Dear all,

Do u mind ur bf to be very close to another gal? They can talk to each other almost everything (including wat happened btw u n ur bf) n very frequent, hv meal together (just him n her), go out together, when anything happened the 1st person to contact/think of is her.

And u know the gal actually hv confess to ur bf her feeling. Wat u think of and wat u wil do??

Plz leave ur comment ya.

Did u hear Hitz.FM tis morning?

I bet ur bf is double crossing u

Nope.. mind to share wat it's?

Honestly, you've have the right to be jealous. I think you should bring this up when you're with your boyfriend. Sometimes guys just like to treat their best friends (especially girl) well and without realize it they often tend to hurt others indirectly. If this were to prolonged, your relationship will definitely be shaken.



Base on your statement, it seems that your boyfriend do need to learn to draw a line between him and this friend that you mention if he wish to keep your relationship. If he do not wish to do so, I pray that you won't suffer as much when things take a bad turn.

That would be one of the way but i think its sad to use this method though. Everyday I hear this kind of gotcha conversation, I sometime wonder whether hitz.fm is taking the right turn of doing their gotcha show or was it toward becoming a tool for catching a assumed adultery Live In The Air making a living shame to whoever who got GOTCHAed

This post has been edited by Yukirin: Jan 8 2008, 03:21 PM

yeah
ask him wat it feels when other guys is close to u and did the same.... he suka ka?
all frenship must have a line drawn.... do not cross the line

He said he hope can keep both.. one is love him n loyal to him n another is he can "click-able"..

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Added on January 8, 2008, 3:28 pmi did ask him but he did not answer me.. n juz keep on saying they r fren only..



This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 8 2008, 03:28 PM

If he is Islam he can have 4 wife lor

something must be wrong then
... confront him tell him that u r not comfortable with it ... but personally u cant have both
thats greedy

Pretty obvious he is stepping on 2 boat with 1 leg.

2 holes with 1 ????

Thx guys for your reply.. i do hope to hear more comments on this..

Yesterday, i forced him to choose either me o her n only one he can choose.. after a while, he said he decide to choose me.. then i asked him to call the gal n talk to her abt this n make everything clear.. but he said he wil settle it himself with the gal privately.. i disagree n wan him to talk to her now with my present.. then he angrily said if i cant accept his way then forget abt our relationship..

Comment plz..

then it shows that his feeling towards u is shaky
if he cant do it in front of u then there is something wrong

do not push him but do discuss to him on how u feel and wat he did is unfair to u

if he can threaten u with ur relationship with him it shows that he obviously has some on that gal....

get a new guy, D-U-M-P him...

break with him and come with me

he wanna breakup with u..... try something to grap him back....

like wat??

like sex?
And that will guarantee no next time?

just some question, do you need him more or vise versa ? if yes pls be ready, be strong girl, good luck, cheers

This post has been edited by nickisthemost: Jan 8 2008, 04:18 PM

ERm...somehow sound like me and my bf thou...but the other gal din confess lar...
Anyhow, i dun mind also as he not just telling me their dates and also pushing me to find other guy frens as well..
He said our life is not just me and u...must hv frens also...doesn't matter guy or gal...but as long as u know how to handle ur feelings well...
So the gal really confess d ar? Dis maybe complicated..and I also cant gv any advice if up to dat level d...coz i dun hv dat experience yet..eehehe...anyway, i tin ur bf already misused his frenliness towards the gal until the gal had dat kind of tinkin...

Gd luck anyway! ^^

grab what??heheheh

neway..its bad thing when he/she toooo rapat with sum1 n at the end ignoring u.....

ahyo...sorry to sound so professional. TS, let him do it himself the "breakup" wif the other girl.

if you stand there tapping your feet, arms folded and sour-sour, you not only malu him no face, he also will find it very difficult to speak freely to the other girl. also, it means you are also "punishing" him, and also control him at the same time.

from this, of course, he gets up set and threatened to cancel your relationship with him.

for now you've "won" (aka got your way) at a price. let him win something also.

i dun wan his body.. wat i wan is his heart n mind on me.. not other way round..

Juz like a chinese statement, u hv him not mean tat u wil hv his heart n mind too..

Eeemm.. i admit i quite dependent on him.. he is the one make me believe in love again.. n i always think he is the good gift for God to me.. silly me... hahahhaa...

