First of all, the word 'staring' is inappropriate. to STARE means to look at something or someone for a period longer than an instantaneous GLANCE.

Most men do not stare coz when we do stare, we could easily be branded as pervert. Staring at someone or something particularly erotically stimulating body parts of the opposite sex longer than a short glance but not progressing into anything anymore than just looking can be assumed negatively as over fantasizing or positively as having a deep crush.

Yes! we men are easily attracted to sexy dressing by the opposite sex particular when we could 'almost' see anything apart from the is obvious externally. Isn't that the purpose of girls to wear sexy clothes, that is to attract attention, to be adored by the male species and to be admired or envied by fellow female species.

Naturally, in general, it is the female's outlook and beauty that has that FIRST impact into attracting the opposite sex, i.e male species. And that would be the thing that drives men into wanting to get to know the lady more closer before committing any feelings for her.