congrats TS ... based on ur story i can c u r not a "yee sai zou" but sadly u r a "kwan kiok zhai" ... so if ur dad ask u to eat shit then u 100% eat la??? u r almost 30 n ur brain is rusted ... got a PhD but think like my 3 years old nephew ...

n frankly ur dad thinks he is rich n wealthy ... so ur gal tht stayed in a old double storey house is farking poor n not match with u izzit? since u r earning so much ... y u must force ur gf to do things ur way? since her income doesnt bother u , juz let her b wat she wanna b as long as she is happy n not tarnishing her n ur family ... if teaching music n earning less is pathetic ... i c ur dad n ur mind is more saddening ...

after so many years , no sex relationship = u r strong? i think u got problem izzit? n when she took the first step u reject n angry? wtf? it might not b a test but its bcoz she really thinks u r the 1 n wanted to go 1 step further ... or mayb after so many years , it is an important test , a test to c whether ur "didi" can function onot ...

n u r so busy u cant accompany her more , yet u can spend time browsing the internet n book facial appointment for her n post this with replies in LYN .... biggest joke of the millennium liao

conclusion , idiot gets Phd , but onli follow chinaman dad's order , lastly blame gf not understanding enuf ... TS if i were u , go work as robot whr ur dad is the controller n wait ur dad to choose a gal he likes , then u marry her n get ur dad a grandson ... ur life will b easier but its not ur own life ... it's juz part of ur dad life since he's controlling it .... u wasted ur life ...

i cant believe someone who said he is so busy that he cant spend time with his gf BUT be able to mingle in this thread for so long

TS , u never replied my post earlier accurately ... yes u cant change ur dad , so it doesnt mean u can change ur gf ... everyone haf their own interest n attitude ... if its not bad then y change it?

u r really a 100% "kwan kiok zhai" ... u said u r a PhD holder with tons of talks n seminars ... these earn u a decent amount of money ... so y cant u juz work out thr n end sometime with the 1 u said u really loved? y muz u do ur dad's business? y muz u entertain those high end client by protraying ur gf as wat they wan to c but not wat as she is? all i can c is about money and selfishness .... u wan to earn more , u wanna take over ur dad's business , u wan everyone to praise u godlike , u wan everyone around u to pay attention to u , n its not onli ur dad , u urself felt u shud haf better gf n thus u wanna change her into someone u hope she would b ... but alas , changing a human doesnt mean splurge some money for expensive makeover will do the trick ...

instead of changing her into someone she felt so stressed n unhappy , haf u ever think of changing urself? y dun u juz put ur "high class" mind aside? y cant u think for her at least once ? y cant u skip some golf / swimming n allocate these time for her ? if u felt shopping with her is boring , at least bring her for some meals ( u stil hafta eat rite? or the rich doesnt eat? ) ... mayb u could go to her place after work be it late ... i think she'll b happy enuf even if u slump on the couch , resting ur head on her lap ... even when u r juz askin some minor stuff bout her such as how's her day been going ... i bet she'll b happy rather than going to expensive facial treatment ALONE.

u cant change ur dad but u can explain to him y u choose the other path ( if u want ) ... here u juz follow wat is been told n clearly u chose to b a daddy's boy ... in the end , no matter which gf u pick , im sure ur dad will stil say these things to u ... the onli way u will get his blessing is when the gf ur dating is the 1 he chose for u ...

she stayed so long by ur side even u treat her like this , thr is love in her heart .... but for ts , all i can c is selfishness whereby he think he shud haf a gf rather than single bcoz he is so successful ... but all he wans is someone who will make other ppl praise him n jealous of him bcoz he is rich,successful n haf a beautiful "high-class" gf ........ if like this pls go get a HK superstar or models ...

TS ... ur "didi" stil working onot? got go check? get high doesnt mean its alrite ... u might haf pre-mature le ...

This post has been edited by santaclaus: Nov 30 2009, 11:22 AM

too chiong hei liao but cant tahan after this "kwan kiok zhai" so idiot but stil thinks he is very good n blame his ex-gf ...

wtf? ppl said dunwan the diamond ring u stil wanna post the receipt? wat u wanna show u farking rich izzit?

black = u r an idiot
white = u r ignorant
grey = u r an idiot n ignorant

anyway i c , u r an arsehole .... wat shade u stil wan us to put u in?