Yes, the gal confessed..

i really hope i can be more open-minded (can go out wif other guy at the same time i hv my bf), not tat soft-hearted, not tat loyal.. hahahaha... maybe tis way can make me more better..

Punishing??? U mean Pushing is it?

i do not mean to control him o anything.. i juz wan to make sure they really clean n clear after tat..

btw he do admit tat he hv some little "feeling" on his so called gal fren.. n she did know abt it.. so when both of them hv the "feeling" there, do u think they should continue tis kind of so called friendship?

This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 8 2008, 04:37 PM

yes, punishing as in punish. not push. see, bf made to choose and TS won, having won it is time to...and control. maybe i'm wrong. i've been wrong before and will be wrong again now and again.

Wat about u gv him a week time to come clear with dat problems he created? I tin no use to push him dat hard lar...maybe he needs time to think away to reject her and at the same time they can be fren again like usual days...dis is not easy to gv an explanation like dat, dun u tin so? ^^
Afta 1 week only u tell us the result ya? Curious to know coz somehow like me also but not yet thr...ehehe^^

BTW, how u know the gal confessed? Ur bf told u? If yes, I tin ur bf also come clean about dis kind of tin wif u at least...is a good news rite? ^^

I think u already on the losing side.

There's no true friendship between opposite sex..

Me and my bf is havin dat now...

The gal hv sms him at early morning when i stil wif him n i read the sms myself.. n after i asked him for few times he juz told me the true..

Yes, i m happy tat he told me but after he know the gal hv crush wif him, he is not stopping to contact her.. wat all is this means?? giving hope to the gal??

seem like from start he has the upper hand and he is using the "upper hand" right now, no wonder he has this kind of attitude, if he treasure u more he won't propabaly do something that would hurt your feelings rite ?

omg ! he admit the feeling, well at least he is honest, the only thing is give him some time to forget his temporarily infatuation, else erase him slowly lulz, cheers

I hate to admit but I totally agree with your statement. Give him some times, else if he still continue to be so, then you have to part your way instead of suffering.

easy..dont giv him sex or kiss him..everything goes as usual minus the sex...then u go out wit other guys and let him know but pretend like its nothing.. then sure he boh song liao...get a tase of his own medicine

Ouchh...I'm somehow can feel how ya feel as we're both same sexes.

Hmm...I tin I still suggest u to gv him the 1 week timeline...dats the max he got...no nego...

But.....pls be prepare for the worst outcome...my bf wan me to tell u dat...probably ur bf wan to hv u and his fren both as his gfS...he tins he cant lose both...and he cant choose one...he said dis situation happened coz ur bf c the "tins" which u dun hv but found on his fren and wat his fren dun hv found on u...

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Added on January 8, 2008, 5:17 pmHey...I started to get piss off wif u guys saying about sex all da time...
WE gals is not sex provider k?
Thr is no rule saying dat we gals must gv our boys sex for everytime we meeting dem k? Am I rite TS?

This post has been edited by QiQio: Jan 8 2008, 05:17 PM

i mean IF you guys are doing it then stop.. alot of guys just wants that..
i aint saying girls are sex providers =.=

i'm not trying to put u down but i feel it won't last.. getting close with other friends especially with opposite gender must have a limit if they're not single anymore..
did he spend more time with you or with the other girl? you feel that he's enjoying himself more when he's with you or the other girl?
if he can fall and develop feelings upon another when he's with you.. it more or less proves that he has the tendency to cheat. if he wouldn't end up with this girl, there is still a long road ahead, who knows how many more girls he might meet in future.. does he love you enough??
be sure you're not to get hurt..

U and ur bf is having what?
U have boyfriend and he have girlfriend?

U aint seeing nothing sister...go visit the sex thread.

I have my own male frens and he has his own female frens lar...

Dear Alice, you must be going thru a very bad time now. All i can say is:

1) Let him settle it by himself as he wished but tell him to be true to you. No hanky panky as a r/ship needs honesty
2) Everyone deserves a chance and so does your bf and also give ur r/ship a chance as well
3) That girl's a real B*tch!!! Pure B*tch
4) Finally, I believe that you love him dearly to let him go now. So give the r/ship another chance but this time, be prepared. If anything happen, at least you wont be that hurt and finally realised that this guy is not worth your love after all.

