from the winner story, it show TS is a daddy boy.
I`m very sorry for you TS , as you have the best of everything but could not treasure someone you meet awhile.

Its not I`m against your Dad or supporting your ex Gf position, its you who willing to be told what to do by your dad even he know`s more rather than you stand up & do it.

from your story telling, i see you as a marshmallow...
If a poor person can decide whats good for him & his future, its better than a rich ******* who have everything but see a single life long enough that 2nd chance don't come easily.

You can inherit your family business, but at the end of the day.. if you got the person you dont love, just as well destroy your future too & family.

dude...Its you to self control. Your dad is just adviser. If you did the womanizer mistake. you are to be blame. Who the fck blame those who advise to you once before?.

You have to understand, people change. She doesn't come from rich ranking & statutory business family like yours. But all she know is to love you. You forgot that, ever since those who come back from overseas will change. Msia mentality is not the same as you got in states. You are exposed more to diff people & so much diff. from the Msia mentality & you will feel vulnerable.

Every laid up with a blonde chicks in states mate,? who sleeps ard? then you know why both of you would come & stay & support each other up down?


You are ranting too much like marshmallow without thinking further & look at other perspectives.

This post has been edited by KVReninem: Nov 30 2009, 10:21 AM

i read all your replies after mine here & there.
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GET ON MOVING STOP RANTING OR HAVING FEEDBACK ABOUT YOUR SITUATION~!

HAVE YOU EVER GIVE HER CHANCE TO TALK TO YOU OR MERELY..WORK WORK WORK ?

SHE IS TIRED WAITING FOR YOU FROM YOUR STORY, BUT YOU AINT MAKING THINGS BETTER SAD TO SAY. YOU ARE ASKING US TO BE YOUR DR PHIL

better ask Baronic closed thread here

umm sorry to say... its your family is you & her. Not Your Dad & Mom with her.

To be harmonious is to accept each other. SINCE WHEN ALL FAMILY IS HARMONIOUS. TOO IDEAL THAT YOU READ FROM BOOKS.

have you ever heard of broken family? have u ever heard of steps family? etc?

issit wife who causes it or the head of family causes it?

your thinking is too much of idealistic not realistic. before & after is 2 different thing. How can it be the same?

before you tried so hard to bond up well with ur family, then again, you think after must be the same.

there will be differences as you both grow up with your family.

You are in family business: how many family business got burned by crisis before if you ever wonder? the graph never straight, there will be always up & down, else you wont call a life journey.

+1 for intelligence once said before

YOU ARE THE BIGGEST LOSER I EVER SEEN & READ ABOUT IN LYN, FORGET GETTING HER BACK!


his solution is there, but his mind is on Him Him Him...thats it.
For me, its better he didnt get her back, else the Harmonious relation he said about will never happen.

you have to understand, you alrdy lost her. Even with your Cunning confidences, I doubt you can get her back.Look yourself on the mirror arrogant ass.


he thinks money can buy him a relationship & book, He had long forgotten his history between he & her.

Hav anyone of you thought, why help this arrogant ass when he isnt going to change or stand for himself.?

A word for you;
You can have the best of everything in life, but once you lost it; its harder to get it back.
basically, you had lost her. She had change, she wouldn't want someone like you. That is hurt for her bcos of yourself & you under your dad shadow.

This post has been edited by KVReninem: Nov 30 2009, 03:02 PM

prolly hungover critical stage to suicidal

how was your reconciliation ?

so its mean, u had let her go?

serves you right well... greatly scripted. but still doesnt sound like u r really hurt.

This post has been edited by KVReninem: Dec 5 2009, 10:28 PM

dude..there is someone who willin just be her rescue boat.

but for your case, i think u need to reasses yourself...of all you did n commented here so do include our view.

her father was right, you know her too well & you neglected her WAY TOO MUCH..

just give it sometime, n PLEASE GO CHANGE YOURSELF & STOP BEING UNDER DADS SHADOW.

she is tired, coping with her sister sickness & her work. she need someone supporting her, days like you were in college or before your degree.

remember, it takes 2 to dance well...

This post has been edited by KVReninem: Dec 6 2009, 12:03 PM