Dec 5 2009, 06:36 AM
QUOTE(theWinner @ Nov 29 2009, 08:32 AM)
"And, just ignore the girls if you find them annoying," my dad continued, referring to the girls in the office and I meet daily during marketing and while giving talks.
My GF didn't have much saving then, I paid her RM1500 per month for dress, cosmetic and facial.
My busy schedule (3 years ago, 25 years old)
I became very busy dealing with business, and my dad was always telling I have much more to improve in everything I did. From marketing to finance to human resource to accounting, there were tones to go through! Again, I worn out and old behaviors of mine crept back, just like while I was doing a PhD, I hate people to annoy me. I started to priortize my works.
She was annoying! (3 years ago, 25 years old)
When I was tired, she called for a movie and shopping! I was so annoyed when she called me out just to choose an evening gown that she would pay through my credit card that I had given her. There were many small annoying cases where I thought extremely trivial!
Deep down, I yelled "It doesn't matter you have small matters, but don't add burden to me!"
"你惹麻烦没关系, 可别三番四次麻烦我!!!!"
Things turn sour!
She performed violin very well in a performance at KLCC. She was most beautiful in her evening gown. I presented her 11 roses.
On our way back to her home. We were in a dark housing area.
"My stomach ache..." she complained.
I pulled over.
"Are you OK?" I put my hands over her stomach and moved my head closer.
Just all of a sudden, she caught hold my head and we kissed.
She undo my suit button, and put her hands on mine.
"No," I said, as I recalled my dad's advice.
On top of that, my dad is totally against shotgun marriage to save face for some reason, I admit.
Things turn MORE sour!
We never talked after that. I supposed she was temperamental. After two weeks, I bought another 11 roses and we had dinner near my office.
"I know you are strong, why you never approach me for the past six years?" She asked.
I turned irate!
"Just because you want to know I'm strong or weak, you lied on your stomach ache?"
I paid the bill and left for my office without meal.
Both of us remain single. I heard from my male friend, she left her job and went back to the music school teaching again.
actually i m somewhat skeptical about her after reading these parts... u took ur dad's advice very very very well... bravo... although hurt... but did wat u need to do...My GF didn't have much saving then, I paid her RM1500 per month for dress, cosmetic and facial.
My busy schedule (3 years ago, 25 years old)
I became very busy dealing with business, and my dad was always telling I have much more to improve in everything I did. From marketing to finance to human resource to accounting, there were tones to go through! Again, I worn out and old behaviors of mine crept back, just like while I was doing a PhD, I hate people to annoy me. I started to priortize my works.
She was annoying! (3 years ago, 25 years old)
When I was tired, she called for a movie and shopping! I was so annoyed when she called me out just to choose an evening gown that she would pay through my credit card that I had given her. There were many small annoying cases where I thought extremely trivial!
Deep down, I yelled "It doesn't matter you have small matters, but don't add burden to me!"
"你惹麻烦没关系, 可别三番四次麻烦我!!!!"
Things turn sour!
She performed violin very well in a performance at KLCC. She was most beautiful in her evening gown. I presented her 11 roses.
On our way back to her home. We were in a dark housing area.
"My stomach ache..." she complained.
I pulled over.
"Are you OK?" I put my hands over her stomach and moved my head closer.
Just all of a sudden, she caught hold my head and we kissed.
She undo my suit button, and put her hands on mine.
"No," I said, as I recalled my dad's advice.
On top of that, my dad is totally against shotgun marriage to save face for some reason, I admit.
Things turn MORE sour!
We never talked after that. I supposed she was temperamental. After two weeks, I bought another 11 roses and we had dinner near my office.
"I know you are strong, why you never approach me for the past six years?" She asked.
I turned irate!
"Just because you want to know I'm strong or weak, you lied on your stomach ache?"
I paid the bill and left for my office without meal.
Both of us remain single. I heard from my male friend, she left her job and went back to the music school teaching again.
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