Bini orang jangan kau pergi test, the next thing you know is a video of your face get beat up and shared in kopition section.

rumah tangga orang, masalah diorang, bukan hal kau bro. dan kau bukan bapak pompuan tu
careful women nowadays. i tell u, if she can do it once to her husband, if future dengan u, dia boleh lagi buat dengan orang lain pada u. 99.99%

lagipun, tiada nilai orang macam ni. dont degrade urself
hari ni dia benci husband dia. besok dia datang office muka senyum ada rolex di tangan dan jalan tak betul bibir kembang, dia ignore u

reli. dont get into complicated relationships

Like urs?

True bro
Betul
Setuju
Agree 100%

I feel drained of my energy, emosi, and my sanity. And she eroded my iman while piling up my dosa

Rolex im sure she can afford but she is not the type who wear all these branded stuff. Very rich but low profile. A simple girl next door, nak cakap cantik, tak jugak. Muka mcm apam balik, tapi she is kind hearted.

She very sayang kuceng. She loves to feed stray cats because she said keceng very kesian. I was moved and feel that she is actually lonely too.

Thats why I am drawn to her. And she also drawn to me.
We talk about cats for hours. Her husband hates cats.

She felt he is heartless. She felt he doesnt understand her kindness. Her husband said cats are dirty. She sees cats as cute. Im also quite ugly, but she said im cute.

I thought u no longer wanted to update lagi setori ni bro. Lolz.

Baik saja you focus ur waifu now.

very true. through out my girls i've went out with including my wife, my "resume" can be quite long back in the day... ahemm ahemm..

but one thing i learned from my ex wife and couple of my ex gf. once a cheater always a cheater.

even one of the dates i went out with earlier this year, she also divorcee, so i asked if her husband cheated on her, she said no, she cheated. so the husband left her....

i immediately whoah red flag..... run away!

i am usually not judgemental as i strongly believe i have no rights to judge people.... question them, yes i will question them, but i wont put a label on them and judge them.... but cheater is a whole different ball game. run while u still can

unless u decided within ur heart that all u want is just someone u can call to bang when u have the need, then i guess like u said la, ur dosa build up.... but really that's ur call what kind of relationship u wanna be in

This post has been edited by calvinteh: Aug 27 2025, 10:05 AM

Waifu is a bigger problem.

She is having midlife crisis now. She is considering to quit her job, and start her own business. However she needs a big capital injection to kickstart her ambitious goal in her business. I told her dont be so greedy, start small and learn the rope first. She asked me to shut up or she would use a rope to tie me up. By the way, her English is not good, gadis kampung, kecek kelate sejak kecik. She dunno what “learn the rope” means.

So she wanted money, but I dont have money. So she started blaming me for not helping her and I am useless because i can’t cough up the sum she wanted. So she had to borrow from her sisters and her brothers. When she went to borrow money of course she would cook up a sob story to appear kesian la right, so her siblings can lend her their money.

The storyline was that I have no money to help her, I used the money to buy unnecessary things like my collectibles, etc. Say Im not earning enough and not saving enough to support her.

I am already working very hard but she said if working hard can become rich, then all the lembu and kerbau in sawah padi would be millionaires by now.

Ok i dont wanna argue so much. I go sell my collectibles and try to get rid of all of them and give her all the money. Senang cerita. Shut her up. But nobody bought my stuff yet, already quite long but no buyers. So i tahan and sabar with her nagging everyday.

Back to her business. She totally has no time at home now. A lot of things to do. From shop location scouting, renovations, finding subcontractors, ID, material, her vendors for ingredients, packaging, equipment, POS system, etc all she had to do. She goes out early morning lepas subuh and back home midnight after i slept.

Makan minum aku urus sendiri, makan la apa yg ada. Nasi bujang telur mata kerbau + kicap manis, asal kenyang hati senang.

Basically she is just non-existent in my life. Invisible. 🫥
I see Mizu Tomodachi JAV more than i see my wife’s face now.