TS ... pls dun go n kacau ur ex again la ...

u said u wanna change ... can meh? u think not buying roses n diamonds , not waering suit is changed liao?

u stil do wat ur dad says ... u stil spend less time with her later ... now u wanna propose to her? wat if after she married u ... stay with ur parents who will say things to her? wat if she is force to do things she doesnt like? worst is u never by her side ... n she hafta cope this alone again ... this time a simple break-up wont help ...

most important ... wat if ur "didi" is really malfunction?

u did said she live in a OLD double storey house ... u did said she is really amazed when she saw ur dad's house ... u did said she earn a mere rm800 ...

u oso said u got a camry ( btw i think camry so so nia ) , a 20k club membership , thousands on dresses , facials bla bla bla ... high class clients who laugh at ppl , chinaman dad who thinks teaching music r for retards ...

and after all this , u stil couldnt figure the real problem ... its not tht u rent a waja n go empty handed tht she wans ... u really idiot la ... if u could provide a better life for her its better of coz la ... who wans their other half to b poor ....

the problem is priority , how important she is to u ... u r neglecting her behind everything in ur life , even ur client's dog eye is rank higher than her feeling ...

The mantra isn't "Listen to her, spend more time with what she wants to do, understand what she likes to eat and do, and always put myself in her shoes, understand her emotionally"

its a 2-way comm , if u force urself doin tht , some day later u will feel stressed n frustrated .... since u stil dun understand how the 2 of u can b together happily .... pls dun go torture her again ... its better for both of u to b separated ....

ok i noe chinese got saying not good to separate ppl ... but this "kwan kiok zhai" really too much ... cant help

TS has no balls ... how to talk to his dad ....

proof > eight years oso no *** .... coz no balls ... scared will make the gf shocked ...

eh , TS din update? or his creativity dried up liao? or mebbe its a true story but the ex rejected him? or mebbe TS wait the balls to grow b4 negotiating with DAD? TS come bekkkkk ....

i wonder the ex-gf c this thread? she shud patch up with TS ... uses his cc kaw-kaw , no nid call or find him ( let him keep himself bz with work ) while go enjoy herself with other frens , when TS angry can juz throw bek the cc to him n say bye bye ....

mehhhhh , TS u really ......

come back n argue with dad onli then dun even know whether u already patched up onot ?

leave the gal la .... u makin ppl's life worse .... obviously she might had some feeling kept towards u but she cant b sure thr future is clear ... u urself cant even b sure u could change ... even if u changed,would u b happy? forcing urself to change will eventually make u behave weirder n this will led to more arguement , disappointment .... at last problem arise again ...

y go n make other ppl confuse n stressed .... if this story is real , all i can c is tht u wan to get bek someone u lost , u felt tht u shudnt lose anything ... but if ur real name is "winner" .... i'd said u already lose , its a laughing joke when everyone c ur namecard with tht pathetic name printed on. u said ur gf appearance make u lose face ... pls go ask bout those ppl who laugh their ass off when they know ur name ... "winner"? muahahaha

frankly , im doing business as well althou not as "BIG" as ur dad .... if im earning 50k pm , im very happy ... but to me doin business is always about maturity , trust .... with a name like "winner" , im somehow skeptical those super rich big boss would have trust on u ... at least if u approach them urself ( now u got ur dad , they ok la ) ... i oways wonder y got ppl put their name "winner","billion","million","money","king","queen", ... feng shui izzit?

This post has been edited by santaclaus: Dec 6 2009, 12:24 PM

ya ya ya , i know its a nick ... butta if its not meant to b known out thr , how come ur ex gf's dad call her "winne"? ok put this aside ... u said u r ready for a change ... i meant is how ready r u? do u think u cant cope watever happens later? had u told ur dad ur intention to patch up with ur ex? had u tell ur dad u wanna have ur own path instead or living behind his shadow? or had u even discuss to any1 about wat u r goin to do be it ur mum ( whom u said is soft spoken n i assume she is more understanding ) or ur sis ( whom u never mention u r close to her or mayb u r juz as ur dad thinking women shudnt think of anything beside cooking n giving birth? )

the word "change" isnt as simple as it is said ... i've met dozens of ppl said "i will change for the sake of this or tht" doesnt matter they wanna change for their love one , themselves , career ... i'd seen it all .... but how many r really ready n had the courage to do so? when thr r changes which drastically affect ur life , ur mind will automatically do something to prevent it n make ur course bek to ur own behaviour .... can u withstand tht? normally ppl who do this will find themself very bad tempered , depressed and even start to regret ....

