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 My GF may be pregnant (Confirmed 4 weeks )

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post Mar 23 2009, 11:02 AM

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Just have a guy next to you and say "It's his fault".
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post Mar 23 2009, 11:10 AM

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Abortion = gf's future health complication, trauma, guilt feeling for the rest of your life, black history in ur karma.
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post Mar 23 2009, 01:48 PM

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Be a man. Be a dad. Don't be a dud.
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post Mar 23 2009, 01:53 PM

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Walaueh some even support abortion. Dude, u make her pregnent, u pay for ur sin. Expenses high or not, hardship or not, it just mean u just need to work harder. If u dont want to carry all that, then wear a condom in the first place. Remember abortion is the same as killing. U see arms and legs melted and coming out from the womb. There's always alternatives like adoption or let other childless couples have the kid.
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post Mar 23 2009, 01:58 PM

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QUOTE(Buggo @ Mar 23 2009, 01:56 PM)
There already are ALOT of children abandoned/up for adoption. Do society a favor and NOT add to the pool.
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There already are ALOT of abortion. Do society a favor and NOT add to the blood pool.
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post Mar 24 2009, 09:09 AM

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No matter what they say about abortion being fine and legit and all, it's still consider murder. Those excuses are made up by doctors who wants to earn income and those who just thinking that running away is the best option. Yeah Malaysia Boleh. Good luck finding peace.

Next time, think carefully before having an unprotective intercouse.
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post Mar 24 2009, 09:59 AM

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QUOTE(ravager877 @ Mar 24 2009, 09:22 AM)
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From the looks of it, u better not have any kids at all in the future. That's what most parents have to go through no matter what and it seems you cant handle it at all. I know a couple who earn less than what u earn (~RM1800 I think, now should be around RM3000 looking at their position), and they still manage to live a good life with their children.

No matter, how u try to prevent it using condom, even knowing it's only 99% effective doesnt change the fact it still happened. And to the quote "To all you people who say 'Use a Condom'. I pray you all get what you deserve", yeah definitely will, me included. I'll probably take second job and work harder and cut off my other expenses e.g. entertainment to fulfill my obligations.

Now do you ever wonder why most people say "Get married first before sex?" Not saying or discriminate those who did it but you just have to know and accept the risk that's all. U cant bungee jump without the idea of possible death if the cord "putus".
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post Mar 24 2009, 10:11 AM

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QUOTE(King83 @ Mar 24 2009, 09:57 AM)
I'm no guru in fetuses but is the baby formed yet after 4 weeks?
With a heartbeat?

If no, then i'm all for abortion.
I don't think it's wrong to go for abortion if the baby is not formed yet.
Afterall, it doesn't have a life yet. If you think abortion is wrong, then perhaps u shouldn't masturbate too
either 'cos it's the same thing. Having the baby will bring more problems not just for you and ur gf, but the baby itself.
Imagine, what would he think if he found out he's an "accident" :S

Goodluck.
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In Christianity teaching, a soul is born when the sperm conceive with the ovum (basically when two souls merge into one). Scientifically, it's also when DNA pattern of the baby is decided which lead to a one track to forming an individuality. So to your answer, it's still wrong. The way you describe it, means that cripple people or abnormal ones can be erased ethically. No matter how people try to avoid or find excuses for the deeds, it's still wrong.

<sigh>........Im not really a religious person but I know it's still wrong and there are probably millions of other couple thinking same thing as you. So I dont really have any say in this and can only give you my opinions. It's your choice.

And like the regretful sex u have, u just better prepare for the worst if u ever decide to go for abortion. Good luck, dud.
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post Mar 24 2009, 10:14 AM

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QUOTE(daruma @ Mar 24 2009, 10:12 AM)
got such teaching meh? which book & verse?  sweat.gif
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It's not in any bible lah. Just we think of it, where should the borderline be drawn, cause so many people ask if abortion is the right thing to do. Also cause a lot of people misunderstand that baby who are still deformed are lifeless.
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post Mar 24 2009, 10:23 AM

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QUOTE(peinsama @ Mar 24 2009, 10:20 AM)
Then don't put Christianity into context. It could meant otherwise when it isn't written. Christianity teaching is based on Biblical studies which is why i believed Daruma pointed out the right question.

But, yes...borderline should be drawn but its never the same length or distance between one borderline and the other.

