Dear all,

Do u mind ur bf to be very close to another gal? They can talk to each other almost everything (including wat happened btw u n ur bf) n very frequent, hv meal together (just him n her), go out together, when anything happened the 1st person to contact/think of is her.

And u know the gal actually hv confess to ur bf her feeling. Wat u think of and wat u wil do??

Plz leave ur comment ya.

Sometimes I do talk/chat with some of my clients female employees around my age. Just doing that to improve the customer relationship and secondly to understand the thinking of young gals.

Honestly, I dont mind going out 1-on-1 on a dinner or something but to have her calling me asking if I ate, how im feeling everyday, I guess there's more than friendship in it. Besides the gal already confess to him. For me, sometimes we will hit the bottom side of a relationship and might fall for traps like these. For me, I will made my stance clear.

mind to share your story? 
dear all,
Thx for all the reply.. i do appreciate it a lot.. thx against..

TS, leave him before is tooooooo late....
what for sacrifice to this kind of man, is not worth.....

i dunno.. juz found out tat she hv blocked me n my bf from her friendster i think.. bcoz she disapper from my fren list.. feel like she is quite childish    n throw all the fault on me n saying me doing all those nonsense thing.. some more last time she did scolded me childish.. who she think she is? anyway, what goes around comes around.. the words that she used to scolded me b4 now adi appeared on herself.. thx God..

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Added on January 17, 2008, 11:38 am

one of my bf's fren (gal) oso saying the same thing.. she said we cant "fight" wif her, sure lose 1.. so better juz ignore her n let her be..

Yes, i well known abt it.. tat's y i m stil hving doubt there.. 

i did.. but stil the same.. from wat i heard from him i think he's always the right 1.. he said he cant control other not to fallen in love wif him.. yes i knew tat but he should know to step on the brake once he feel something amiss.. but in this case he didnt do so.. he continue to step on the pedal harder rather than slow it down.. wat i hate a lot is he is not stopping giving me excuses.. lame excuse..
my bf n tat gal adi stop contacting each other n the gal said she wil end this "frenship" bcoz of my nonsense.. the way she saying tat look like i m the third party.. speechless..

wat i can do now is "watch a step n walk a step".. sorry for lousy translation..   
mind to let me know after u hv broke up wif ur ex, do u together wif another gal (tat 1 u said u happier wif)??

Interested to become the male fren??   

Last few days, i did sms wif my fren when he is beside me.. n he not dare to ask me who it is (from wat i think la).. bcoz normally he wil ask..

TS, just forget this stupid ass ******* watever watever guy.

He's a stupid ass ******* watever watever jerk for being disloyal to you and waht this stupid ass bastarad watever watever dont know how to draw a line.

So forget this stupid ******* watever watever ok..

If my gal ask me choose between her and other gal. I IMMIEDIATELY say its her. No need to pause when u really love that person.

As for your stupid ass ******* watever watever, a jerk.

You have an *ss shape world. Not all guys will love hawt gals, but I can said guys will like hawt gals instead of love.
Poke yourself with dictionary.

up n down..    thx for the concern.. 
i dunno.. tat's y i m here to asking is it i m normal..    bcoz i very mind my bf to b very close to other gal.. he said juz fren.. good fren.. then i asked him again wat if i m doing the same thing  with other guy, would u angry? n he answered yes..    confusing..

izzit all the guy r like tat?? if yes, i think mayb i wont look for bf adi.. mayb gf?

7chai: dun worry.. i wont change my taste..  i believe they r still a better guy waiting for me.. 

well.. jealous can be kinda cute sometimes..
but not too controlling of course

Yes.. but i m single n available 

Y not? let's ask all the girl's club girl to attend.. 

but for most of the girls said is easier than done.. at first place she might said dun mind but when time goes by she will be mind too.. n i think only in one condition she wont mind at all is she is tat kind of person too.. like to hang around wif guys n can b very close wif them no matter wat.. 

how abt ur gf?? she is the same kind like u?? can hang around wif guys too??

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Added on January 31, 2008, 3:26 pm



come share a bit here.. wat u n her hv done??

agree.. same to me too.. but seems like most of the guys disagree wif tat.. they wil think we girl r controlling them.. controlling his freedom to befriend with other.. some even worse, they not allow their girl do so but themselves doing so is ok.. 

yup.. sometime we need to hv our own time to do our thing..
We r coupling back again.. n our relationship is stable now.. he treat me quite good after tat incident.. of coz sometime he wil hv his own temper too.. as for me, i still wil think back tat incident n tat gal.. i guess tis incident not tat easy to get out from my mind..    but i m trying my best not to think too much n do well my part.. *touchwood* anything happened in the future i wont regret n hope not tat sad/heartbroken..