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This post has been edited by debbieyss: Dec 5 2009, 01:55 PM

chill chill no point arguing here.. lets help him.

I flamed debbieyss, it was my fault. Sorry debbieyss, smile

What you worry about? He is making a life now don't you see that?

Ok. Since you are gentle enough, I will forget about this.

don't force things to work

Winner, you don't like to watch a movie & suddenly the DVD got jammed when it is at climax, do you?

so, please remove "to be continued" and.. continue the news.

so far, from your update, she is doing great. As a girl, I'm proud of her

If it is meant to work, naturally, it will work.

Pushing too hard, no good.

Still, nice to see your update.

Hopefully, you as a person, change and look from her perspective.

Give me time, it takes a lot of courage to tell... Sorry, I'm a bit tired though.

LOL, this is the time I say dai 9 sei.

chill alrite..

everything will be alright in time ^^

Gals, am I the worst BF? Do you hate me? I know you hate a BF like me! I felt myself the worst BF.

This thread is going to be more than 20 pages very soon, hate me or not, you all have been blaming me wrong, but then why you wanna help an arrogant person like me? I'm curious.

I never self-pity! So, if you wanna scold, please go ahead.

Note: Story updated in first post. Thanks.

This post has been edited by theWinner: Dec 5 2009, 03:47 PM

From the update, sounds like you are in peril.

No, I'm fine. Just feel a bit tired to be a good BF, while being a good son.

Those of you who think that I'm working hard, and neglect relationship, just because I'm going to inherit my father business so that I could earn more to make the rich richer and poor poorer are absolutely wrong!

It's about being an obedient son. My father is getting old and sick, and I have always been thinking of making him less worried. So, I worked hard to achieve something.

Years overseas pursuing my education. If I were really money minded, do you think I have the courage to pull through till PhD?

Far be it from me to be a good BF, as well as an obedient son. True, I'm just a loser who have failed miserably at both. Father never satisfied with my achievement, while GF left.

No, I'm not self pity, don't get me wrong. But, at the age of 28, how many of us fail both.

This post has been edited by theWinner: Dec 5 2009, 04:30 PM

As i see from the update, your ex ( i presume), now with another guy? Correct?

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Dec 5 2009, 04:33 PM

Ok, let me smear some shit on your face.

You dun even know who James is, and you're degrading him as an ahole. He was just trying to prevent a fight between you and your EX-gf. This shows how shallow you are. Also show how desperate you are.

You only started to appreciate a person when that person is gone.

I wonder how will you react when your money is gone. Call me sadist, me waiting to see that.

there is always many solutions to many problems
while I am seeing both your father and you, tend to 钻牛角尖

because we only have simple mind. to solve your problem. to help you out.

that is the reason why you are in CC.

yes, i hate you. i hate to have such BF too. BUT, you are not my BF now.. so, i still can give a piece of advise.

hate you doesn't mean not to clear you.. then there will be more and more guys like you in the world. - not why god created us.

my ex BF, i hate him. he treated me similiar like you do to your GF.

difference is that, i don't get sweet words, i got get money from him. all advantage, i don't get. only got all shits!.

so, i tell myself to do better and better. (your EX's path too)

actually, your situation now (regret) is what i am looking forward to see in my ex.

i'm not sure whether i have the chance that the day will come or never happen.

but when i see it happen on you, i am still concern to help you out. if were him, i would be glad. because he did too much hurt to me.

We all want to help people towards better path (regardless of the personality).

TS, please put down your ego a bit.

no point regretting now.

8 years, look back only now.. and realise it is too late.

but, you can't expect much. she is a girl, 8 years is too much of loss.

1) gifts: as she need to be presentable for performance > just your expectation, not her needs

2) catch up with activities > not her interest

3) portraits as high level > not her wants, is your needs

4) so on...

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lastly, let go. it is her choice.

see the person you love happy can also be a great thing