Well,i have a few questions here ..
for girl :
how do you feel when guys stare at your assets?

for guy:
do u all really enjoy staring at gal's assets?what makes you to stare at it?if a gal feels not comfortable with ur staring n get angry,do u think is right?or u feel they should feel proud instead?


when girl is wearing V shape or low cut clothes .. when u r walking on the street , you will notice guys wil stare at your boobs like never see before..
I will feel not comfortable with their hamsap eyes ! feel like wana take off my shoes n throw it at their stupid face !
some of my friends said a gal should feel proud to be blessed with such assets to show off & some said a gal should feel angry coz those guys are just like hungry wolf ..

wats ur opinion ?

then y u wore it? because you got no other shirt to put on?

well,its occasionally.

Its just the lack of civility in people.

Don't just put this on staring at "assets", staring in general is plain rude.

I've seen people stare at girls who are properly dressed and still attracted stalking eyes like they've never seen a girl in their lives.

You wouldn't find this sort of behaviour in more society-oriented countries.

Actually its normal for a guy to be horny and attracted to the girls' special parts ... You hate it because you're not a man, at the same time when you're a man you can't control yourself.

well..for me i think it is ok if u just have a quick look but not keep on staring at it...

This post has been edited by xxxtrym_akabane: Apr 4 2008, 11:21 PM

Do you take notice of cute/handsome guys?

i just glance a while, then back into business, its my habit.. >__<"
not looking with horny look.. >__>

thats the reason why gal are so attractive...!!

ermm.. it is natural... i dont want to... but my eyes.. some1 installed ogling version 2. into my brain...

sometimes i control myself by looking down... but i cant see where i walk then sometimes bump into them... that's worse

hahahaha...is getting worse if i got bikini gal..
my eyes so busy..!!

aiya...if you don wan man to stare at you like that, please dont wear SEXY or HOTTY dress like tht la...

u cannot control any man from staring at u...but u can control yr self from being staring by other man...

for man....it a FREE SHOW...all people like free thing what????

so my advice, dont 'kutuk2' lelaki la....

U yg tayang, kami melihat wayang...Ha3!

N 4 me...please...dont blame others people without thinking,it already yr mistake..and for man...staring at a beautiful girl, just same as looking at a walking art!

Swry if my sentence is rude...but that is what i'm thinking...

This post has been edited by mrjinggozzz: Apr 4 2008, 11:56 PM

Agree here...

Sorry this is men lust... we juz cant help it

Blame it on the Hormon

well is gal don like it , cant do much also ..guys are like that ...

but i have a question here ,

1. a guy stare at u like never see b4

2. a guy pretend no to look at u , but actually he already scan from top to bottom , never let u know ..

which one u hate most ?

lol, good one

honestly, hypocrites are worse off ladies...
trust me, I'm one before, and I know how to detect "one"

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This post has been edited by Rendezvous: Apr 7 2008, 09:47 AM

i also dont like girls starring at me... but what can i do? at least girls can still buy burqa ... guys have no other option...

well if u dont wear those sexy outfits u wont get stared at..
but it u do...its a guys natural instinct 2 think u want 2 be stared at

makes sense? =p

that is very true. for us guys, those r the only 2 options we got when we see an attractive girl. unless we r not actually guys

anyway i believe that the same when a girl see an attractive guy isnt it?

for guys, i think mostly will choose the girl to stare at him.. as for girls.. well dunno



well not really, as long as the girl is pretty or cute

This post has been edited by MewGlory: Apr 5 2008, 04:02 PM

what goes around comes around la. There isnt any law stated that cant stare at ur assets..... Dont wear those outfit if u think they will glare at ur assets..

Well, there's more to them(guys) than meets the eyes...

