i think the BF is not worth... dump him
Do u mind?, Relationship topic
Do u mind?, Relationship topic
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Jan 24 2008, 09:22 AM
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21,308 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Kuala Lumpur |
i think the BF is not worth... dump him
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Jan 24 2008, 01:17 PM
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QUOTE(feyhime @ Jan 24 2008, 09:07 AM) The point of being in a relationship is to share your life (to a certain extent). What's the point of having a significant other when he/she is not the first person you share your life with? It does not make them any different from having a friend, wouldn't it? If so, why set into a relationship? Yes, i agree wif u.. ur lover can b ur fren but ur fren cant b ur lover.. |
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Jan 24 2008, 01:23 PM
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Jan 24 2008, 01:34 PM
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QUOTE(feyhime @ Jan 24 2008, 09:07 AM) The point of being in a relationship is to share your life (to a certain extent). What's the point of having a significant other when he/she is not the first person you share your life with? It does not make them any different from having a friend, wouldn't it? If so, why set into a relationship? The significant is that someone special (bf-gf/husband-wife/parents) knows about it and others don't know about it. This is a scheduler problem. |
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Jan 25 2008, 09:03 PM
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433 posts Joined: Jan 2008 From: Penang, Malaysia |
QUOTE(@lice~~ @ Jan 8 2008, 03:04 PM) Dear all, Yes, very mind Do u mind ur bf to be very close to another gal? They can talk to each other almost everything (including wat happened btw u n ur bf) n very frequent, hv meal together (just him n her), go out together, when anything happened the 1st person to contact/think of is her. And u know the gal actually hv confess to ur bf her feeling. Wat u think of and wat u wil do?? Plz leave ur comment ya. Why must he tell other girl what happened between us leh ? When anything happened time, the first person that pop-ed out in your mind is the most important person in your life because you just wanted to share everything with him, just everything regardless whether he will be helpful in solving the issue. |
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Jan 25 2008, 09:28 PM
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i will gladly bless both of them....by givin up...
i dun lik to fight bf with ppl...if she lik so much...giv her la... i deserve someone better...someone who aprreciate me much much more than he does.... Love urself...dun let tis kind of ppl make ur life miserable......... |
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Jan 26 2008, 11:12 AM
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QUOTE(@lice~~ @ Jan 8 2008, 03:49 PM) Thx guys for your reply.. i do hope to hear more comments on this.. Dear @lice,Yesterday, i forced him to choose either me o her n only one he can choose.. after a while, he said he decide to choose me.. then i asked him to call the gal n talk to her abt this n make everything clear.. but he said he wil settle it himself with the gal privately.. i disagree n wan him to talk to her now with my present.. then he angrily said if i cant accept his way then forget abt our relationship.. Comment plz.. Thx for ur previous sharing with me too... if ur bf is royalty n love u he will do watever u ask... i noticed appreciation is very important to sustain a good relationship. Gambathe |
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Jan 27 2008, 12:33 PM
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QUOTE(~Mew~ @ Jan 25 2008, 09:03 PM) Yes, very mind i dunno.. only them know wat is really happened.. if both of they r not attached, then for sure they can do watever they wan.. but the point here is one side is attached n another side well-known abt it but they r still doing so.. maybe my thinking is too traditional n not open-minded enough to accept this kind of so called friendship.. anyway thx for the commentWhy must he tell other girl what happened between us leh ? When anything happened time, the first person that pop-ed out in your mind is the most important person in your life because you just wanted to share everything with him, just everything regardless whether he will be helpful in solving the issue. QUOTE(JS5016 @ Jan 25 2008, 09:28 PM) i will gladly bless both of them....by givin up... i do think of it b4.. but the prob both of them not admit it n keep on saying they r fren only but behind me the so called friendship is more beyond tat.. n one more thing if i really give up then i hv make a most silly decision by giving a good chance to tat girl o them to b together.. i need her to pay back what she hv make.. as we know tat girl hv the intention since early stage.. i dun lik to fight bf with ppl...if she lik so much...giv her la... i deserve someone better...someone who aprreciate me much much more than he does.... Love urself...dun let tis kind of ppl make ur life miserable......... QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Jan 26 2008, 11:12 AM) Dear @lice, Yes, but not many of us know to appreciate.. every time when we lost it then we just know to appreciate.. Thx for ur previous sharing with me too... if ur bf is royalty n love u he will do watever u ask... i noticed appreciation is very important to sustain a good relationship. Gambathe |
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Jan 27 2008, 12:56 PM
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^ u still with your boyfren now ?
