Thanks for the clarification bro. In this case, here is my humble opinion, based on these assumptions from what you’ve mentioned;

1. You’re educated, and judging from the responses you’ve given thus far, with a much better than average command of English, which means ergo probably at least degree level and/or above.

2. You’re obviously at a certain level at work - be it management level or senior technical level, as you shared an (albeit unrelated) encounter with a different colleague in Oslo with the readers. Oslo isn’t your run of the mill tourist trap so I would therefore surmise you were there for purposes of work.

3. You’re a Muslim, but as to how pious you might be, that’s not immediately apparent

4. She’s married, and apparently married well (at the very least, into money).

From these assumptions, I dare say you have too much to lose in terms of your potential career pathway, as well as in terms of your own standing amongst your friends and colleagues, should things with this infatuation develop into something more than just a longing or desire.

And there’s also the aspect of how you can possibly reconcile this with your own religious upbringing.

Ultimately, the hierarchy for consideration is, IMHO, what will this do to your reputation (amongst mutual friends and family and colleagues), and if you don’t care too much about that, what about your career (you cannot discount what reactionary measures her well connected husband make take that can sully your professional standing), and if that still doesn’t bother you, then you’ll have to answer to God.

Easy for me to list it out as a neutral third party without any vested interest whatsoever… much harder for you to dissect and tease out the facts from the feelings, the head from the heart and the logic from the love.

I wish you all the best.

This post has been edited by hksgmy: Jun 3 2024, 12:12 PM

Thanks for the advice

I already left the company and now looking for new job

It is not healthy to have such relationship in company.

I feel violated every time she asked for hanky panky

All the very best bro.

anymore update?

TS already left the company….

sos?

From the horse's mouth:

Yes i already left the company

I dont want to have all these hanky panky stuff affecting my work performance and i feel very uneasy being used for carnal pleasure

She is very needy and she is still texting me, but I dont wanna reply her



When she says “im always thinking of you” will always end up with:
- meet up for coffee
- hold hands in car
- touching me inappropriately
- seducing me to nearby hotel

I have tonnes of report to do in office la celaka!

Respect sir. You did the right thing

but did you still cucuk her?

No

Respect.

Not many would have done what TS did…. Many would have thrown caution to the wind and eat first, think later.

anymore story v2?

so in the end u got tapau her even once or not?

A bit hard for TS to answer… he’s currently on holiday…. Hopefully the holiday isn’t forever.

A bit busy cari makan bro

After I resigned, I realized it is not easy to start from beginning

I have to find a new footing, and rebuild my career

This post has been edited by amboi_asamboi: Aug 30 2024, 12:38 AM

you f her then she connek with another guy same feel

8ler mf

I already deleted everything, but she still text me

First message, already mention sex

I dont understand why she is so addicted to sex

Bodoh

Buat bodo je la
She only sees you as a heated dildo