Hehe...

what i trying to say is gal cannot contorl is guy wanna look at u ...

but if a guy choose option 1, at least u know a guy stare at u , u can either go away or use something to hide ,


if a guy choose option 2 , then no way u can know they arte loking at ur assest , u can stop them , can avoid them , and in fact i scan everything d , u still think nothing happened cos u don know ...

so it is better if u know a guy stare at u , better than don know ...since u cant help no to wear sexy attire , or blinded all the guys

well,1 suggestion for girls,
if you are young,flaunt it;if u are old,keep it.
survey shows that colour wolves always attack girls that are properly dressed.(more challenging gua,i think)

if me guys look at my assets i sure very happy

you should be proud that you being looked.
if no ppl look at you, that mean you nothing.
then that time you came out with topic ''why no guy look at my assets? ''

This post has been edited by StraxorX: Apr 5 2008, 09:04 PM

ahahahaha!!
yeah very true should be happy we guys took the effort 2 look

just ignore when guys look at you la...it means you look pretty and good..and lets keep it that way

well i and my gf travel to penang , she wears a white shirt but a bit see through can see a lil bra shape , at the perhentian , every male look at her assets T_T , she quickly hide behind me and walk to the car asap

girls also same attitude ma , my gf's friend at uni she saw a so call leng chai to her she stand there stare at him until he pass by oso didnt notice
>.<"

at least try to control and dont stare completely la lol

I don't think it's a problem for a guy to stare you at there since you are the one who wears those kind of 'sexy' shirt.
It's purely normal for a guy attracted to a cleavage just as a woman attracted to Gucci, ot Prada.
I don't think you should feel happy, instead feel proud of having a man staring at you. That shows how elegant you are. We don't treat woman like chicks!

Dear TS,
First, being as a woman, you need to know that guys basically love whatever they can see on a girl. Your assets your bottom. We love them. Not to mention, we love every curves on you!

Call us wolves, call use perverts. We can't do anything about it. We're born in Mars and we love curve things.

I don't blame anybody. It's all up to you girls to think whether you girls are supposed to be proud of your assets, or not to be proud of them at all.

Just keep in mind that not everything are worth a second glance
When something is worth a second glance, then there are something to that thing. Be it good or bad. In this matter, it's something good

Have a good night sleep dear TS

Then don't wear anything revealing if it causes so much discomfort to you. Showing skin is apart of sexual attraction. Looking at it is more like instinct than anything motor controlled. So don't blame men.

TAK SUKA ORG TENGOK, JGN KASIK SHOW.

Simple right? Or a better idea, hide in your closet la...

some girls ar.... wear low low, transparent transparent, short short ..... then when guys look at them. They give some fark up face..... puniaboh...

Atleast i have the courtesy to smile at those that look back at me (not those with the farking face where like i killed their pop).

So guys, if u kena caught staring at their assets, smile at them la... dun be shy

Girls are hypocrite, they just want the attention. So let them be happy

This post has been edited by ed0gawa: Apr 6 2008, 01:54 AM

sigh who dont like starting at chicks....but i personaly hate those guys who goes to mall's on sunday's to stare at chicks..fkn lifeless ppl really... sif like nothing better to do..but then again i would like to confront a girl who smiles back or say's arent they huge....then ill be speachless....

those people are really sakai, i also hate that

Those designers nowadays design cloth to be more sexy/attractive especially at the asset area. So blame those designers, not us hapless male!

Sorry to say, the first thing that we guy focus on is the boobs. It is a natural thing, guys like to see girls naked, girls like to see guys naked.

If a guy doesn't stare, that fella most probably is a gh3y.

i dun stare, i peek only.

well..
i will feel very angry..
most of the times, the guys who starred at our assets actually made me feel like i'm doing something worng..
sometimes even worse when the other girls starred at it and keep comment on it..

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Added on April 6, 2008, 3:32 pmGuys like to see girls naked<-- this is true..
but it is not true that girls like to see guy naked..

This post has been edited by whailun: Apr 6 2008, 03:33 PM

XD They are just jealous of your assets. Ignore them, their volume is definitely less than yours

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Added on April 6, 2008, 3:39 pmAlso, there's something about flaunting your assets. Especially the venue that plays a large role that affects how people look at you.

