She is working hard to be a good wife.

She wants to build her family, she wants a baby, but her husband doesnt want baby. Both of them have different wants



Her husband doesnt do his part, and doesnt even fulfill her physical & emotional needs

Her husband only care about his golf



And his golf time is the chance for our rendezvous

Which I start to feel that Im being… i dont know the English equivalent, but in BM: tempat melampiaskan nafsu

She wants babies so badly that she asked me not to use protection, to inseminate her.

Will I be a surrogate father?

💯 with nihility here. At this point you're just enabling this infidelity for your own and her convenience/enjoyment. I can put on a troll /ktard hat and tell you ATTABOY but you know it better than anyone else, you're a moth helplessly attracted to a strong fire and you know you're dooming yourself sooner or later.

I'm sorry you were lured in unknowing of her marital status. Here I'll agree you were the victim of her seduction and irresponsibility, but as mentioned - NOW you know, you KNOW there's the next correct step to do. Are you following through?

Reread what I said earlier. It's easy to give in to temptations and the immediate fun times, you and her together. Everything you say now is just an attempt to gain validation/sympathy for the wrongs you both already committed. I can sympathise with her difficulty in her marriage, but I will not support her continued acts of infidelity. Frankly speaking, I find your conversation below disgusting.

LMAO your small head is speaking louder right now. Wake the fuck up, I'll bet you got turned on by that idea. Don't bring in a child born of infidelity, you will ruin MANY lives including your own.

Just imagine if you're that child born of you, the third wheel, and the cheating wife. The child would find out sooner or later and this will mess him/her childhood, a pivotal part of life to form his/her personality -- you will be creating a broken child into a broken family. It'd be so much easier if she just divorces her husband first then settle with you later.

Look, I understand that some people may find their soulmate/loved one outside/past their marriage. My father had a mistress and eventually my parents got divorced and he settled with his mistress. Many years later, she stayed with him throughout his battle with cancer -- she supported him in the hospital, personally cleaned his vomit, blood and literal shit in his final days and cried the most in his funeral. I'm glad for him that she took care of him until the end, because he already lost us siblings many years ago when he chose that woman. That's what it means to cheat: you needlessly sacrifice many for the one.

I thought Malaysia got one archaic law about a man messing about with another man’s wife? Where that man can sue you in court for tempting his wife with sex?

Yes, that law which Daphne Iking’s husband used on the man she fucked around with.

But I guess since you both (TS and his ‘lover’) are Muslims, maybe you both ought to fear the wrath of God more.

TS being small white face?

I feel deeply sorry for her.

You want to help relief her deepest sorrow as a lady. It shows that you are a kind soul.

However the way you are carrying out with her, isn't effective and beneficial for her in the long runs, and instead is going to invite more troubles for her and for your kind self.

There are much better ways you can help her.

If you truly like her but unable together due to her married status, then, upgrade your love to her to something that bring her towards a stronger and better person.

Try to convince and invite her read
"Surah Al-Waqiah", "sebagai Doa Harian ", consistently.
It's a very sacred and helpful for Malay ladies.

Then you take a smart exit.

She is married into a big elite and probably powerful family. You never know what their family members would do onto you at your back, or ask some groups of ppl do onto you, once things got found out.

The best way to avoid "Dendam" being instilled in the husband and the family's heart, is to steer clear of a married lady.

By this, you accumulate great merits.
For your own protection in the sense of your valuable live and your careers. In the times to come.

And the highest form of love a man to a lady he believes he loves at heart, is to help the lady achieving to be a lady of mentally and emotionally strong, and to be better and greater in various aspects of life.

Pls forgive me if any above words felt like offensive.

TS, if this woman that you are referring to is not fat and ugly, then her HB is gay.

ask her to file for divorce cos in Islamic law, heard that there are provisions or the wife to ask for divorce if the HB can't fulfill his husband duties

then you and her can decide what to do or you can just piap her but make sure you don't cream pie her

Thanks for sharing your first hand experience and your family’s dark history.

I hope your father rest in peace with his decision.

I dont have kids to sacrifice for 1. Now it is 3 persons, 1 will get hurt

The husband doesnt know yet. So he is not hurt
F is torn between 2 men
I might sacrifice myself, and let myself be severed from this relationship

God is definitely punishing me now

It is raining now, dark & gloomy day, on Hari Raya.



I have no mood to beraya also.

I dreamed about her last night, running, as if something is chasing us.

😱

I should have seek Cupid’s Corner advice much much earlier!!!



Oh no, oh shit, oh my god 😭

Thanks for your wishes. I'm sorry but I don't think you got my point fully...

Marriage is not just union of 2 individuals; it is a union of two families. Both families will be affected by the infidelity and eventual divorce. At the very least, wife's family will be ashamed of her. Husband WILL know sooner or later, and that's when the hurt comes to all.

Least hurt is when you both agree to break it off cleanly. You both started the fire so both need to take responsibility, hurt now better than hurt more later.

We decided to end it last night and chat until 230am



She asked me to end it and make her cry

I decided to pull the plug 🔌

My world went dark

Pitch black

Thanks for sharing bro 🙏🏻

Your words are profound and inspiring, not offensive at all

It came at the right time, and brought me closer to the right path

Yes I might be a kind soul, but the road to hell is paved with good intentions

“Dendam” is a dangerous thing, and I dont want to merangkak at Padang Masyar to seek for forgiveness

She is just too good to be true.

Starting with “bibit percintaan” which became “tanah semaian yg subur utk iblis & setan”, I guessed the devils were having a party linking both of us together.

Celaka punya setan

rat see trap, but don't see trap. rat go trap. rat kena trap. the end.

human make trap. human put trap. human camouflage trap. human won't won't kena trap.

moral: if you know what is trap and see from far already know is trap, why even go near trap?

rat see trap, but don't see trap. rat go trap. rat kena trap. the end.

human make trap. human put trap. human camouflage trap. human won't won't kena trap.

moral: if you know what is trap and see from far already know is trap, why even go near trap?

If she can't connect to her new husband, why the heck did she just marry him in the first place?

She is obviously looking for a distraction or escape from whatever that's going on in her new marriage. Seems like there's a lot going on under the water.

This is a minefield that, as a bachelor, you do not even need to navigate through.

If she has ended it, then she has spared you a world of unnecessary pain.

Anybody can lie to be in a relationship, simply by condemning the other party. The motive here is to gain your sympathy. As a newlywed, I wish her the best in her future endeavors. To me, you are just a pawn in this game. Get out before it's too late and things started to get bloody.

This post has been edited by Savor_Savvy: Apr 14 2024, 08:21 PM

Because trap can appear in many forms and camouflage

Trap can also be so well packaged and decorated that it looked like a sanctuary

Men had been the victim of seduction since the beginning of time.

Adam was deceived by the Serpent, via Eve’s temptations, to take a bite of the forbidden fruit.

My will was weaketh, and my body succumbed to the pleasure of flesh.

Stay away. Fear the wrath of God. Nothing good will come from this.

Don’t think we need to say anymore.

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