TS, I'm same gender as you, about your age.
I believe you must be very confident and successful in your career.

There are still lots of high value guys who look for genuine long term relationship and don't mind ladies past the mid 30s range.

Try expand your thinking horizon in terms of relationship, because the reality could be much wonderful than what you might had assumed.

If you don't mind guys with younger age, or had divorced before, or even a bit far in distance, you have really large pool of choices to pick from.

Sometimes guys with a few years younger could turn out a low profile but a high value successful man with integrity, sincerely and loyalty.

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Look wise, as long as the lady take effort to maintain a relatively good health and skin, at very basic level, not necessarily need a lot of money to achieve it.

High value guys don't just look for good looking ladies. In fact a lot of guys appreciate the values their significant other bring to them.

They value their significant other who are emotionally stable with least drama as possible, who know her worth, who love herself, who don't put all emotional reliance on the guy, who can constantly provide emotional values to the guy.

You attract what you are, not what you are after.

While trying your luck in the relationship game field, you may want to as well to learn about how to up your game in the inner values of what genuine guys are looking for.

Relationship or even marriage is the exchange of values. It's a life long learning process. And learning never end.

It's about what values of the guy match yours, what you can and cannot tolerate.

At times you might want consider to look at big picture, that is, to celebrate the strengths of the guy while embrace his small small weaknesses.

There are really tonnes of ladies in the world get married at later age, even at 50s or 60s.

So rest assured good luck find your ways, and you are the luckiest lady that you know.

The concept of “ love” for majority of guys is a bit different from ladies.
Guys are born with inherent hero instinct in their heart.
They values “respect” from their significant other, more than just the emotional part of love according to most ladies understanding..

There are a lot about respect, and it doesn't mean like what in Japanese culture things.

It's a lady putting herself at about same level of her guy, yet talk and act in ways her guys inherently wish to get.

If a lady adore a strong, capable, resilient and extraordinary responsible guy with high integrity guy, means to prepare to handle his strong characteristics.. means to every time, use the inherently born soft nature of lady to deal with any disagreement. Because softness conquer the strong.

If lady prefer to have major says or dos in anything in the r.ship or marriage, means a guy who is willing to accept the nature of this lady is a better fit

It's a two way street.

However it's true that a lot of guys secretly like the so called green tea style, because that kind of treatment make them feel comfortable, and sometimes kick up their hero instinct.

In other words, a good and high value lady learn various effective skills and apply on right times ..Not to say that it's to chg the integrity of the lady.
But in order to let the r. ship or marriage sustain

And only the right guy in the eyes of the lady, deserves.