(I wrote this on the other thread & rewrite it here)

I am impressed with people who can go in & out a relationship and still have the will to on the next one.

I failed twice (read:dumped) & at this point of time feel that there is no way in hell I can do this again.

Maybe you guys/gals can help out on the motivation part to move on.

Or maybe I am already too old for this (maybe its my bad that I started late, hah, such a late bloomer)

*screwed*

I wrote that on of those nights where, well, I can't pick myself up as I usually can.

But today its getting better (probably the bright sunlight has a lot to do with this).

I decided the best way to feel good is to help other people & get busy.

(But can't make to LYN Charity work on Sun because I have plans on that day already, maybe another time).

Since I am new here, does LYN has a 'counselling' sub-forum that maybe I can help with ? Or is there any other way I can contribute ?

Late bloomers, I think I spent my youth enjoying being single too much. And when your peers start counting how many kids they should have in 5 years time, I kinda panicked & feel pressured.

Yes, I don't deny the lesson learnt and all. I need to learn to improve my interpersonal skills & emotional control (that maybe the big fault there).

Any ideas how to those two ? (in case anyone can answer this ;-) )

Sometimes we forgot that there are bigger problems in this world other than our broken heart.

Thank you for sharing thoughts & advice.

this is out of line (merely bumping the topic, to celebrate the broken hearted, haha)

what does the abbreviation TS stands for?

-its obvious i'm green here-

thanks!

thank you, thank you ;-)

i was relying on this forum 3.5 years ago thinking thats it, there goes my last chance. i will be forever alone & miserable in the future.

teeet.

avoided relationships for 3.5 years, choosing to work in an environment where i can avoid potentials, avoid my ex at all cost, travelled, eat, run marathons, climb a few mountains, volunteered, work in different countries... and now it feels totally cool if i did ended up single all this life in this world... its kinda a nice to be just by ourselves - keyword freedom!

but my advice to others, especially younger ones, don't do this. get better, move one, if you fell in love once, you can fall in love again. try your best not to choose to be comfortable alone... its bad for society in general... get all excited to settle down, get married, lovey dovey relationships.. auuww.. its probably worth it ;-)