Cheer up. okay

well..regarding this question...erm...act is depends on how u believe in your bf ....but for me is ok....as long as they din over the limit..
haha....and of cuz when i go out with my fren he also cant say cant....
haha...

we r staying together, so during day time he wil only contact me when he need me to do something for him.. he very seldom wil call me up n ask me wat i m doing o some sort of this.. but in another way round i m the 1 contacting him n chat-chit wif him.. but always got rejected by "i m busy", "i got customer" n bla bla bla.. not even out call can last for more than 5 min..

but with the gal he can keep sms n calling each other very frequent n almost everyday.. and he still dun wan to admit tat he got contacting wif the gal always until i found out the proof then he juz said i oso need fren to chat-chit n share thing.

more worst is when i m back to my hometown, i m the 1 contact him at nite always.. n he will call me up only when he need something from me..

he n the gal do go out together without my knowledge.. n only after tat he juz told me abt it.. wat is tat means? i asked him n he answer is i dun wan u too think too much n misunderstand..

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Added on January 8, 2008, 8:42 pmhow do u know they r not over the limit??

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Added on January 8, 2008, 8:46 pmI do hv my own male frens.. but we r jus online chating n mayb just once a week or a call in few month times.. n i wil told my bf everything tat i hv chat o do wif my male frens..



This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 8 2008, 08:46 PM

Oh? Dats good for someway...just dat is one way only and ur bf is not acted dat way...but i and my bf at least hv 2 ways...but if miss out something...den i dunno lor...but i tell all la...ehehhe...

Erm...seriously, from wat u hv tell us here i tin u oledi know da answer in ur heart...but is either u not dare to do it or u r not believe it happen somehow...does it sound confusing?

Ok..i simplified it. U know oledi how he hv treated u...and u also know dat ur current position in his heart...and u also know dat da importance of u to him...and u also know the reason of ur existence in his life...
and...NOW is either u dun accept the fact OR u oledi hv solution but u dun dare to do it and u wan us here to find u a reason for u to hold on on him...

If i not rite, just ignore it la...is just say wat i tin only...^^

This post has been edited by QiQio: Jan 8 2008, 09:20 PM

TS, if the gal B1TCHY enough...once give SMTH for ur bf..i think he sure cant tahan..trust me..ask guys here.....

i think it is time to let ur boy choose carefully...either u or gal...going out without let u know...sounds fishy...this guy not worth for u to love him if he keep going like that..think wisely, TS

yes, i do hv my answer juz tat i not dare to face n accept the fact.. i cant accept the true tat he can change so fast from a person to another totally different person tat i feel scary of.. some times i wil asking myself izzit really tat i think too much n they r juz fren.. but every times when i start think positively sure hv some thing stopped me to do so.. like seeing both of them contact each other very frequent..

i do admit tat i not trust him anymore.. he hv lie too many times to me n keep on hurting me non stop.. tat's really very hurt..

This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 8 2008, 09:51 PM

if you don't mind telling his and yours age ?

early of 20.. not more than 25yo.. we r same age..

y??

I think both of you are already tiring with current relationship. The only reason to stay on this relationship is just you dun dare to challenge the rest of ur life alone; u've paid too much on this relationship and on ur bf side, he owed you too much and he dun wish to take the first move to break up with you (perhaps he dun wish to bear the responsible).

Well, above statement is totally based on my thought (of course i dun hope it to be true, but remember world is always cruel)

Last but not least, wish you can be stronger and remember a chinese idiom: Shorter and deeper pain is always better than long pain. Hope you can settle this pain asap.

I was about to say "What's wrong with that?" until I saw you said she confessed her feelings to him. Yikes.

Yes.. when i m reading up ur reply suddenly just like got a bulk shine very bright on my head.. i got the idea n i believe wat u thought maybe is correct..

As i mentioned b4, i always think he is the best gift tat God have give to me..


P/S: tis morning when hearing to MY FM suddenly heard a chinese song.. by Micheal n the song title is "Fire work".. i cried.. the song really sing out every part of my feeling.. Found it: http://www.crunchyroll.com/showmedia?id=202244



This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 8 2008, 10:17 PM

well that settle the things here, he still need to enjoys his young life (like how does it feel to have two person loving me at the same time) (how does it feel to flirt with somebody if i already have gf), well good luck girl, i guess the people in here already give the answer, the rest is up to u, cheers

Thanks because of u agree with me and I feel so sorry that my thought is the truth that happen to u (cant say is true maybe still got hope but i believe the percentage of true is for sure higher now)

This morning, my gf and i were also listening tat while on the way to work, undeniably it is a very touching song.

