ahyo...sorry to sound so professional. TS, let him do it himself the "breakup" wif the other girl.

if you stand there tapping your feet, arms folded and sour-sour, you not only malu him no face, he also will find it very difficult to speak freely to the other girl. also, it means you are also "punishing" him, and also control him at the same time.

from this, of course, he gets up set and threatened to cancel your relationship with him.

for now you've "won" (aka got your way) at a price. let him win something also.

yes, punishing as in punish. not push. see, bf made to choose and TS won, having won it is time to...and control. maybe i'm wrong. i've been wrong before and will be wrong again now and again.