wokie
good to hear that are some progress better then a stalemate
hope the relationship of u and him improve

TS,
be strong and good luck in your relationship ya.
sometimes, some girls juz dunno how to behave themselves and get close to those guys tat already have gf. They nv think that their gf will get jealous or so. So frustrated sometime. I personally did face this problem myself as I dun really like my bf to be very good to other gals. ^ ^

trust me the girl won't just stop there

sad to say... usually it's like tat... but who knows...

she can go to the limits of posting blogs, and with intention to intrude a relationship, and admits it..

whaddya think?
just don't love the guy anymore overnight?

i dunno.. juz found out tat she hv blocked me n my bf from her friendster i think.. bcoz she disapper from my fren list.. feel like she is quite childish n throw all the fault on me n saying me doing all those nonsense thing.. some more last time she did scolded me childish.. who she think she is? anyway, what goes around comes around.. the words that she used to scolded me b4 now adi appeared on herself.. thx God..

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Added on January 17, 2008, 11:38 amone of my bf's fren (gal) oso saying the same thing.. she said we cant "fight" wif her, sure lose 1.. so better juz ignore her n let her be..





This post has been edited by @lice~~: Jan 17 2008, 11:38 AM

luck is on your side so far, coz your opponent choose to give up. but problem is still on ur boyfren, there is thousands million gals out there, today u can beat this opponent, can u guarantee u will beat down the next 1 ? And try think what cause all this happen, think.

yup yup..
there is not only one girl out there that might act like her..

Yes, i well known abt it.. tat's y i m stil hving doubt there..

im not trying to say your boyfren not good. but then try tell him what is playing in your mind from this gal incident till this moment. With soften way, if u got tears dun hide it from him.

i agree with paranoid & 7chai. i been browsing this topic wen i got free time...
everytime after i read this topic til the last page, i got the move that wanted to click on the ADD REPLY button...but i control myself not to giv any comment or opinion on this topic...cz i rmbr tat "do teach ppl guide their children but do not teach ppl divorce"..but this time i really got a bit fed up with wat ur bf n the girl react..this topic alrdy goes on n on til now (page 6) alrdy. many forum-ers have given their advises.

everyone here can feel tat u love ur bf so much but u ask urself can u jus prolong this problem with this triangle relationship til old? if ur ans is 'yes' den i got nothing to say cz thr's alrdy ur ans.

if 'no' den jus make ur move. letting this continue, the one who suffer is YOU not him n not her.

lik one of the forumer said
"dun let go the whole forest becos of a tree"

i believe most of the couple will face this problem wen they entered to LOVE WORLD, is jus tat u know how to think or not. as some of the forumers here suffer almost the same thing as u, n my fren as well..lucky she know how to find her way out...she dump him n after a yr lik tat she found his true love n 2gth abt 3yrs n finally, they r getting marry soon..(there is always a better day, babe)

haiz...if my sentences can't help, pls jus ignore me..n my last sentence "if u wan ppl to love u, do love urself 1st. Don torture urself"

This post has been edited by purpleglitz: Jan 17 2008, 06:26 PM

this is rediculous... u gotta do wat u gotta do...

seriously @lice~, u hv to accept the truth, this relationship wont last long, or u'll hv to sacrifice really a lot to maintain it

personally i think i hv been at the similar situation as ur bf in past time, i can feel wat he feel n now after reading this thread, i can feel how my ex gf feel

ur bf is now more like taking the responsibilities to keep the relationship as too many reasons eg promise, reputation, habit etc, on the other hand he meet someone who is happier with (boring of the old relation, no SURPRISE)

u'll hv to prepare n brush up urself now. there is no right or wrong in one relationship, it's just a matter of timing n the maturity of mindset as u r at tht time

as in my case, i had a 5 years relationship w my ex. as time pass by, we grow independently and the things tht we aim had shifted differently too. i then meet a gal whom i'm happier with tht time, we share many things n i accidentally ignored my ex similar to ur situation.

we end up broke up as we finally understand that as our mindset now it's impossible to be together n live happily in the future. now we r happy w each other lifestyle and we r still frens.

thts y the next relation for marriage is just merely the timing, whether tht time u meet someone who share the same thoughts, ideas & lifestyle together to live with

i did.. but stil the same.. from wat i heard from him i think he's always the right 1.. he said he cant control other not to fallen in love wif him.. yes i knew tat but he should know to step on the brake once he feel something amiss.. but in this case he didnt do so.. he continue to step on the pedal harder rather than slow it down.. wat i hate a lot is he is not stopping giving me excuses.. lame excuse..

my bf n tat gal adi stop contacting each other n the gal said she wil end this "frenship" bcoz of my nonsense.. the way she saying tat look like i m the third party.. speechless..

wat i can do now is "watch a step n walk a step".. sorry for lousy translation..

mind to let me know after u hv broke up wif ur ex, do u together wif another gal (tat 1 u said u happier wif)??

then, go find a male fren. Do all the same thing he do with the gal. Try see what is his reaction. Im not joking, do it dun be tolerate. If he make noise, then inform me, i help u to fark him over.

"she quiet for a while n angrily answer bcoz u r not my fren."

waaa this girl geng men...
if is me then i sure slap her right away.

=.=

Interested to become the male fren??

Last few days, i did sms wif my fren when he is beside me.. n he not dare to ask me who it is (from wat i think la).. bcoz normally he wil ask..

btw 7chai love backside one, he will surely fark him upside down.

so go ahead girl , be strong

ask me to become ? why not.

anyway, Gladys dun be so violent. I dun play guy backside due to im not gay as u think.

TS, just forget this stupid ass ******* watever watever guy.

He's a stupid ass ******* watever watever jerk for being disloyal to you and waht this stupid ass bastarad watever watever dont know how to draw a line.

So forget this stupid ******* watever watever ok..

If my gal ask me choose between her and other gal. I IMMIEDIATELY say its her. No need to pause when u really love that person.

As for your stupid ass ******* watever watever, a jerk.