TS, after reading ur story, my advice, ask him what he want actually.. tell him to make up his mind and make a decision.. and at least give him a day to think about it.. tell him it is either you or her.. you have to face the reality.. if you are sure about the conclusion.. make up your mind and make a decision..no point dragging on

Thx all for ur reply.. yesterday we argue again.. some more the gal called him n complaint to him wat i hv posted up in my friendster n hv harassed her.. then i did argue wif the gal on the phone.. n she keep on sms n calling him since yesterday (she sms/call him to show her caring like ask him eat adi?, r u ok? n etc)

anyway, my bf n i hv make to a point tat he wil stil wif me n at the same time he wil go n clear out everything wif the gal.. n he wan me to stop suspect him n trust him.. so do i wan him to know his own limit to every gal tat he meet..

but i know i stil doubt of something.. wat really i wan now.. i oso can't answer it..

This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 9 2008, 11:08 AM

U can give him a chance to prove himself or u dont give chance.

Yes, i wil give a chance to both of us.. n c how's going on..

way to go... give it a chance before letting go something. This might strengthen the bond btw u both instead. for a better r/ship. good luck and be happy.

Assume I am a girl. I do mind if my boyfren do like this. It just feel like sharing a man with another gal, if not frequent actaully still can acceptable. But then, I guess u shud voice this up to him. Argue is unavoidable, but of coz please let him know what is your intention and tell him what he does that make u not satisfy with him.

And to those who already attached but have opposite sex close fren,

Is nothing wrong to have a opposite sex close fren after u attached, but then, dun get too close or meet too often. Please do care for your partner feeling, even if your partner dun mind people might say things behind. Human do need face to go socialize.

thx

yes.. everyone hv to care for your partner feeling n know the limit.. n to avoid all kind of misunderstanding o jealousy which might happened..

well.. you've both decided to give it a try again.. i here wish you luck.. i know the pain.
and whatever you do.. always leave some space for you..

it's wiser to give 90% and keep 10% for urself rather than always 100%.
love yourself more.

There is no way a guy can be so close to another gal as what you said but yet still maintain it as just a friendship. His actions speaks everything. I am a guy here so take it from me.

For him to go out secretly with the other gal and then give one of the lamest reason ever which is "I scared u misunderstand" already point out the fact that he know u will be upset if u know he go out with the other gal but yet he still go on with it. A guy who love u wudn't do things that upset u.

Another thing is, the gal confessed to him and yet he still didn't draw a line between friendship and a person that have a feeling for u. Especially he got a gf, he should know how to draw a clear line without u even mentioning it to him. Come on, he can't be that dumb unless he wish to have 2 gfs?mistress?or maybe still trying to explore his options?

Love is selfish, love yourself first before u expect to be loved by others. All this crap where as long as ur partner is happy n therefore u are happy is nonsense. Don't let ur emotions get the better of you juz becoz he make u believe in love. You should believe in love yourself, not let others make u believe in love and when he is gone, ur believe is gone too.

If your bf doesn't know the right thing to do after all this mess, maybe you should confront that girl and tell her she's making you all depressed. Well if she is really a byatch obviously she ain't gonna care... but if she is only a friend of your bf's .. maybe she'll know what to do?

first,after read all the reply from u guys to TS and listen to wat she said(actually.. donno TS stand for wat.. but i think is to the 1 who create this topic).. i feel your bf is quite selfish... if your bf wan you to trust him but at the same time he hide anything from you.. izzit sound weird here?? why don just he tell wat he did on his day?? especially with that girl ...

second,when u say...when u at hometown just u called him.. and he never called u.. really piss me off.. he not worry bout u? but instead he can call his `friend' to chat and sms with her?? wat the.. just like my last time.. so that feeling.. really like.. why i am the 1 keep calling him/her to chat but... he/she never call me??

anyway.. i hope u can decide how the relationship continue.. since the problem had occur and he like.. cant decide how to settle with his `friend'.. so u better prepare the worse result might happen... but for sure.. i hope your bf will get back to your side... cheers~~

i think... u have alot supporter at here too... if u wanna chat.. i think all of us.. will stand by your side !!

