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Advice Wanted Mod please close the thread, I got enough advice., Thank you every1 for your advice.

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Cubalagi
post Feb 1 2024, 05:12 PM

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My cousin when he was in his mid 30s, married a woman in her early 40s. His family was against them marrying. He was a bit of a player and a drifter sort.

It turned out ok. She brought maturity and financial stability. He brought in energy and adventure. They are reasonably happy it seemed (15+ years now).

Personally for me, the answer is no. Maybe ego. But Im looking for the opposite of my cousin.

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post Feb 1 2024, 10:31 PM

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QUOTE(moon88 @ Feb 1 2024, 09:18 PM)
Ic you are proud of getting younger lady compared to beautiful lady.

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Women can be made beautiful with enough money.

Youth cannot be bought.


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post Feb 5 2024, 09:26 PM

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QUOTE(quireyuyue @ Feb 5 2024, 05:18 PM)
I got married when I was 38 and my husband was 40.  laugh.gif

There are still a lot of single guys around your age range wink.gif
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How.long were u dating? And how/where u met your husband?


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post Feb 6 2024, 11:54 AM

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QUOTE(quireyuyue @ Feb 6 2024, 10:15 AM)
We dated for 2 years before tied the knot on our 3rd year and we met each other on tinder laugh.gif
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Good to hear a success story of app dating.


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post Feb 7 2024, 05:19 PM

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QUOTE(ifourtos @ Feb 7 2024, 04:51 PM)
nowadays...
Quality Male are 1 of the rarest commodity in Market.

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What are the characteristics of this rare Quality Male?


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post Feb 10 2024, 08:38 AM

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QUOTE(ifourtos @ Feb 7 2024, 06:22 PM)
Tier B
- Responsibility
- Loyalty
- Willing to Sacrifice
- Not Ego Babi

Tier A
- Smart
- Humor
- Confident

Tier S
- Creativity
- Wisdom
- Charisma
- Leadership
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Tier B - usually Nice Guys have loads
Tier A and S - usually Bad Boys have an abundance of, esp humor, confidence, charisma, leadership.

No suprise that woman will rank the bad boy traits higher.

Whats is missing are looks (physical qualities) and resources (wealth/income). Usually girls, esp attractivr ones, will rank these high as well.









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post Mar 30 2024, 03:20 PM

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QUOTE(id3d @ Mar 30 2024, 05:11 AM)
I am in my mid-30s, dated few girls in their early 30s, mid-30s.. and most of the experience are not really good.

To be frank, i am not the crazy rich asian type... well i am not B40 either.. just like most people, the struggling M40 to T20 type..

I have my own car, landed property, condo for investment, some savings, but nothing fancy. Career wise, not really a management or C-level position, but enough to make a living comfortably.

Girls in their mid-30s are looking for more securities especially in terms of financially and personalities. I am the type of person that like to travels, and like to take risk in investment, some marks deducted here..

The girls I dated make around the same or slightly less than me, and yet they are looking to meet someone who can make much more than them, instead of we share the burden.

In the end i gave up dating the girls who are my age / generation. Then I am with a girl 15 years old younger than me.. oh wow, we have a wonderful relationship.

To girls in their mid-30s, I believe you have to figure out what you really want in life, as you have been single and independent enough, to live alone without needing a partner.

However if you have decided to look for a partner, please be realistic and gotta stop expecting your partner to be as good as you hope he can be. Otherwise, you might feel much more comfortable in staying single.
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post Apr 3 2024, 07:29 AM

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QUOTE(moon88 @ Apr 2 2024, 10:41 PM)
do you think of shaving all your hair like Van Diesel, he looks cool.  biggrin.gif
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Body must also be tall n muscular for that to work.

Bald short fat men not very cool.

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Apr 3 2024, 09:23 PM)
Spend time with me. I was shocked. We talk for around 3h+

Now still on and off call me over the phone and talk.
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What is the meaning of high end?

And how old is this woman?

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Apr 4 2024, 06:33 PM)
Maybe my high end is those form upper class girls.

29 this year.
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Wealthy family or high class style?

29 yo...thats in your tick box age. Apa tunggu?





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post Apr 5 2024, 08:39 PM

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QUOTE(moon88 @ Apr 5 2024, 08:33 PM)
High end = good looking, good educational background, good finance status. ATAS women
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Oooo...

I thought

High end = good looking and high maintenence.

The education is not really relevant. The finance is usually only good bcoz of daddy kasi (realy daddy or sugar).


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