holy crap! that's a lot patience to type alternate capital letters....reading it it's like going on a roller coaster ride..

she is a pianist

Its like using the same concept around us in daily lifes . Basically , the concept is easy and easily understand by every party . Let me show you how does it goes :

You're a girl and going to KLCC to shop with friends , Then you see something in a gift shop that really caught your attention. You keep on staring at it and don't wanna look away . And for a guy , You see something like a PS3 that you always wanted . You keep staring at it and don't wanna look away cause you really want it but too bad you cannot touch it

Well , this may be confusing but the conclusion is : Pretty stuff catch everyone's attention .
For a guy staring at a girl's assets , this may be a normal stuff to 50% of the parties while it may be a bad stuff to 50% of the others . But try to think as YOUR opposite sex about what you will do when you see an angel in front of you showing off his / her ''STUFF''

Just go with the flow , If he or she really caught your attention . Just go and talk to him / her and become a friend or somesort xD .

The world has also become modern and everything change . Girls wearing sexy clothes cause of fashion and guys love it cause they look pretty that way .
For the staring part : Guy will always say that the girl is ''PERFECT'' in everything if their face is perfect and same goes for the girls . Its like a inheritaged sickness that EVERYONE has it