He lied to you about clearing things up with the girl.

And he will not clear it in front of you coz he will tell another lie to the other girl.

And he did say its the end of the relationship if you want him to clear things up (in front of you) coz all his lies will be broken then.

When his all his accumulated lies break, there's no point to lie to you anymore. So of course its a bye bye.

Now he is having both girl to pleasure him. And if you wish to continue to do so, by all means continue.
If you dont, stop being so blind

ya.. i started to learn it previously but i failed.. bcoz others say i m too soft-hearted.. i dunno.. maybe correct mayb no.. but i will try again.. thx for your wish..

i dunno.. i m thinking the same way like u.. but he always said me think too much n over sensitive and can bcome a movie script writer..

now wat i can do is think positively, the reason he done all this is bcoz of his "logical/rational" hv take over his "feeling".. he act according to his feeling.. i feeling better when i think tis way..

thx..

i do confronted her last time.. both of them hv the same outcome - fren.. now i regret to met her face to face.. bcoz she went over to told my bf everything tat i hv told her.. including those not-so-good-to-be-hear words.. n last few days, she called my bf to complaint i harassed her n at tat time i m there so she n me argue again.. n i asked her y she go n tell out everything to my bf.. she answer bcoz she dun like to do thing behind other.. n i replied then u go n tell my bf all this thing not consider do thing behind me?.. she quiet for a while n angrily answer bcoz u r not my fren, n r u satisfy wif this answer.. i m speechless..

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Added on January 10, 2008, 5:17 pmyes, TS = thread starter..

the calling part (when i at hometown) adi occur since long time ago.. when i asked him he always said i m busy, i think u sleep adi, my phone no credit, n etc..

dun worry, i always think worse.. so how worse it is i think i can accept it..

i m thinking tat way too.. so tat's y i request to be face to face n my present.. but he refused..

yesterday he told me he adi settled wif the gal.. n i asked him wat u both hv talked.. he only ask me to go n check his handphone.. i didnt do so.. but in tat gal's blog she update something like "to someone special, we both believe in fate, n the fate wil manage to come when we hv together faced all the obstacle.. n bla bla bla" i dunno who is the special one tat she meant mayb is my bf.. if yes, y she posting in her blog? to angry me? i m thinking to block her friendster n dun wan to see her anymore.. wat u all think?



This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 10 2008, 05:17 PM

no.. don blocked... continue to c wat is she doing.. wat is her intention.. mayb from there u can find sth else..

one more thing, do not lie to urself when u smell sth k

take care

Words fail me.

Be strong girl. Just remember that life is about so much more. Stand up whenever you fall.

Well I don't wanna make things worse here, but isn't it pretty obvious that they are hiding something? I mean, if she has nothing to do with him, why would she be angry and tell your bf about you confronting her instead of saying sorry to both of you cuz of the misunderstandings?

And secondly, your own bf~~ he's not clearing things up. He's not helping you in trusting him. Cuz I don't see any effort from him in clearing up this mess according to what you have said.

Solutions? If you trust him that he has settled things already, then forget about the other girl . If you still have doubts that he is still cheating on you, then why not get out of this tiring relationship?

sure.. but i really feel the hurt when i start thinking they hv "something".. the pain is really from the heart.. i hate tis kind of pain..

Thx

Yes, i do told him.. proof to me tat u 2 hv nth.. n he reply me by how i going to proof.. in ur mind n heart u adi confirm me n tat gal hv something..

i m giving both of us a chance again.. n i m trying my best to forget the gal n the incident.. n back like previously..

this shows how irresponsible ur bf is.. ts, sorry to say, if im u i'll forget about him..

regardless of what people tell you.. i think if you really like him you will still give it a chance.. most girls will

but people do not simply give you opinions and replies. sometimes truths hurts.

if you're up to do something, you have to accept it no matter what is the outcome

This post has been edited by paranoid: Jan 11 2008, 01:13 PM

Do you trust your boyfriend that he won't be cheating on you? Do you know this girl well enough that she's not trying to steal your man? Have you ever joined them before?