If its a crime, then there is a reason why there is no law enacted upon abortion but just criticism from the public. That already determined the jurisdiction on what is fair and it depends on the choice that the person must make be it in a secular pov or religionists pov.
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Sorry for the misunderstanding, probably shouldnt put the "teaching" part cause there is a discussion on that within the group and the priests themselves. Again it's not in any bible. Like what pope say about "cannot use condom" is also not in any bible.
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post Mar 24 2009, 10:27 AM

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QUOTE(King83 @ Mar 24 2009, 10:16 AM)
Don't talk religion with me, boy.... i'm the biggest atheist in LYN.
Christianity also doesn't condone masturbation.... do u not do it at all, holy child?

Religion is as real as pamela anderson's boobs.
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Two words, F**k you. Dont be putting word into my words. I didnt mention masturbation (I knows urs already deformed from too much self activities) so go ahead, do as much as you want. U dont need ur parents permission do you?
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post Mar 24 2009, 10:33 AM

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QUOTE(King83 @ Mar 24 2009, 10:30 AM)
Hey i didn't get what u said...
why don't you come tell me to my face what u wanna do with me again?
Try and see what i'll do to you biggrin.gif
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U deleted my other previous sentence. Dont tell me u really need ur parents' permission lol.

PS: Last post or else this feeding this throll so that he'll happy masturbating in his tiny room.
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post Mar 24 2009, 10:48 AM

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so, u want it on olympic day kah?
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post Mar 24 2009, 10:50 AM

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QUOTE(layoff @ Mar 24 2009, 10:47 AM)
hey guys, a lot of you are campaigning for the life of the baby yeah?
most of you are being so unrealistic. you are aware that we're a consumer culture here right? everything costs money. TS needs a home to live in, so don't give him rubbish like abandoning the house for the sake of the baby. property prices will continually increase and so will the cost of living. unless you're committed to giving your baby the best of everything, including being able to support his/her medical healthcare/education/emergencies without having to resort to borrowing from friends/family/public welfare, you're thinking only about giving your baby a mediocre, substandard life. what if you never have a better job? what if you can't afford to buy a home later? and when rental costs rise and you are evicted, do you want your child to worry about getting displaced? don't think with your hearts. don't rely on your parents. you're an adult already, so settle it yourselves. the way your parents did when they had you. use your head. misfortune and accidents will happen. you're comfortably sitting in your air conditioned room, so you can play god. by god, if the same thing happened to you, i hope you guys are able to practice what you preach.
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So u want to retain pride than the life of a baby. Good for you and good luck.
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post Mar 24 2009, 10:54 AM

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QUOTE(peinsama @ Mar 24 2009, 10:49 AM)
I believed its preaching was what you meant, if im not mistaken.

Am a Christian myself but i still insist the pope regards towards the condom issue isn't apparent towards the the effectiveness of spreading lust. Condom does reduce the risk of any sexual intercourse effects or 'damages'. Combine it with spiritual healing or some sort, the effectiveness is much stronger than a condom or spiritual sense alone. Which is why i don't understand why the pope didn't take a serious note on this and understand how people thinks. Maybe he believed condom is the inducement for more sexual activities. Maybe. But that doesn't mean he is allow to forgone the benefits from it. Even Pope makes error which is why i never believed he is the mouth of God.

P.S : And btw, i don't really believe a higher rank Christian earns the right of heaven just because he is higher in the Christian hierarchy or should i say 'monarchy' sometimes. Thanks for his prayers and my gratitudes to him, but the Bible pointed out that deeds matter the most and its more profound than how many times a person go to the Church for the sake of repent or retribution.

Added on March 24, 2009, 10:49 am

All the best.
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Err....I think u really misunderstand me, pls read ma previous post first. I only use the "Pope disagreed with condom" as example only. And only thought of them as representative of higher up NOT god themselves. So they can sometimes be wrong.
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post Mar 24 2009, 11:08 AM

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QUOTE(layoff @ Mar 24 2009, 10:54 AM)
it's not about pride. it's about the quality of life that TS can provide for his baby. if he decides to keep it. but if you come from a lower middle background, you probably wouldn't understand. also if you come from an upper middle, you can always rely on your family for support.
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yeah yeah, still the same. U r the sort "rather kill urself if u r depress" or "better go die than live as a begger" type of guy. I get it. Anyway just let TS decide from now, though taking advice in a forum on abortion is rather......odd. go counseling will ya?

If TS decide to give the baby a chance, dont forget to tell ur child, "hey, thanks to lowyat, you didnt die, be grateful and spam". lol.

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post Mar 24 2009, 11:44 AM

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post Mar 24 2009, 11:57 AM

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lol most people who are for the abortion give excuse like economy not good, salary is low, not able to support child. I think everybody generally knows that already (lol drama movies can teach a lot). But TS still need to take responsibility no matter what the cause, even if he has to go to the deepest hole he can find. He did the crime, he has to pay for it. No freebies.

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