ask yourself this: would you like your future wife to do the same to you? just married recently but already can fall in love with other guys

I hope the girl will reflect and contemplate her inappropriate relationship and stay committed to her marriage 

Wow. Your paramour writes very well. I'm impressed.

I don't know if you're lucky or unlucky.

If divorce is an option, and she doesn't have any kids, might be worth to go for it if you really love her.

I know of cases where it worked out (divorced and married the lover and had a long marriage) and cases where it didn't work out (divorced and married the lover and divorced again not long after).

if you don't mind going to hell can just play along with her. but still go meet other girls.

i think TS just trolling.. cerita sensasi
anyone with a clear conscious mind will stay away from this nonsense..
maybe the hubby is enjoy reading what happen between u two, being a hulk 😆

I guess I should've heeded /k advice, mmg resident troll ni haih

As a pretext, I'm non Muslim so I will not say anything in relation to your religion, but I'll come purely from my personal moral compass / how I think a human should behave:
This looks all cute and innocent at start...
"Continue being friends"
" I aware I'm being very selfish...."

Oh wait nvm, funny she wrote "what I'm feeling isn't purely lust for you (would be much easier if it was)". This is a big red flag. So it's okay for her to fuck around as someone's wife? I cannot imagine any husband agreeing to that lol. She WANTS to cheat both emotionally and physically...

"Of course there's sexual tension but we never let that lead the conversation ."
...except, she ALREADY crossed the line with her text below.
... But this here confirms to me that she is not doing her role as a wife/committed partner and she's telling her story in a way that benefits her.

In any relationship, if there's a problem, it is often** two-way.
(**exception: domestic violence or abusive relationship)

Itulah my edit later, thought one cool story may be true enough so I gave the benefit of doubt, then he gave a cooler story 🙄

But ehh we have a resident monkey torturer, I won't be surprised if he's real and some time later stops posting because some big shot wants him dead for screwing with his girl 🤷‍♀️

Just choose reject or accept and suffer the consequences.

What? U looking for enough moral police to stop u?
Oh waiiiiiiii

Did you know she was engaged prior?

nah no way the k troll also has setori in romance

but whatever, is not me to judge whether ur story real or not, just see this base on a case basis, if true story

u cant fix her or anything around her, her husband that's her matter, she consented to the marriage, she chose that path to follow that man, even if she complained to u about her husband matters, what can u do? persuade her to divorce her husband? morally, dont do it, that's her business unless ur in it for the lust

and the gangsta story, distance urself if u dont want to become news material, find other girls but not this one, u dont want to mess with gangstas

Talking about your colleague you banged in Norway.

these kind of stories
-trying to woo a girl from own working place
-trying to sleep with someone wife

all stemp from lack of security, seeking validations
It feels like a trophy being able to temporarily get a physical thing, ie money or a married woman attention (in your case)

ive been on a period where sleeping with a female who seems "higher" quality than mine (primarily from her looks) i thought its going to enhance my status. It could be, but the state is always like a tidal wave. It will crash at anytime

Do you really want to live like this where everything outside yourself, is able to influence you with the fact that you dont even realize who are you/why are you coming to this earth?

I gave you a deep perspective to start thinking.

This kind of scenario very simple & straight forward. Married ppl = these ppl have taken their vow. We do not interfere with their matters. As simple as that. If simple thing like this also so hard to make decision, you are going to have a lot of trouble in your day to day decision making.

Before this you don't know her marital status - that was history. After you know about it, is it still so hard to make a decision?

Assuming this story is true..

Best thing for TS is to advice this woman friend to remember her marriage vows and to work harder to be a good wife.

💯 with nihility here. At this point you're just enabling this infidelity for your own and her convenience/enjoyment. I can put on a troll /ktard hat and tell you ATTABOY but you know it better than anyone else, you're a moth helplessly attracted to a strong fire and you know you're dooming yourself sooner or later.
I'm sorry you were lured in unknowing of her marital status. Here I'll agree you were the victim of her seduction and irresponsibility, but as mentioned - NOW you know, you KNOW there's the next correct step to do. Are you following through?
Reread what I said earlier. It's easy to give in to temptations and the immediate fun times, you and her together. Everything you say now is just an attempt to gain validation/sympathy for the wrongs you both already committed. I can sympathise with her difficulty in her marriage, but I will not support her continued acts of infidelity. Frankly speaking, I find your conversation below disgusting.
LMAO your small head is speaking louder right now. Wake the fuck up, I'll bet you got turned on by that idea. Don't bring in a child born of infidelity, you will ruin MANY lives including your own.

Just imagine if you're that child born of you, the third wheel, and the cheating wife. The child would find out sooner or later and this will mess him/her childhood, a pivotal part of life to form his/her personality -- you will be creating a broken child into a broken family. It'd be so much easier if she just divorces her husband first then settle with you later.

Look, I understand that some people may find their soulmate/loved one outside/past their marriage. My father had a mistress and eventually my parents got divorced and he settled with his mistress. Many years later, she stayed with him throughout his battle with cancer -- she supported him in the hospital, personally cleaned his vomit, blood and literal shit in his final days and cried the most in his funeral. I'm glad for him that she took care of him until the end, because he already lost us siblings many years ago when he chose that woman. That's what it means to cheat: you needlessly sacrifice many for the one.

I thought Malaysia got one archaic law about a man messing about with another man’s wife? Where that man can sue you in court for tempting his wife with sex?

Yes, that law which Daphne Iking’s husband used on the man she fucked around with.

But I guess since you both (TS and his ‘lover’) are Muslims, maybe you both ought to fear the wrath of God more.

but make sure you don't cream pie her

hurt now better than hurt more later.