If they're just good friends, I wouldn't mind at all. Guys don't like their girlfriends to get too jealous, they get annoyed Give him some space... he has his own life and you've yours too and a couple doesn't have to spend 24/7 together. I always hang out with my guy friend often (we work in the same company and we even live together) and my boyfriend doesn't mind that at all because he trusts me.

Sometimes I do talk/chat with some of my clients female employees around my age. Just doing that to improve the customer relationship and secondly to understand the thinking of young gals.

Honestly, I dont mind going out 1-on-1 on a dinner or something but to have her calling me asking if I ate, how im feeling everyday, I guess there's more than friendship in it. Besides the gal already confess to him. For me, sometimes we will hit the bottom side of a relationship and might fall for traps like these. For me, I will made my stance clear.

agreed....
Sad to say not many guys can do tat...

personally, i really dont like my bf to be very close with a gal, especially with his ex. It's really frustated. Wat's for still so close with his ex? and this make me hate that gal very much. Just like wu lei jing. Even though she know i dont like them to contact with each other so much, but still she do so. Really hate her lah. Wu lei jing

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Added on January 13, 2008, 9:40 pmsome gals are really b****es woh... they wont care and will keep contacting with other's bf and make the couple argue always. this is called b****es and wu lei jing loh.

This post has been edited by moonlight2: Jan 13 2008, 09:40 PM

The girl updated her blog again.. and this time still the same he blogging abt my bf again.. some more wrote up his name.. wat make me surprise is my bf hv brought her a crystal bracelet n other items.. refer to her blog, she wrote out all the sweet words tat my bf hv told her.. like "i will give u all my money so tat u no need go for study".. n wat he hv done to her to make her happy.. i m speechless.. kena boom bcome few thousand pieces..

he told me they r just normal fren now n seldom contacting each other... but from the blog she wrote... hahahhaa.. everything is totally different..

I've read from page 1. Nothing to add.. just that...

The answer should be obvious now,
Be strong, girl

This post has been edited by neogeo85: Jan 13 2008, 10:49 PM

well, if they are best friends, im ok with it. but they should have a limit right?
thats what im facing now too!!!!!!!

good but how many fellas can as stance as u ?

it's very obvious now..
cut it off.. it's painful but it's for ur own good
the earlier the better..

don't always trust what the guy has to say.. look it from your point of view and from the other girls reaction..
it's not fair to you also

He said he didnt brought the crystal bracelet for her.. n the reason he told all those "sweet words" to her is just joking.. n he said again they r juz normal fren n he is just "normal" caring toward a fren only..

he ask me stop go n read her blog n let her write wat she like to do.. he cant stop her to do so..

scolded me for using his account to sent msg to her..

u still trust him???
wake up !! girl

he scold you coz he wants more privacy??

i dunno wat should i do now.. very confuse..

i really hope tat's an answer can drop from the sky to tell me wat to do..

i've been through the very same experience with you.. which is why i'm in this thread here
it's best to just let go, let go yourself, not let go off him

if you keep dragging this, you will suffer more
you're still young

Break up and move on. That's the best revenge. U deserve a better man than him. Obviously, he does not appreciate you. A relationship is based on respect and honesty. Keep your head up. Goodluck!

I think it's fair to say
leave him!


This post has been edited by nixtar: Jan 14 2008, 05:24 PM

The answer from sky


LEAVE HIM NOW!


i am a similar category guy like your bf. And all i can tell u is, he have had sex with both the girl and you. So i am telling you for good.

forget him since he cant leave that gal...i pretty sure they have *something*

give him a slap at his face, a kick at his d*** for being itchy and leave him at once.. <=== the best solution

dun let go the whole forest becos of a tree... bear that in mind

This post has been edited by alvinfcj: Jan 14 2008, 07:36 PM

mind to share your story?


dear all,
Thx for all the reply.. i do appreciate it a lot.. thx against..



This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 14 2008, 09:13 PM

TS u need our support izzit ? i give u green light to chop him out of your life


This post has been edited by nickisthemost: Jan 14 2008, 09:20 PM

how many more replies u need to get you moving or make ur decision??

ts, better watch out... tis guy is not "trustable"..

well, come to senses that he is a very flitry guy.
if you dont trust him then there is no more point, u force also might not work.
question him if u need ans, dun let the question wandering in your mind.

if the ans you seek satisfy you then its u decesion to stay or not. else, please leave him.