When you wanna flaunt your assets, make sure the place you're going would be appropriate and nobody would complain that you're wearing too sexily. In fact, less people would stare at your assets also, because too many people are flaunting them

Don't go wearing a V shape that exposes half of them when you go shopping at chi cheong kai. This is where people start staring at you and comments that you're have a second job

This post has been edited by SeeD: Apr 6 2008, 03:39 PM

hhehehee... can we compliment them? "nice assest you have there" i wonder what would happen...

if u feel angry then dun wear so sexy, what is the reason for u to wear sexy ?

- seduce guy ? and chuck in some reason to get angry
- show off to same gender ? coz u damn proud of your 36DD
- or feel very light and easy coz wear less clothes ?

lol..u dare?

If you get lucky, she smiles and says "Thanks" . If 'datang bulan' one, not sure what will happen to you, bruised eye maybe...?

i tried b4. that time after clubbing came out, I saw a chick and then I say "hey, u got a nice rack."

yeah...look a while, den back to business :-D

If keep staring of cos tht'll be too much la. If someone were to keep staring at any part of my body i'd feel uncomfortable also.

Anyhow the guy also damn sap pai la till the girl can tell that he's looking at her boobs. Deng do it discretely wth

yea... i am very scared of those that datang bulan... especially colleagues... gila 1

u should thanx god for man "staring" at u.....
girls wear nicely to show, aren't they?

in before this thread is closed

a summary of what has been said :

only one girl replied, say she doesn't like it

all the guys reply say
1. they enjoy looking at it, naturally will look at it one.
2. majority say girls should feel proud


imho, if u get caught looking, u really... sap pai -_____-"

I don't mind my boyfriend staring at my 'assets' as you call them. other guys generally don't since I don't really have anything worth turning your head to look at for.

accutualy guys stare at any thing even if you think your assets are small or oversized or "perfect" they will still turn turn their heads if you pass the right guy....i bet your bf did turn his head

Personally, whether or not a girl wears something sexy or not, guys likes to stare. It's like they are born to stare at every girl they they find worthy to check out.

But for guys to stare mainly on a female assets is plain rude! I don't have a problem with guys having a quick glance at me but I find it extremely annoying when the guys stares at the wrong part. I do know and acknowledge that guys are just being guys but seriously, that's the perfect way for a girl to lose all respect for a guy all in less than 2 seconds.

To explain why, when a guys stares at the *ahem* assets, it gives us female the impression that sex is all you want. You don't care about how our face looks (of course, it always help if the girl is somewhat not too bad looking), and you don't care about the personality or whatever. All that is your head is "Oh la la~ Sexy time!!"

In a nutshell, it's okay to stare at face but not too long and preferably not drooling. No self respecting girl will feel comfortable or okay with guys staring at her assets unless she don't mind the "Bang bang and thank you very much" also known as ONS.

just my two cents anyway..

This post has been edited by h.e.v.n: Apr 7 2008, 07:20 AM

I will "glance" at ur asset but at the bottom line i will stare at any girl with or without V shape outfit. My reason is maybe the girl is attractive or having a nice fashion (i am my gf image advisor.. LoLz). Ya la got 2 eyes so see what can i see within my view (auto focus infinite). I'll See but don't make myself looks like so desperate to see boobs.. LoL. But there's also a type guy that will staring at a women like u said earlier. They will stare, no matter what u r wearing dat time. But the most time they will stare is when u give them a chance. Vote for V Shape! LoLz

U will notice nice guy right too.. even u think ur bf is the most precious to u. So do i.

I dunno how to say, but as a girl, I would turn my head too if I see nice assets Myself, I talak wan...

if u let me choose, i rather stare on my own baby.

hahaha the first time he met me, he told me he thought I was cute. We never expected to be dating two months later. XD

seriouly, my pov, guys will stare at almost anythin; whether the girl has nice assets, whether she's wearing something sexy, whether she's showing her underpants...i believe, it's how you look at it. sometimes its way beyond our control, either you brush it off or take it to heart and be affected the whole day.

i get the stares all the time. not becoz i've nice assets or i'm gorgeous, i'm just your average-looking malaysian, but simply because i'm taller than most malaysian ladies and i like wearing heels. i cant control their eyes. if i were to care soo much, i'll definitely have mood swings everyday.

they always say, kalau tak suka, jgn tunjuk..but wat if you're born with it..

aiya, just be greatful with wat you have le. jangan dipedulikan si jantan gatal le..