if u r determine to change for her , tell ur dad ur decision n not juz "fat pei hei" n stand outside the door like a small kid waiting his parents come n "tam" .... remember its a discussion , its a decision u gonna tell ur dad ... not a nother meeting whr u propose ur idea n wait for ur dad decision .... from wat i c u r afraid to confront ur dad ... u wanna wait the ex to come bek then onli u wanna tell this to ur dad , coz u r afraid tht if u told ur dad first n the ex doesnt come bek , u'll lose everything ... this is selfish n hypocrite ....

to me its not me who doesnt understand ur situation , juz tht i din c things on the surface as u did ( a phd konon ) ... its not like saying "hey , i'd changed , come bek to me" ... how u can let her know u'll really change for the good? how u'll know everything will go as planned? how u assured ur ex she'll never hafta go thru wats she hate again ? r u ready to b mocked by family n frens? everything will affect u n ur ex in the future ... n these r wat ur ex wanna b assured of. not those bloody stupid things like i purposely fly few hours to meet u , im ready for a change , my balls grew n i can had my "didi" function bulls**** ......

This post has been edited by santaclaus: Dec 6 2009, 01:57 PM

its not tht winne n alice tht confuse me .... i noe wat u meant but u r the who doesnt get wat i mean .... if "winner" n "winne" is juz a nickname between 2 of u ... y would her dad called her tht? my dad never called me "santaclaus" for god sake ....

freedom? i dun c any freedom is thr ... thr is onli "negligence" i had seen so far ... u dun ask bout her frens , her work , her family ... all u ask is for her to change her job , change her appearance , change her look .... u call this freedom? for this last 2 years dun say u dun ask her wat happens n u dun mind even she is really together with tht james bcoz u haf no right to do so ...

n once again i can c tht u r not an open guy ... u onli accept ppl who support ur current action but not to opposed ... u feel tht its ur birth right to get her bek ... u feel tht those who said u shud get her bek is those who really thinks ... while for a bunch of us who stand by ur ex side is juz as dumb as ur ex's thinking.n tht is not open to me , thts the arrogance tht stil lurk within u , "ready for a change?" i doubt u ever changed a bit ...

go bek to ur daddy n whine ... wait ur dad to tell u wat to do ... then go n boast to ur frens tht u r stressful coz u r born in f*cking rich family where u had too much to bear .... n yet i laugh at a phd who come in LYN for advice ...

muahahaaha .... but this cant work ... TS already no balls so thr is nothing to cut

oh no , i didnt realised im immature by doing this , im so sorry TS , let me fix myself ....

winne is such a beautiful name n it compliment winner very well , both of u shud haf put this in ur mykad so the everyone will know how wonderful is this name.

based on ur story , u must be from a very affluent n wealthy family , i bet u r very successful n handsome also ... wat a perfect guy ... i couldnt believe thr is such a perfect guy ever existed in this planet until ur appearance ... imagine a handsome guy driving a stylish camry in his suits .... oh my,any gal would haf die for him ....

winne is such a wuss , she shud haf know poor ppl are stupid ... she shudnt haf break up with u ... its a blessing she got u ... she shud haf juz quit her stupid lame job n stay at home .... she shud go for facial n slimming everyday as if these were her job to make sure she look like a human ... n wtf about the old fashioned 1 pc swimsuit .... if she havent been out thr for a long time , at least watch tv la .... she is such a pain in the ass ... buy a dress oso cant decide? she is 5 yrs old izzit? go ask her frens la since they shud b in the same low life poor ppl who dun nid to work ... y bother TS who is so bz with projects worth millions? they think the damn dress could compensate the minutes TS waste on looking at it?

n now TS wanna patch up things after so long abroad , wahhhhh , wat a true love , the feeling stil burns after so long , its like a modern era of romeo n juliet , tht dumb Winne shud haf juz accept TS to patch up things , tht James? ditch him la , i dun think tht james got any wealthier than TS ma , he sure cant afford membership worth thousands n facials everyday ... so y wanna stay with this loser?

