he's been working for a year, that's hardly stable enough. Do you understand the current status of the economy? His GF will have to take maternity leave, and that would mean no income for several months, on top of that, there is no guarantee she'll be able to re-enter the workforce. To add insult to the injury, he may not even be able to hold on to his job for the next few years, considering the global recession. Did you even think of these factors?

Not staying with parents. Living on my own terms with my GF. How?

From my experience, they often take longer leave.

Haiya..Dun care what decision TC will choose. Who u can guaranty they both will stay together whole life? Both of them only 1 year together. Everything is not stable yet and easy to break up.

He already choose abortion. We only can wish him good luck.

I'm just gonna try really hard to ignore the ignorant and useless postings because I should have known this was going to happen when I posted on a public forum.

I actually posted this topic up because I don't know who to talk too.. I need to know what are my options and yes you may be able to save a life if you can provide me with even a hint of an idea on how to keep the child.

So those of you who tell people to stop posting or keep saying I should have used a condom or other unhelpful posts like that, you are making me want to read this thread less and less and you are indirectly contributing to killing this child because I may stop reading a post that actually changes my mind. So far the only person that I really feel is helping me decide are Pink and Silver as well as other people who have contributed to helping me.

so it means...the anak with no father and mother wanna care...possibility is very big lor