( Y ) are you staring now?

i hate guys who like to check you and talk to u n ur chest at the same time.

i boy stare at boy only. i don't stare girl anymore. boring d

People always mistaken me of doing that I stare at leng lui eyes, I feel shy, so I look down a bit lor.. then saw ( Y ) lagi shy, so I look up lor... then saw girl's eyes kena electric, then look down lor.. saw ( )( ) again, look up lor.. repeat...

hahahah
so true ... wat to do

lol...

I stare at leng lui eyes, I feel shy, so I look down a bit lor.. then saw ( Y ) lagi shy, so I look up lor... then saw girl's eyes kena electric, then look down lor.. saw ( )( ) again, then i know cannot look up again.. so i look even lower to the floor.. then walk.. then bump into her ( )( )..

typical question..lol..

thats when you should say "oh my god some 1 druged me" then

personally , i like to stare at guys , staring them(guy) , u will know what they(guy) actually staring, of cos for nice stuff . Especially those old apek , some already has a nice daugther with good assest , still wanna stare at other gals that same age with thier daughther . in return , i will stare back on thier daugther from up till down ...scan everyting but this not always happen , i only do this when i found my gf is scan by some apek ... this is what i dislike most , i even tiao a apek before .

Do u know what he said , "don wanna let ppl see , don bring it out la", i was saying nothing but just a punch over his eyes , both eyes ..

i do look at gal , but not from special part , but from face 1st ...

big bood gals got a lot , but pretty gals are less , so i don waste my time to look at big boobs .

for me big boobs are just big boobs , i would react "oh, big boobs" thats only

ur head must be tired then.

don't you people know that staring is rude?

whenever i'm out with a bunch of my friends, some guy will always start to stare at one of my pretty friends. So my other friends and I will figure out who he's staring at, and then we send her off with another girl. While the guy is staring at her, we all stare back at him.

hahah, snap your fingers in front of your chest, point to your face and go, "i'm right up here dude!"

or one time, there's this dude who was talking to my boobs kao kao; so i point on my left boob then my right while going; hi, this is martha and this is jenny. and no they will never ever give you a handshake. now look up wtf.

back on topic, there's two type of stares;
1) the appreciative glance
2) the perv, non-stop staring, weird smile kind of stare

i like the first. the second gives me the creeps

yeah..there are some perverts..when they are talking to u,their eyes will be busy .. omg.. keep on blinking ! looks so hamsap.
when u stare them back in their eyes,they will be embarrassed and look back to your eyes.. then after a second the eyes go down again..start blinking again ... swt

i love to stare at gurls's asset, your vulnerability are exposed, call me a pervert or a ba$tard, but those pair of ur eyes tell so much about you.

This post has been edited by Avex: Apr 7 2008, 11:47 PM

Whats wrong with staring?

If i see a pretty girl (not sexy-half-revealing-boob) i would stare look at her too.

Why girls want to wear low-cut or V-shape or something like that if the purpose is not to reveal the asset?
For u will look pretty in those clothing? yeah rite.......

kinda shy to stare at girls eyes....hard to do so :/ feel like they going to "eat" you alove

lol all u guys..

first.. to answer TS's question.. for a girl.. you might feel bit of proud because you have assets to be stared at!
but.. we're just talking up to the point where guys are to admire you with what you have!

and guys.. it's impossible for guys not to realize pretty/sexy girls with assets or whatsoever that is attractive..
but don't stare and go gawking like every once in 3seconds! it's totally perverted, and it's very uncomfortable for the girl too.

