i'm not trying to put u down but i feel it won't last.. getting close with other friends especially with opposite gender must have a limit if they're not single anymore..
did he spend more time with you or with the other girl? you feel that he's enjoying himself more when he's with you or the other girl?
if he can fall and develop feelings upon another when he's with you.. it more or less proves that he has the tendency to cheat. if he wouldn't end up with this girl, there is still a long road ahead, who knows how many more girls he might meet in future.. does he love you enough??
be sure you're not to get hurt..

well.. you've both decided to give it a try again.. i here wish you luck.. i know the pain.
and whatever you do.. always leave some space for you..

it's wiser to give 90% and keep 10% for urself rather than always 100%.
love yourself more.

regardless of what people tell you.. i think if you really like him you will still give it a chance.. most girls will

but people do not simply give you opinions and replies. sometimes truths hurts.

if you're up to do something, you have to accept it no matter what is the outcome

This post has been edited by paranoid: Jan 11 2008, 01:13 PM

it's very obvious now..
cut it off.. it's painful but it's for ur own good
the earlier the better..

don't always trust what the guy has to say.. look it from your point of view and from the other girls reaction..
it's not fair to you also

u still trust him???
wake up !! girl

he scold you coz he wants more privacy??

i've been through the very same experience with you.. which is why i'm in this thread here
it's best to just let go, let go yourself, not let go off him

if you keep dragging this, you will suffer more
you're still young

how many more replies u need to get you moving or make ur decision??

trust me the girl won't just stop there

she can go to the limits of posting blogs, and with intention to intrude a relationship, and admits it..

whaddya think?
just don't love the guy anymore overnight?

yup yup..
there is not only one girl out there that might act like her..

u had the guts to say that
i couldn't find other better way to agree with you
no offence TS, but feyhime is right, look at most of the replies from the people here..

girl, you have to love yourself more, you have to be selfish! it's like that, that's the way it is.
Does he give u enough respect as your boyfriend in the first place?
Being soft-hearted and all, giving you both a chance.. etc etc.. if this is the way u'll take it, i wish you luck.
If you still see that there is problem, give it up girl. Don't keep putting hope and lie to yourself everytime that this relationship will work. You're just denying that things might not work out between u both.

we're not your enemy nor your friends, we're not here to give you what u want to hear
hope u understand

well.. jealous can be kinda cute sometimes..
but not too controlling of course

when it comes to an extend where your bf is closer and share things more with another girl than u..
then you know it's not right

she is one of a kind..
probably he's rich and she is just tagging him around also

it doesn't affect anything at all?

i don't think i can ever be that open minded