learn to take it as a compliment. simple as that.

if you can't.........then here's what i think.

when no one see - complain tak cantik la this la that la.
when people see - complain scared la, afraid la.

what da heck do you gals want la? see also no right, no see also no right. then what is right? you might as well go on stealth mode if you can, cannot then use cardboard.

it's like crap man, you dress low-cut and look attractive. and now you wanna throw shoe at us for being drawn by the way you dress yourself - how is that fair?

it's like i mod my car with GT wings and cool looking skirts, neons on the under-carriage and put 20" RIMS and then suddenly I feel uncomfortable / fear when gals find my car attractive. LOL.

as guys - we just see anything. you look attractive, we sure see. you more attractive we see even more. no harm done on you. light bounce of your body, still have to go somewhere. just like how we look at cars, gears and whatever else we can get our eyes on.

some dresses have nice cutting.

having a bit of revealing or daring cutting doesn't make one slutty or indicates one has no self-respect.

look at some dress, pretty low front v and the back is bare but it's sexy yet classy. you can see those if you go dinner at higher-class places.