Yeah.. juz a glance.. no 2nd time glance even there's a chance~

what if...your in a mall starting at a hot girl and the flashes at you.....guys what would you do!?

no free meals now lol..
put up a nice gesture or smile at her will do... lol

IT'S A TRAP!!!!!

scold like this guy... heero



This post has been edited by SeLrAhC: Apr 8 2008, 11:27 PM

Yes me too, especially when I'm wearing high heels, but if I don't lesser lar... guys like tall gals? Somemore most of the time I'm just wearing very casual, a simple mini-T with shorts, no cleavage showing or even my shoulders wondering y?

if u look pretty , of cos u will be hunted down , even if u don wear sexy attire

Hahahahah... you should say; Hi, this is Jorlin and this is Yaulin.

HAHAHAA!! that just made my day XD

LOL that is funny~~ I prefer the first one though. But if from far, you can never figure out whether that guy is staring at boobs or just admiring how pretty you look.

easy!! first look at his eyes...if it's a pervert he would stare back at you like nothing is happening but if it's a normal guy just doing what nature intented then he would look kinda akward and try to look at some thing else....

yup he will look back down (Y)

It is so wrong to stare.

Here we are talking about the woman's assets and all the guys start blaming their hormones, the girl who wore her revealing top, etc. What if we change to something else. Guys what would you feel if another guy is staring at you? Will you say its his hormones and also that cos you probably seem 'revealing' to him? And we all know how many really senseless fights between the guys started because they were being 'stared'.

I'm not saying its wrong how guys would look at a woman's assets. Its perfectly normal, i do look at women whose boobs seems like its going to pop out of their top any minute. And i believe women who wear their low cut tops or short mini skirt are some ways expecting people to look at them. For me, i do. When i am in my V neck, i make sure i have a nice cleavage peeking out. But you glance, you peek, you take a quick look, etc, you don't stare.

Basically staring at anyone or anything is just plain rude. Didn't mum tell you, not to stare. Its rude.

This post has been edited by sexyamber: Apr 9 2008, 11:43 AM

mum did say dont stare but she didnt specify to not stare at what...like for example a woman walks by dressed with the "dress" from your avatar i for 1 will now state that my jaw's will drop to the ground and my eyes will be sticked on them like super glue sticking 2 piece of papper together

Mums speaks the general language, mum says don't stare meaning don't stare at anything or anyone at all. Take a look, glance, peek is ok, even if you meet anyone dress like in my avatar.

This post has been edited by sexyamber: Apr 9 2008, 06:08 PM

just to let you girls know that when guys stare at your boobs their mind is mostly blank, how to differentiate between perv and admire, the admire one will look just once, the perv will look more than once, cheers

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Added on April 9, 2008, 6:32 pmif only the person is your best or close frens, cheers

This post has been edited by nickisthemost: Apr 9 2008, 06:32 PM

Polis kata jangan..

takut tengok

today i spoke to a chick who was FKN hot...i was talking to her staring at her eyes but since i have problems sleeping i was kinda looking away frm her face then she thinks im "checking" her out now the whole class in uni thinks i wanna F@ck her....zzz dam rumors from a chicks mouth cannot be held in at all..... ..but i really wish i can

what about those that wink back and smile (sometimes try to hit on them?)
what does it make me? lunatic? chain rapist?

Walk the middle road girl.

Feel happy when it's the cute guy you like staring at it.
Throw your shoe at ppl like bangla/indon who stare at it.

This is very true. I've tried staring back at them and mostly, they look away but encountered a couple that stared back gatal-ly. At that point, I'm ...stuck, don't know what to do already.

Two things I'd like to point out. Firstly, guys don't only stare at girls with revealing clothes. She can be all covered up and the guys can still stare. Can't figure that one out. Second, I do believe that it's not something that a guy can control until he really puts effort and consciously looks away. The problem is when he doesn't when the girl is clearly uncomfortable. Means he's a pervert also?

Not really the first rule of attraction between a guy and a girl is physical attraction. I know some girls strut their stuff on purpose and some do it because other girls are doing it.