If you think RM1k is enough, have you actually done the math?

I agreed with Buggo.

If a person do not have enough money, then what u all espect to give a child???
1.)Education???(dont tell me teach urself)
2.)Toys??? (Dont tell me go by coconut for them to ply)
3.) Milk???(Dont tell me u hv ehough milk to feed the baby)
Small kid memory means a lot to them.

Do u think the worls is so good, so perfect??? Some of you say "Charity "society can help or wht, but can i ask, how many people are that lucky to let them help?? Do u think they can help all the unlucky person??

Abortion is hurting the heart and feeling. This is a normal human being feeling. With the medical technology that available, i do not think it will hurt female a lot if you all go for the proper abortion. But make sure that, if a girl are willing going for abortion, please do love her as much as you can. Do not fail the lady, if not this will reali hurt her hurt deep deep hole.

This is a CRUEL & PRATICAL world. FACED it man.

Dont see how that changes my situation. I'm 25, Chinese.

Maybe he think this..
Milk.. should 4 package change to 2 package lo.
Pampers should 1 bag per month.. change to 1/2 bag lo..
Sakit..? makan kangkong can ardy..
Should giv him study.. haiya, bagi lepak kat luar jadi rempit sudah la..

Milk, expensive, milk formula...

Pampers, visits to clinic....education, bla bla...

I think TS and his GF, need to set up future fund before thinking of having a child, especially education, the cost has been doubled for tertiary level from early 2000's

The cost of raising kids at kids' early age, is always higher than later

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Mar 23 2009, 01:47 PM

Ya.. u still young. I not older then u a lot.
But my gf face this problem.. and she discover already with carry a child now.
She life very hard and facing a lot financially problem with only 1.8K income per month.
She spend on her child already around 1.2k.. left RM600 to pay bil, patrol, eat.. and everything..
Cannot go anywhere coz hav to take her child..

It real...

Be a man. Be a dad. Don't be a dud.

There is no more time to think about setting up a family plan dy...now things had happen so just face it...all u got to do now is EMERGENCY marriage....worrying too much doesn't help at all...be BRAVE and face the truth ....if u believe in yurself, u will go through it....

maternity leave = 2 months with salary

Not really agree on abortion but if really no choice and both agree then go ahead.

If parents leave nearby and willing to help care... you can bring home and care after working hour OR bring home every friday night and send back Sunday night.
There are people who work & stay in KL, baby stay with parents or in-laws at Seremban. They go back Friday night and stay there to care their baby. Of course they do give some money for baby expenses and etc.

TS i think this is the wrong forum to ask since the majority of people here are not married and what more have kids?

If a 12 yo boy Alfie Patten can raise his own child, why dont you be a gentleman and responsible ?

Unless she willing for abortion, the decision is in your hand

Walaueh some even support abortion. Dude, u make her pregnent, u pay for ur sin. Expenses high or not, hardship or not, it just mean u just need to work harder. If u dont want to carry all that, then wear a condom in the first place. Remember abortion is the same as killing. U see arms and legs melted and coming out from the womb. There's always alternatives like adoption or let other childless couples have the kid.

There already are ALOT of children abandoned/up for adoption. Do society a favor and NOT add to the pool.

There already are ALOT of abortion. Do society a favor and NOT add to the blood pool.

U can make sure they will not discover on the future? their child will grow perfectly in future?
Maybe few more year later the boy already find other girl lo.
Ppl do that.. does not mean u should follow.

- good luck -

This post has been edited by uncle9: Mar 23 2009, 02:33 PM

From my experience, they often take longer leave.

This doesn't even make sense. Abortion means there's nothing being added to society
Do you know that criminals are often produced by poor upbringing? Sure, go ahead, add another life to society and not take care of it. You know what you're doing? You're just adding to the pool of highly probable criminals. Yay. When will you idiots learn to think?

suffering is worse than death

I'm sorry to say that from my experience all my frens only took 2 mths maternity leave and is actually breast feeding some more.
For those that employer is actually grandpa, father, or close relative then they took 1-2 weeks longer due to supporting of breast-feeding.

be postive.... mayb the baby born out is super intelligent kid like IQ over 200 then age 4 edi make 1 million dollar? xD

be responsible...... BABY are cute~