It's a good Saturday everybody, let's have a happy day

Welcome welcome

Actually I kinda like stumbled upon this pinned thread. Luckily I did if not I wouldn't have any how to go through it even my friends out there did tell me to get along slowly.

Now who says having online friends are bad Okay la some are really nothing but plain cheaters but there people who are really here to help.

It is life. Life is actually quite unfair if you do look at it sometimes. You want something but you can never get it. *sighs* But nevertheless, getting over a broken relationship is not going to be an easy job. All we need is just time and be patient when things come along. I am telling myself that since the last few days I've first arrived at this thread.

Not really good for me. *sighs* Still having some gastric

Hi everyone! How is everyone doing? I hope all is good.

I've been following up this thread for sometime and to a certain extend, I find it motivating even though I've no serious probs in my relationship.

You know.. in times of happiness or grief, I think life is awesome don’t you think so? Everyone has his or hers own life story to tell, everyone has his or hers own

memorable journey in life. I believe life is always fair to everyone. I don’t believe in sitting down and lamenting what you could have done. As the saying goes; “Life is

only but a moment, live this moment, but be responsible;”..

Looking back at yesteryears, it’s midly shocking to realize how far we've come, how much friends around us has changed. It’s been quite a journey, and it’s a longer

journey ahead. Indeed, the journey goes on but the memories remain. So I always tell myself that be proud of whom I am today because there is definitely no one else

like me. And to all you lovely people out there, life is short. make it sweet.

Thanks for you support! I appreciate it. Everyone is different in each and every other way and of course each and everyone of us has our very own stories to share and ways to help one another out.

I am glad you are doing well in your relationship and wishing you all the best.

Cheers!

this is out of line (merely bumping the topic, to celebrate the broken hearted, haha)

what does the abbreviation TS stands for?

-its obvious i'm green here-

thanks!

Hi and welcome, answer to your q: Topic Starter.

thank you, thank you ;-)

From now on, I'll promise myself not to use the "If's" and "But's"

i listened to J-rock with cranked volume for entire night

skipped class for 3 days

and sparring(i do taekwondo)


it's ugly but i don't want to be dragged to it.just let it go

how do u guys distract yourself from thinking and thinking and thinking and thinking...?

You need lively and occupying activity for that.

please suggest some activities...

It really depends on your interest.

My answer may not applies to you, because my interests are significantly different than others.

Does retail therapy help you?

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Sep 29 2009, 08:13 PM

Or perhaps you might wanna take it down to the nature like going for camps in the jungle, or visit the waterfalls or something. Sometimes mother nature does do a lot.

going for vacations with pals and do some really crazy things would take your mind off thinking...
More often than not, our minds will start to think when are are alone and we have nothing on our hands to do. Thus we are bored and then we will start to think. so go out and do something. anything at all. watch movies, eat, go pub go club and have some fun. whatever it is always remember to love yourself first before loving others.

I guess I really need help. Can someone here give me some advice please? My 3 years relationship ended 3 weeks ago. It has been hell for me all this time. I had to take sleeping pills to sleep every night. I lost weight like crazy.

I really want to move on. But I think one day we will still have a chance. I know we will have a chance. It's just that she just started working 2 months ago and I still have 8 months left in my studies. I think we are meant to be together. She has a totally different lifestyle now. She goes clubbing with I don't know every weekend. And I feel worried that there might be someone else. But I really don't know. I ask her about it and she denies having someone else. And she says things like if I ever find someone else she will kill me. All these things made me still have hope in this relationship. I still love her very much. But I am not sure about her.

Help me please. Wake this shit out of me.

what was your reason for breaking up with your girl?

i find DreMAx's method somewhat useful. Stop giving yourself excuses with Ifs and Buts. But instead start using How can i further improve myself and be more attractive to ladies instead.

i learned it the hard way...you've got to stop giving yourself hope otherwise you'll never wake up from your little dream and face reality that it is over for the both of you. and then in the end, you'll only end up feeling worse than before.

d-zire, i agree that it's when you're alone that you'll think about what has happened and i really dread the moments before i sleep and after i wake up cos i tend to get myself all worked up that time haha

I need elp as well.. i posted my situation in single club few days ago... i really love and wanted to start all over again with her.. but i hurt her too much, i lied to her about my sickness is real serious and in the end she found out it wasnt as serious as it is, and i lied becos i wan her to care about me.. but all the while, she doesnt really care.. i want to like give each other maybe half a year or 1 year to calm down and rethink everything, improve myself, know all my wrongdoings.. But then, i dont know how she thinks, she changed her phone number, i can only contact her uncle now.. her uncle told me her mum took back her phone, i dont know is it real or not.. becos they all know we have that "intimate" relationship before..

I know it is over now for both of us.. but i just hope that i got another chance to start everything from a normal friend, and to court her again..

This post has been edited by ben3003: Oct 4 2009, 01:50 PM

well frankly, i've been there and done that and i still do once in a while. its like my mind will start to think once i wake up and i'll feel a searing pain in my heart so what has happened.

But day by day i'm improving. Last time i always think about her day and night. Now, after going out and meeting more friends, i start to think that the world has so much more to offer than just her. There are so much more girls out there to meet. And frankly, the pain in my heart starts to decrease bit by bit everyday..i felt so much better.

You wanted a chance to be with her again but does she wants it? It takes 2 hands to clap you know. and you said that she doesnt really care about you anyways, so do you think that its worth every of your effort to get back together with her again when she doesnt even care at all?

Why waste the energy on someone who doesnt even appreciate what you have done to her. Why not focus on someone who truly cherish whatever you have done to them?

This post has been edited by D-Zire: Oct 4 2009, 09:22 PM