Well day-um, honey, how bout lettin me find out?

i Read those in...
a Book call .....For Dummies*..

My story began when im still in U... I met this gurl, B. She & i agreed to get together for 3 months. I agreed & we had the best of the 3 months... as time passes by we seems to agreed to be continue our relationship & however things changed fews months later. We started to argue bout simple things & i had to bow to her becoz i wont want to hurt her feelings. She also admitted she not happy when im wit her, even though i tried everyting & give her my all... In the end we broke off past few months & she sms me dat both of us dont have any relationship anymore. Ok, fine. Few weeks latter she sms me tht i need to give her pampasan for her "dara" dat i took from her. yes i slept with her based on mutual feelings & acceptance during the time. I agreed to her terms... monthly pocket money, weekly topups, gifts ( smartag, & phone ). I was basically "kering" after giving all those things to her untill i need to ask money from my sis to buy my own food. My family started to suspect me & questioning me many things regarding me & B, however i quiet & dunt want them to get involve. One day my sis saw B's sms on my phone & i got no choice but to explain to her... she was very "sap mong" with me & told me to ignore the gurl... Now i ignore her for couple of weeks already....

the lesson dat i had from my past relationship with B is, Dont have pre marriage sex. U will end up destroying urself...

This post has been edited by Sarjan_Bilko: Sep 6 2009, 05:03 AM

i broke up about 3months plus ago.. out of my many past relationship im always the bf thats doesnt care if another guy is able to tackle my gf. i wouldnt mind if that guy is successful but if he's not, i'll juz have to say F urself loser~!. but things changed with this girl im always feeling insecured she's really a hottie and it seems like everywhere she goes guys are after her. after more than 3months i thought i am standing strong again probably stronger than ever but things like MSN, facebook and friendster brought me back down to earth HARD. she always pose with her new bf and expressing how much she loves him and all.. breaks my heart as if a thousand arrows stabbing my heart.

my friends are getting fewer and fewer resulting in fewer support for me.. life is harsh right now as i just screwed my uni damn its hard but optimism keeps me alive. should i ban and delete all contacts with her? i duwan to look weak though

u must one of the victim couple with "forward" type of girl.

if u understand the meaning of "forward"

My advice just ignore her, why u want to bother about her life again. at that time, u did sexual intercourse, both is giving based on love right?
So, it's basically own fault. when it's done, so.... just ignore.

Just give her a direct sound. because she is no longer ur gf/wife, why u should give her expenses for this and that.

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Added on September 6, 2009, 8:10 amwhy not? if it really make u strong.

remember... girl is a lot in this world, u can get the better person than her. don't simply ruin ur UNI life and future because of that girl.
girl have no strong anymore once she become older. I mean the playing time for her is to short.. after getting old, all the prettiness will fades, and at that time, she will have no more time unless to get someone that really love her..

This post has been edited by xixo_12: Sep 6 2009, 08:10 AM

dude, its nothing wrong to have pre marriage sex. its very normal. as for the pampasan thing, you are stupid enough to give all those to her are you sure she's a virgin? got blood come out? do u need to put your whole body weight on that particular place to penerate? my point is a girl will eventually loose their virgin at one point of their life you did not point a gun at her head to have sex with you did you? it only works when both hands clap together

Wrong lesson. The right lesson would be to stay away from this kind of crazy-ass b****.

Can foreplay break the hymen?

Dude, please read this to understand more about Female's Virginity.

ok, da paham

go study more.. i give u "D" on grade

how old are you?

i tau la i noob... sigh...

lulz i don't said bro.. just asking, before i help u.. misunderstood

ya ka? ok lorr

Register to this forum just to say thx =]

It's been quite a long time I enter this subforum. Upon opening this subforum I found this thread and I find it pretty useful.

Actually I myself am going through some hard times since recently my girlfriend broke off with me. Nevertheless just by reading the first post is enough to get myself clear of what I want to do from now on.

I think what people say is true. There's no use pondering and hoping to turn things around when it's already over and of course, friends can just tell us and advise us what to do and that's it. The rest is just left for us to decide what we should do and how we chose to deal with it.

It's been 2 months since my girlfriend has left me and well, I am bold enough to admit that I've been feeling stupid and down all these 2 months just because I didn't want to face the fact that it's over. Nevertheless, after recent meetings with my other peers and words of advice from them, I've come to realize that, no matter how painful it is to let go of someone whom has shared part of your life with, we all just have let it go rather than to suffer silently by ourselves.

The only way to get out of this is are easier said then done. But f*** it. If we, ourselves don't take the initiative to get going with things, those things will always be the same. Why look back and cry endlessly when you know moving forward is the only way we can all recover? Looking back, crying and regretting is not the option but moving on and picking up the pieces of our lives are very much important in live.

Just some last words here, I've finally started telling myself this:

It won't be an easy job. But I will do it. I won't try but just DO it.

u sir, deserve a medal for this. seriously. haha, i have people who read it and turn around and start a sentence "but ar......."

lol. Its all in the end. Its all in your head. Keep believing in yourself, and you'll find that u can literally achieve new heights. I know u will

Thanks for coming back.

I used to have the "But ar..." and the "If only..." throughout the last 2 months but only after a few days ago after some really hard slapping (not physically) from a few of my best mates, I finally come to realized some things. What is done is done la. Nothing you and I can do about. Just live with it.

Thanks for the well wishes too. I've promised myself since yesterday, I am not going to look back anymore and think about it. This break up shall serve as a lesson. May this lesson turn into an experience and may this experience give a new opportunity to advance.

BTW you may call me young since I am kinda young though. But oh well sooner or later I've gotta go through this.

This post has been edited by DreMAx: Sep 24 2009, 08:26 PM

I think the hardest thing to face a broken relationship is that we are not willing to let go of the sweet memory and the injustice of having those past promises which could never come true anymore. Remember? love promises were the most beautiful moments of all...

*sigh*

This post has been edited by Cranberries: Sep 24 2009, 08:41 PM

I've got to agree with that girl. But at the end of the day there's nothing we can do about it. Personal experience and no offence to anyone reading this, I did try to steer my relationship back to it's original path twice but it didn't work out.

It takes not only one person to run the relationship but two.

And yes, the sweeter those memories, the harder it is to let go. But like I've put it above, there's no use looking back at it anymore. No matter who's fault is it that has caused the broken relationship the blame doesn't goes straight to one person although sometimes the problem surfaces from one person.

Take for example a living one like me, initially I took all the blame for causing the downturn of my 2 year long relationship since high school. But after 2 months of self exile from people refusing to get through and accept things as they were, I've found out that it's not only me that has caused this. One way in another, my ex has her wrongs too and I have my wrongs too. (Although there were more fault in me)