obviously he's busy lar.. c to be continued...

I'm waiting for the story, Winner.

i'm a guy and u are terrible~ if I were given a chance to select who dies next in death's list (final destination, lol), I will undoubtedly select u~

nothing to say to u except these, glad u asked the girls but whether I'm pretty sure there are some girls out there who would already say that you are not good enough to be any girls' BF~

u make the rest of your sex lose our honour~

I've been keeping track of this thread. And now, i wanna voice out my opinion as a girl and also having a traditionalist father.

Yes, i must say that you're selfish, self-centered, arrogant, egoistic... Just like my father. Everything must be about himself, himself, himself. Men and wealth, must be powerful. 'Kiasu', definitely yes.

My brother is the only son in the family. Absolutely, he loves him more than me and my younger sister. I'm sure my mother, my sister and i won't get a penny if he dies.

Ooh how i loathe you so much!

P/S: I must suggest you to marry a woman from a royal family instead.

serves you right well... greatly scripted. but still doesnt sound like u r really hurt.

This post has been edited by KVReninem: Dec 5 2009, 10:28 PM

that is too harsh my dear

its not easy for a girl to cut off the 8 year relationship chain, and it is definitely no easier to mend back the chain

so, let her go ya k, treat this as a lesson and find other girls, but don't ever repeat your old self already

If I'm the girl, I hate your rational. Love = rational? NO!

Hi ihatekiasuppl.

too bad i cant see a happy ending

the main point now is WHAT NEXT ?

Think rationally, why would she called a guy to come?
You made her angry because your way is too forceful.

You think that she still had some feelings on you,
And you just hugged her without her permission,
Her feeling is not yours,
COME ON!

What if she had a BF (James)
You will hurt her even deeper.

You lost your rationality when smtg didn't turn up right like what you predict.
I know you're trying your best,
But if you let your feeling to control your action,
And things get worse,
Don't regret what ever you do.
You might end up with nothing and having bad memories.

You think she will trust you after what you did in her past,
And you just appear suddenly and tell her like that,
How could she believed and accept it straight away?

Anyway, is my opinion.
Not to offend anyone XD

Research is the easiest. You know why? Because 1+1=2, nothing else, and it's non arguable.

Love is complicated. Can't tell.

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Added on December 6, 2009, 6:53 amSorry if I had reminded you of the bitter past.

I'm glad you hate me, for there is no other person in this world who hate me like you do. I could not recall a single moment when my GF gets temperamental and into cold war (小姐脾气). She's a strong girl who keeps things to herself, and a dumb guy like me never cared to ask.

If she could find relief in slapping me, I would hope she could slap me endlessly.

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Added on December 6, 2009, 7:01 amSorry to keep you waiting. And, sorry again, I was rude to you yesterday.

P/S: I bought a Scottish whisky tax-free at the airport. Upon reaching home, I logged into lowyat while sipping before I realised I got a bit drunk. You are indeed supportive, and I appreciate your critical views at all times.

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Added on December 6, 2009, 7:03 amI'm sure she would be sad to hear about this.

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Added on December 6, 2009, 7:08 amYou are such a hypocrite to tell this. Your father brought you up, instead of giving the judgment on who he likes most, you predict that he leaves you penniless. You dare to say "If he dies"! Be a good girl and be a good daughter.

Your suggestion tells you are a real hypocrite! Love is love. Can't a guy like me get a simple girl?

Note: Story updated.

This post has been edited by theWinner: Dec 6 2009, 07:11 AM

u dunno anything about traditionalists...? my mum got treated the same way 2... never inherited anything from her parents... at least she still earns 15X wat i earn...

from wat u updated... i would assume u r the type wat people call "pai kar jai"...

i have a cousin who was almost like u... only... his story started way earlier in his life than u... in his secondary school days and it ruined his SPM and even his degree studies... he is now in a weird semi-arranged marriage though...

and somehow... i also feel tat u don understand the bitter side of life...

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Added on December 6, 2009, 7:42 amagreed... sounds more like broken e-penor...