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Jan 27 2008, 02:19 PM
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Jan 27 2008, 03:27 PM
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Jan 27 2008, 05:31 PM
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Jan 28 2008, 03:52 PM
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Jan 28 2008, 10:35 PM
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QUOTE(@lice~~ @ Jan 28 2008, 03:52 PM) Hi alice, can feel like u already walk out from ur downtime. Glad to see u recover so fast and so brave to handle it. Keep up ur mind and always believe that there is always a better way in ur future and dun look back anymore ^ ^ (however, once u decide properly to grab it, dun look for "better one" anymore |
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Jan 28 2008, 11:58 PM
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your situation i seen many times before
seriously these guys need to be slap if i in a relationships, i can be rarely dating with other girls or flirt like nobody in front of your own gf |
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Jan 29 2008, 12:12 AM
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QUOTE(wtm0325 @ Jan 20 2008, 12:44 PM) Sure, when i put less effort on my ex, sure she'll be curious, plus she is a brilliant gal scholarship student Similar as u, i told my ex i want to maintain the relationship, but tht time my heart is like going to the other gal |
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Jan 29 2008, 11:09 AM
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QUOTE(speedguy10 @ Jan 28 2008, 10:35 PM) Hi alice, can feel like u already walk out from ur downtime. Glad to see u recover so fast and so brave to handle it. Keep up ur mind and always believe that there is always a better way in ur future and dun look back anymore ^ ^ (however, once u decide properly to grab it, dun look for "better one" anymore thx.. QUOTE(yhtan @ Jan 28 2008, 11:58 PM) your situation i seen many times before yes.. but some of girls oso dun mind to hving tis kind of bf n think it's nth.. i dunno.. maybe we r not tat open-minded.. seriously these guys need to be slap if i in a relationships, i can be rarely dating with other girls or flirt like nobody in front of your own gf |
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Jan 29 2008, 02:14 PM
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QUOTE(@lice~~ @ Jan 29 2008, 11:09 AM) yes.. but some of girls oso dun mind to hving tis kind of bf n think it's nth.. i dunno.. maybe we r not tat open-minded.. I dont think there is anything to do with open minded.If that person is gf/bf,he/she should be loyal to you by not flirting with other people.I do expect my gf(if i ever had one which is highly unlikely now) to be loyal to me and i get jealous easily if she is too close with some other guy like your case.Im also still single.Want to get attach but somethings just dont work and she is ignoring me now.She said that she going to contact me then didnt in the end.I dont know is she actually that busy or she wants me to stay away from her.Gonna have another lonely valentine. Maybe love is just complete bulllshit and doesnt exist in real world.It's not like those in movies and drama. Enough ranting,back to modding.At least changing models will keep my mind off those things.Loving someone is just hard and painful. |
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Jan 29 2008, 02:17 PM
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starting wont mind....long ler wil mind....wil talk to him/her...if stil no changes.....then say bb
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Jan 29 2008, 05:00 PM
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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Jan 29 2008, 02:14 PM) I dont think there is anything to do with open minded.If that person is gf/bf,he/she should be loyal to you by not flirting with other people.I do expect my gf(if i ever had one which is highly unlikely now) to be loyal to me and i get jealous easily if she is too close with some other guy like your case. But there are stil ppl in love. don feel so 'grey'. she is not urs mayb. don force.Im also still single.Want to get attach but somethings just dont work and she is ignoring me now.She said that she going to contact me then didnt in the end.I dont know is she actually that busy or she wants me to stay away from her.Gonna have another lonely valentine. Maybe love is just complete bulllshit and doesnt exist in real world.It's not like those in movies and drama. Enough ranting,back to modding.At least changing models will keep my mind off those things.Loving someone is just hard and painful. A person who can stand up faster because he was a loser b4. hope u get wat i mean. |
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