I feel you. I was wondering why can she be so cruel and selfish and leaving me alone without consulting me. If she at least talked it out and tried to solve it but in the end fail , i wont mind but then she just decided to call it quit .

Think again, what can you do? Put a knife and hold him as a hostage to get back your love? If its over, its over no matter what you do unless he/she decided to give you a second chance

i hope so.
i was damn emo, heartbroken after receiving this
no choice but to just let her go...
i'll let god decide on this fate.

i do understand that i can't force him and i can't do anything anymore. There's no moving backwards but it's just so hard to move on sometimes. All i have to do now is stop having feelings on him. i believe when i don't love him anymore, that's the time i'll be fully recovered. but i wonder how long do i neeD? there's no answer.

you two should set a time frame. Like myself, over the course of 5-6 month , i've asked for a second chance twice. At my birthday ( june 2x), i will ask for a second chance for the last time .

But depending on the situation, If she sent a happy birthday wish. It might means she still remember you and you might have a second chance. But if she ignore even my birthday then i can truly said thats its over at least for now

oh hi cheryl, how are you now? feeling better?



neonlight bro,
not to pour cold water on you, but dont put too much hope on it, because you will fall more deeply if the outcome arent what you expect.. and by greeting you birthday doesnt mean she wanted to get back to you. to her it can be a normal friend greetings.
like for my case, i dont know why my ex still have the pics of us together in her fb..but our status have both changed to 'single'
i dont know what is she thinking.

is it she forgot to remove?
or by remaining those pic there, means she still have feeling on me?
or because she feel guilty? thats why she dont want to remove yet..
or she dont even bother about those pic at all, and totally forget already?

i dare not put too much hope on there too..because i scare to fall for the second time again.

Painzz, whenever ppl ask me "how are u", i will say “Oh, I’m fine.”
Sometimes i hope there's someone looking into my eyes and say “Tell the truth.”

My heart cries, i know i need time.. he's doing very well now as i can see. i feel so unfair yet i can't do anything. i collapsed but i will try my best to stand up again. Without him doesn't mean i can't live. i do understand i must move on no matter what or how. It's just sometimes it hurts so much when i feel i'm cheated and yet he is so happy now.

painzz- I don't dare to put much hope cause the last time i got rejected was 3 days ago. I believe the chance for us is very very low hence i don't even dare to expect whats going to happen

Bbcheryl- come now, You got us here. We might not know each other but at least we're in each other boat. Say whatever you want and express yourself. Do not keep everything in your heart because one day you will burst

u gonna accept the fact. there's no U-turn. no matter how much u don't like it to be, u still gonna accept they're just way this cruel. it does hurt a lot but there's just nothing we can do anymore....

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Added on June 4, 2010, 9:03 pmMuch appreciated. before and when breakup, nice and good listeners from here had guided and accompany me to walk through this.. if you guys are not here for me, i think i was really burst dy. Thanks

This post has been edited by bbcheryl: Jun 4 2010, 09:03 PM

ah...yeah...i refrained myself from talking to him...it`s just that sometimes when i emo..i will feel like finding him. but in this 2 months, i think i have been progressing. Mayb i know that he has already got a girl. So, i dun really want to be stupid again.
hm...he din directly say about the gal ..then after that he turn back again his word n say that i think too much..there is no such girl...
he aso didn:t remove his fb pic where we took together with his sis during their wedding..
haih...i just dun wan to put any hope anymore although thats my situation. mayb he just feels guilty..so he dare not tell me he got gf already.
Starting from this yr, our relationship hasnt been good. Temporary separation until April we call it off. Before April, it was really suffering for me. I feel that after we really broke up, i feel better. Maybthere is　an ending.　Although after we broke up, we still went out but after tat it affects me. So i just ban myself from seeing each other.
I think that if there is a chance i meet a better guy...when i look back. I would have thank him for letting this go. Mayb its just part of it that God wants me to learn b4 i met the Mr. Right. Mayb during that time when we look back ourselves, we will just think that it is nothing. It is part n parcel of life. So, prove to ourselves that we will live better than b4。lets support one another here

* sorry wrong section posted

This post has been edited by idunnolol: Jun 4 2010, 09:58 PM

Lol. Old musketeers term , One for all , all for one ma. Besides all of us need some place to express ourself. Is there anything else you want to share?


Lazytongue. Every people will have a dark and painful experience . Maybe that ex bf of your's just don't dare to break the cruel news for you. What did you learn from the temporary break up? You should not go out with him before you can completely forget him cause this will make you're heart goes wild. I've learned this from my outing, I tried to distance myself from her and in the end i make our relationship worsen by doing some childish acts

"You will cry, tears will dry, time will pass and you will move on that’s the way it goes." Gambatte Dumpees!!

come i make you sad . You will cry, tears will dry. Times will pass but you will remember your ex

lol!! +1



just kidding, im not that bad as Neonlight hahaha
sigh..ok now we all know the probs we all having here, but...

what can we do?!?!
what can we do?!?!

guys, got anything interesting to help me distract myself from my ex?

someone suggest gathering

That would be nice

sounds not bad
then can all share our own sad story, then all feel down, all cry sama sama sht....this is so wrong haha no no

hehe. that's what i said.. later we all cry. if go out for activities then would be better wert

lol . Ok lo, all go out gathering , share story. then at the end got friendship. Maybe got some extra

haha all guys here?

gay picnic

cnt find good companion, then turn to gay.. er..sounds wrng again.. want gathering maybe need more ppl ?