dun talk so loud 1st, when the time there is a gal that thousand times hawter then your gf i doubt u will say the same thing now.

You have an *ss shape world. Not all guys will love hawt gals, but I can said guys will like hawt gals instead of love.
Poke yourself with dictionary.

We are all sick. We need to see a therapist due to we like hAWT girls and chooses g-pars as gf.

no

i am concentrating on my study n career as now, i realise if i'm w tht gal, we'll end up the same once we both grow differently

until i think i'm financially stable n ready for marriage, i'll only seriously start another relationship n then lock it to start my own family

not to say i reject gals for now, instead i focus more towards my personal goal, will not purposely go n sport a good gal like my ex for the purpose of marriage in the future

so far i'm glad w my choice, i met many other great gals which i'm happy with along my single life, hence it strengthen my view tht it's really the matter of timing

if u feel u r tired n unhappy, n there r still many things u need to achieve, do not hesitate to make ur decision life comes once and it's short, i want to live my life to the fullest n nvr regret

I dun use dictionary u fuk.

fark more, i pm mod to come this thread

then ban u /gg /wrist

your bf and the girl knew each other first..or only after u and him got together?

u ever talk to ur bf about this?

good choice... i'm in quite in the same situation as u...

A brave decision i can say.. n really how many of guys can really do tat.. i really doubt tat..

btw dun mind me to ask 1 more question do ur ex know abt ur "relationship" wif other gal?

nope.. i hv been together wif my bf for 4years+.. he n tat gal juz knew for 2months+.. btw my current relationship wif my bf is the 2nd time.. eemm.. i means we broke up b4 for 2 years then get together again after tat.. the 1st relationship juz last for few months only..

yesterday he told me tat he always being good wif gals.. n can until the level tat "very good".. so i asked him wat u mean by "very good".. he didnt answer my question (he did told me tat he hugged a gal, his colleague but for fun/joking only)..

so the conclusion is if i wan to being wif him then i must trust him n cant control him at all in who he like to being good together n how good they r.. i m speechless.. anyway it's all abt "take it" o "leave it"...

This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 19 2008, 10:23 AM

how are you today @lice? feeling better?

he dun even respect u as his girlfriend..what is the meaning of him doing all this? well maybe he's trying to be honest, but hello, he has you. you ain't invisible are u?

up n down.. thx for the concern..


i dunno.. tat's y i m here to asking is it i m normal.. bcoz i very mind my bf to b very close to other gal.. he said juz fren.. good fren.. then i asked him again wat if i m doing the same thing with other guy, would u angry? n he answered yes.. confusing..

izzit all the guy r like tat?? if yes, i think mayb i wont look for bf adi.. mayb gf?

It's surprising you let your bf walk all over you. Do you have no sense of respect to yourself? (No offense, but it's a valid question on my part. If you mind.. then it's fine not to answer ^__^) Anyone would take advantage on anybody if they have the chance to. I sincerely hope that you can come to your senses and start appreciating yourself because your bf obviously don't. You deserve someone better, girl.

my main weakness is i m too soft-hearted mayb.. of coz i do hv the sense of respect of myself like wat u mentioned.. everytime when i hv convinced myself to stop giving then sure hv something stopped me.. mayb my mind is not strong enough? i dunno.. i really hope someone/something can really knock on me n let me bcome another totally different from wat i m now..

Great, let's live our life to the fullest


Sure, when i put less effort on my ex, sure she'll be curious, plus she is a brilliant gal scholarship student

Similar as u, i told my ex i want to maintain the relationship, but tht time my heart is like going to the other gal

@lice~~, i'm sure you can change, if ur will is strong enough

thx.. i wil try my best no matter wat.. i'm free now.. i will start to search for my own life now.. n live for myself not other..

btw to b frank, ur answer really make me very disappointed wif guys..

This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 20 2008, 02:18 PM

you should have done that since long long time ago

but because of a stupid guy, you are diasspointed with all guys, that's not very good i tell you, when you learn to appreciate, good things are usually under our nose undiscovered

You need determination. Nobody can help you come to your senses, girl. Only yourself can do that. Take a break and re-evaluate your own life, yourself and your relationship. If you are going to give in to 'something that crop up and make me change my mind' excuses, then you will fall one day from the depression of living in a lie. Be true to yourself. Put your feet down sternly if you have make up your mind. You only live once, how many regrets do you wish to bear for the rest of your life?

hehe glad to hear tht

many people assume to live in their own world, but the fact is the fact, this is the nature of human

however dun be disappointed with guys, they are part of ur life and one of them will accompany u for the rest of ur life

chocolatepallette is rite, time will pass and u'll grow and appreciate

remember, must enjoy ur life, find a life partner which share the goals with u, life only comes once and u define ur own life

u had the guts to say that
i couldn't find other better way to agree with you
no offence TS, but feyhime is right, look at most of the replies from the people here..

girl, you have to love yourself more, you have to be selfish! it's like that, that's the way it is.
Does he give u enough respect as your boyfriend in the first place?
Being soft-hearted and all, giving you both a chance.. etc etc.. if this is the way u'll take it, i wish you luck.
If you still see that there is problem, give it up girl. Don't keep putting hope and lie to yourself everytime that this relationship will work. You're just denying that things might not work out between u both.

we're not your enemy nor your friends, we're not here to give you what u want to hear
hope u understand