滿瀉 我發覺我最愛與你編寫 以後明天的深夜 而每過一天 每一天 這醉者 (這情深者) 便愛你多些 再多些 至滿瀉 (然後再多一些) 我最愛你與我這生一起 哪懼明天風高路斜 名是甚麼 財是甚麼 是好滋味 但如在生 朝朝每夜 能望見你 那更加的好過 Winne, I'm sorry for I have hurt you deeply. I'm an ordinary man trapped in a wealthy family with stringent rule. How I wish we could understand each other more than anyone else. How I wish I could come from an ordinary family to be with you unconditionally. How I wish I could turn back time to re-kindle the simple love once we had. Finally, how I wish you could read this thread. no point of you telling all this to us without her knowing it she is the main purpose you express the feeling here right? |
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Dec 30 2009, 12:45 AM
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this just begs the question. you've been her since you were 19. dont tell me you guys never slept on the same bed ? and when you went to genting you slept on seperate beds. i mean, honestly thats like a shot in the head to a girl. she would so take it the wrong way.
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Dec 30 2009, 02:40 AM
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QUOTE(Cristiano-Ronaldo-7 @ Dec 30 2009, 12:45 AM) this just begs the question. you've been her since you were 19. dont tell me you guys never slept on the same bed ? and when you went to genting you slept on seperate beds. i mean, honestly thats like a shot in the head to a girl. she would so take it the wrong way. they didnt slept on separate beds, separate room.worse than a shot in the head. anyhow, everything has come to a conclusion. let's respect the girl and stop pushing situation to what we expect to be (TS with the girl) |
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Dec 30 2009, 06:28 AM
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QUOTE(theWinner @ Nov 29 2009, 02:04 PM) » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « To skysherly, I realize your point, but I had taken my commitment to her seriously. Alright, I'll take more time off the next time, thanks. |
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