Cerai je lah

Setiap orang ada dugaan dia sendiri bro. Kita just share apa yang kita tahu melalui experience.. Tu je. Kaum laki skrg kena bersatu sebab pompuan ada movement dia sendiri. Diorang rata2 dah dipengaruhi modern feminism yg sangat toxic

bini xde kat rumah, yini peluang terpaling bagui

RtK gave up ady.
What she wants she do
At limit, which is quite close will just divorce
Keeping all the recited) records right now

I know ur waifu bigger problem... eh anyway how are u with this kuceng girl? U still owe her money or not. So ur kuceng still eat salmon? Then u sell ur camera? Long time no update from u, still same shit different day lol. Please take good care of ur anak.. bukan sudah ada satu????

If ur waifu same.. lama lama memang kesusahan.. did u try tame her like ur kuceng???

oh this one i quite agree many a times u get problem with ur spouse at home is contributed by some of her bitchy friends who tries to be her friend but deep downn she resent that my wife have a family and have everything a wife could ask for in a marriage, she will nit pick at small little things and said that your husband (me) is not good.

laaa she herself single, my wife also stupid, dunno how to think at this point, kalau her friend soooo good at maintaining a relationship, knp plak dia single?

Yes my kuceng got enough food till end of the month. I have a basket of trout ready for my kuceng but since i need to save money, i started to ration the food for my kuceng since May 2025. Give half portion and let kuceng lose some weight. That fatty must diet.






I can’t tame my wife coz she is not kuceng. She is more like a badak. U see hippo looks cute but actually hippo is very agressive. I dont even wanna talk to her now. Everything also she wanna start argument.

Example: i fed my kuceng food. Then i went to dining table to eat my cake.

Before i took the first bite she said “kenapa tak suap i?”

So i offered her the first bite

She said “oh nak kena mintak baru u bagi? Taknak dah”

So i brought the spoon to my mouth

“Bila i cakap taknak u tak reti nak pujuk?”

So i move the spoon to her and pujuk her to eat

“Ini pun nak bagitau ker? Dah tak reti jaga hati isteri? Ko makan la sorang”

So i moved the spoon to my mouth

“Makan la makan …” she was being passive aggressive

So i asked “ko nak ker tak nak?”

She sulked and looked away

So i moved the spoon closer to my mouth to eat it

“Makan laaa makannnn … makan sorang2 …. “

So i ate the first bite and then scoop the next bite for her

“U dah makan yg ada strawberry tadi, yg ini i xnak. U makan yg sedap, yg tak sedap bagi kat i”

Hello, it is the same piece of cake. The strawberry is just a small slice on the top as garnish.

I really dont know what she wants.

Oh shiat ur kuceng so damn cutie pie yo...

Lol I laughed wei u so mean call ur waifu badak. But the way of communication really break the relationships. Aikz

Deswai even i lapaq peruk also i bagi kuceng makan
I kebulur also nevermind
Most important my kuceng can eat well

Communication is very important in relationships. Many people dont communicate anymore, and just lazy to talk to each other.

I am not a good talker so i always offend her. She is too good in twisting and belit2 her words until i kena trapped.

Simple question like “i nampak gemuk tak pakai baju kurung ni?”

If i answer “tak”

She say “ohhh jawab cepat sgt, langsung tak pikir, mesti menipu”

If i said “hmm…. Tak”

She say “ohhh u teragak2 maksudnya u nk ckp i gemuk tapi tukar cakap tak”

If i say “tak nampak gemuk”

She say “maksud u hakikatnya i gemuk la kan? Dulu u tak penah komplain, sekarang dah tak suka i gemuk kan?”

Baik aku diam main candy crush jer.

I tak suka gaduh2. I like peaceful life, bukan kena maki hari2.

Good that she is busy with her business now. Keluar subuh balik tengah malam. I just sip my afternoon tea with scones. And watch kuceng in instagram

Then how u guys goes into marriage with this kind of communication???

Sometimes good communication also can be dangerous. U can’t really tell if got any problem in the marriage. On the surface all nice nice but suddenly murdered



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