Had to agree, maybe with women population more than men cause women had less choice.

LOL at the statement that 20 year olds would prefer younger guys than older. LOL cause my wife was 25 when we started and I am 10 years older. lol

We worship GOD and try to understand about Him.

He left you or you left him? What obstacle that caused both of you to give up ? The issue has been detected long ago & dragged on or it was detected too late scenario ?

Small kampung usually will have 1 or 2 traditional match makers who will frequently trying to match make the villager's younger generation with each another family. Muka tembok sikit, go attend to the match making arranged by those match makers. At least, the match maker will filter out the family background or reveal the family background.

You need some sociable contact to become the "bridge" for you to know ppl. The "bridge" can be from the older generation or younger generation. Join their meetup / gathering, from there onward , join their friend's friend activities.

Going for trip is one of the good option - not asking to travel solo & risk to get kidnapped. Join travel tour & choose the package for suitable for young adults not old ppl or kids. Know the ppl from the same tour, expand the contact from there.

Join some political party like MCA, DAP, PRK or Gelakan. You will gets the contact from their activities. Based on current sentiment, don't join wrong one or else later kena scold by public for no reason.

If u are 40 but pretty mature and can combine our net worth positively I am okay to marry

Marry someone young and the notion of growing old together is bs. These day divorce rate is crazy and some I know married one to two year divorce coz not compatible

i'm 42 this year and still single , i won't mind marry women around 30s or around my age

My cousin when he was in his mid 30s, married a woman in her early 40s. His family was against them marrying. He was a bit of a player and a drifter sort.

It turned out ok. She brought maturity and financial stability. He brought in energy and adventure. They are reasonably happy it seemed (15+ years now).

Personally for me, the answer is no. Maybe ego. But Im looking for the opposite of my cousin.

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[quote=labamba,Feb 1 2024, 09:39 AM]
Just sharing..

https://www.health.com/condition/pregnancy/...-life-pregnancy


that’s general study you can also google male has age of giving birth and risk..
best thing is go to see fertility doctor.

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Let's go for coffee

Just PM you

Late 30 okay.

late 40 No

I'm 34 this year, yea I don't mind dating or marry another 30s women. In my opinion, I don't really care about what women do as long it is legal or their education level. Not hiring any lady staff also so why even bother asking right?

Good one.

Ic you are proud of getting younger lady compared to beautiful lady.



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matsaleh love chinese women in 30 to 40s.

Well I bid you good luck and all the best, happy chinese new year in advance.

Onee san

Women can be made beautiful with enough money.

Youth cannot be bought.

TS, I'm same gender as you, about your age.
I believe you must be very confident and successful in your career.

There are still lots of high value guys who look for genuine long term relationship and don't mind ladies past the mid 30s range.

Try expand your thinking horizon in terms of relationship, because the reality could be much wonderful than what you might had assumed.

If you don't mind guys with younger age, or had divorced before, or even a bit far in distance, you have really large pool of choices to pick from.

Sometimes guys with a few years younger could turn out a low profile but a high value successful man with integrity, sincerely and loyalty.

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Look wise, as long as the lady take effort to maintain a relatively good health and skin, at very basic level, not necessarily need a lot of money to achieve it.

High value guys don't just look for good looking ladies. In fact a lot of guys appreciate the values their significant other bring to them.

They value their significant other who are emotionally stable with least drama as possible, who know her worth, who love herself, who don't put all emotional reliance on the guy, who can constantly provide emotional values to the guy.

You attract what you are, not what you are after.

While trying your luck in the relationship game field, you may want to as well to learn about how to up your game in the inner values of what genuine guys are looking for.

Relationship or even marriage is the exchange of values. It's a life long learning process. And learning never end.

It's about what values of the guy match yours, what you can and cannot tolerate.

At times you might want consider to look at big picture, that is, to celebrate the strengths of the guy while embrace his small small weaknesses.

There are really tonnes of ladies in the world get married at later age, even at 50s or 60s.

So rest assured good luck find your ways, and you are the luckiest lady that you know.

As a married man who has almost served prison life sentence, i agree with your assessment.

matured men are not looking for drop dead beauty, so long as presentable (meaning not fat), it's the emotional connection that is important.

my advice for TS is to join some higher end dating sites like Coffee Meets Bagel. sites like these at least have some pre-screenig like age and income requirements that TS may have.