even after patch up , winne shud not keep TS bz la ... ppl haf to work oso , TS haf such a big company to manage n he is a genius , a genius never rest or u might say everyone is looking up to him , how can he slack ? tht winne , ppl gif u money to spend the juz spend n keep the mouth shut la , stay at home n do house chores , ur bf/husband will come to u when he nid u ... y bother ... u r givin ur spouse more pressure n stress him to the max ... whr is the understanding side?

and TS i must say u r the most obedient n loyal son of all , even ur dad pressure u so much u stil stand beside him. ur supportive act shud b realised by winne .... she shud haf support u to work harder. having a dad tht plans everything for u , is a blessing. its so good tht even u dun even haf to worry just about anything beside working hard to b a successful person ... everything else dad will decide for u , how i wish i had a dad like tht. then i could juz b a robot , without any worries.

conclusions , winne shud patch up with TS if she had the brain. She shud haf change her pathetic look n mind. not many poor person b able to b change into a rich person. she shud b grateful. when a rich person say its not good , then its not good. i dun understand y these poor ppl wanna argue? if they r clever they'll b rich already ma .... her dad cant help her deciding everything in life , then let TS dad decide for her la ....

p/s : well , am i matured now? i doubt so ....

errr .... the "didi" joke is mine .... n its not a joke ... u shud b worry bout it ... balls

ini cerita penipu ... said skype with gf ... then say decision not made ...

This post has been edited by santaclaus: Dec 8 2009, 02:57 PM

born in a rich family whr dad's face is like a golden statue .... a project earning 300k in 6 month is consider b*llsh*t .... but get a camry nia .... a bit not logic

said skype with gf , but later said "winne" stil doesnt gif answer .... something not logic

said met ex then fight with james ... then ex come to airport ... so drama , not logic

main point , phd holder , damn bz , onli can spend 5mins with gf , BUT can open this thread , follow n read all post , realize how many pages its been n how many views it got >>>> farking tak logic la boss....

wah this fella TS ar ... really cant read one hor .... watever post tht is opposing him , he sure had some idiot explanation.

ppl ask for exact place in NZ , not address ma. juz gif the town + street name la.y u scared we all gather as a group come find u izzit? ( althou this can stil b fake coz easily can b find thru internet )

secret in suit? wat secret make her cry? wats so sensitive it cant b reveal here? unless its ur naked pic la then u r shy to say ... if its a letter said its a letter , if its a ring say its a ring ... secret? either it doesnt exist or u dunno wat u put thr.

all the while u r saying EX or Winne .... suddenly changed to "GF" then said she havent answered .... if she havent answered means she isnt ur GF la ... urself got problem recognizing words some more wanna say im wrong ...

for the camry , i onli said "a bit" not logic ... means thr is stil possibilities its real ... ini phd ada faham "a bit"? some more if company car also wouldnt b 100% logic lo ... i knew a lot of ppl bought car under company for tax purpose ... means they will get something better n more expensive coz its under company irb wont kacau much .... some of my frens company not as big as urs , manager got accord , directors drives bmw 5-series .... n u as anak boss drive camry? then means other directors n managers no company cars or they given myvi? or i think must b ur chinaman dad lo ... wanna save money liao ...

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Added on December 10, 2009, 11:12 amsome more i already support u ma ... c my previous post ... i already say u shud get bek "winne" liao ...

but u din comment on tht post la ... u muz agree liao lo ... coz if u dun agree u sure got tembak balik 1 ... so now im ur supporter .... lazy to tell anything liao la

yala yala , tht james is an ******* la , winne is destine for u la , u 2 love each other very much , ur dad is the best dad in the world , n u got the best job in NZ while u r goin to inherit a very big company , everyone here MUST support u , thr is no reason for any1 to say u r bad now coz u CHANGED.

c , i re-affirmed my support towards u ....

This post has been edited by santaclaus: Dec 10 2009, 11:12 AM

no more updates while this thread is goin to b a counter post thread by TS towards those doubting him?

or has TS failed? TS no idea how to elaborate his fairy tale?

i think u stil do but this time u add a specific character .... well,seems like nothing gonna update til christmas ... beside the 15mins skype.

aiks ... i tot kolos liao?