This post has been edited by t3chn0m4nc3r: Dec 6 2009, 07:42 AM

u choose your own wife or you let your father choose the girl that he wanted to be your wife???

u should ask yourself this question .....


have you heard "a successful businessman behind him must have a successful woman"??

use this statement to fight your dad bcos it your own choice...not him


i cant help you, my advice may not be correct ... but your answer is in yourself.... sometime people forgot this kind of question.... you need to ask yourself ....the answer is in you...not in us ~~~

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Added on December 6, 2009, 8:39 amby the way...now she got bf ..... i think u better wish them happiness .... dont because of your dad scolding you that you are failure because of your past project , and u wanna get sympathy from her( sorry, but i really feel that u wanna get sympathy from her).... you should get on your life without her if she dont love you

This post has been edited by outsider: Dec 6 2009, 08:39 AM

I so dont get the Alice/Winne part. Your ex got split personality disorder now?

I'm Winner. While we were in UK, I suggested her Winne as nick name. We loved each other very much, and promised to keep our nick Winner and Winne forever. I suppose she was sad upon break up and she subsequently changed her nick to Alice without my knowledge.

Hi All, story updated.

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Added on December 6, 2009, 11:49 amNo, I don't need anyone sympathy. far be it from me to feel even the slightest self-pity.

I'm confused. I don't care if he is her new BF or otherwise, but I could deeply feel she still have feeling towards me.

This post has been edited by theWinner: Dec 6 2009, 11:49 AM

dude..there is someone who willin just be her rescue boat.

but for your case, i think u need to reasses yourself...of all you did n commented here so do include our view.

her father was right, you know her too well & you neglected her WAY TOO MUCH..

just give it sometime, n PLEASE GO CHANGE YOURSELF & STOP BEING UNDER DADS SHADOW.

she is tired, coping with her sister sickness & her work. she need someone supporting her, days like you were in college or before your degree.

remember, it takes 2 to dance well...

This post has been edited by KVReninem: Dec 6 2009, 12:03 PM

mehhhhh , TS u really ......

come back n argue with dad onli then dun even know whether u already patched up onot ?

leave the gal la .... u makin ppl's life worse .... obviously she might had some feeling kept towards u but she cant b sure thr future is clear ... u urself cant even b sure u could change ... even if u changed,would u b happy? forcing urself to change will eventually make u behave weirder n this will led to more arguement , disappointment .... at last problem arise again ...

y go n make other ppl confuse n stressed .... if this story is real , all i can c is tht u wan to get bek someone u lost , u felt tht u shudnt lose anything ... but if ur real name is "winner" .... i'd said u already lose , its a laughing joke when everyone c ur namecard with tht pathetic name printed on. u said ur gf appearance make u lose face ... pls go ask bout those ppl who laugh their ass off when they know ur name ... "winner"? muahahaha

frankly , im doing business as well althou not as "BIG" as ur dad .... if im earning 50k pm , im very happy ... but to me doin business is always about maturity , trust .... with a name like "winner" , im somehow skeptical those super rich big boss would have trust on u ... at least if u approach them urself ( now u got ur dad , they ok la ) ... i oways wonder y got ppl put their name "winner","billion","million","money","king","queen", ... feng shui izzit?

This post has been edited by santaclaus: Dec 6 2009, 12:24 PM

Hello santaclaus, did you read my previous post? I said Winner and Winne are our nick name, which are informal.

Did I said I forced myself to change? I said I'm ready to change for her.

I don't see you understand the discussion here, or you never read or listen properly.

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Added on December 6, 2009, 12:46 pmTrue, I did feel James was merely a rescue boat. I understand her more than anyone else, and she never appears to love someone 8 years elder than her.

YES. I'll give her more support and share her plights together.


This post has been edited by theWinner: Dec 6 2009, 12:46 PM

U know, when yest i read the ending. I really feel sorry for you. I mean, flight to my just to get back with ur gf and fail....
not everyone in this world hate and blame you..
they just wan you to wake up.... from your world that is most people do not experience before.
I do not know how people like u might feel... is always to depend on the people itself..
is very easy to blame someone than to be done yourself..
try ask someone be on your shoe...
wat i think wat u did... is bravery .....
man.... when i read your 1st post.... i really dislike u...for treating a girl in such a manner.... be gentlemen a bit.....
but if i in ur situation.... i will do the same thing....( on getting back ur GF)
fight for the person you love....

for me.... i believe love only come once in your life...
do not let go,
do not regret....
fight for the person you love....

all the best for your positive ans...
as i say .... love only come once in life...
for you guys to last 8 years...
if that is not love... i dont know wat the heck it is...
good luck !!

This post has been edited by Peacetaker: Dec 6 2009, 01:37 PM