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This post has been edited by moon88: Apr 5 2024, 08:48 PM

try going to church or ngo kinda gathering. shud be some1 waiting for u out ther

or u can go the slutty way, go happy hour and know garbage guys

Recently I got to know mother's friend of son came back from Australia in his mid 30s and met his wife around his age in Church 12 years ago, guess church is a good place to know sincere guy, gonna learn how to sing hallelujah.

For sure you would find it...
But there is a say also....
If we repeat to do the things we are doing now, we will get the same result.
Maybe you may go deep dive into your hobby for more new things?

Yea no.

Church also has its problems.

I was raise as a Christian, the drama in a church can get crazy.

However, there will be a few gems here and there. Just need to sift through it

Have fun

This post has been edited by AthrunIJ: Jan 31 2024, 10:20 PM

Totally agree with you, I like baking and cooking, guess no guys like it or gay like it.

What kind of hobbies or sports do you guys like the most or join in a gang or club?

This post has been edited by moon88: Jan 31 2024, 10:25 PM

I myself in late 30's seeking but same issue with you, im a dude

I followed my very closed elder christian friend to church when I was a kid, my mom then restricted me to go to church since then I never go to church.
What actually you guys are doing in the church nowadays?

Standard gathering like other religions.

Sing praise, listen to Gospel then ciao or activities afterwards

I toted guys have wide choices till lady in 20s, to be frank the guys that I met in 40s they are all married.

This post has been edited by moon88: Jan 31 2024, 10:35 PM

Ok gonna try it out.

Just share your facebook here perhaps?

I still do Basketball, might want to go back for hiking and jogging
now start reading Novel....
You may try jogging and join some running event, there are many running event starting this year...

Not sure how cooking will lead you to knowing a new guy thou

This post has been edited by taitianhin: Jan 31 2024, 10:42 PM

that is kind like dating app's method, I prefer to know single guys in person.

Y.. Go see the world la, get tied down for what... Pack your bags , go travel, meet new ppl in your journey and who knows you will meet your soul mate.

I would. You have good criteria. "average or above looking, caring and friendly"
Your work place does not have any candidate? Usually partners are found in Uni, work place, social activities or among groups of friends.
Forget about dating apps..As a guy, many guys in dating apps are looking for short term hook up. In short, sex. Because we guys know that the girls in those app are very open.
Join volunteer activities like maybe clean the beach/environment, if you are into animals then find out what activities they have, etc
If you are into sports like badminton, join in random group play, there are apps for that like AFA. Or join clubs that you are interested in, drawing, chess etc.

At least you will be able to find someone that has close interest with you easier to match up rather than rubbish guys from dating apps.

Next thing is when you join those activities, if you are interested in someone, you need to start do your magic. Get closer, make initiatives. Don't wait for guys to make the first move. And of course make known to them that you are single not by announcing but in a subtle way where they can get it.
Such as like "holiday is coming, do you have any plans? I am thinking to go to XXX but it's kinda bored to go alone"
Or if u want to find out if someone is married especially at this age of yours, dont straight as are you single. U can use "how many kids you have?", then the opposite will say, I don't have kids. or I am not married.
Well, at the age of 40 to have kids, is still alright. You know your body best. If it's ready, it is. Else just enjoy married live without kids.

Thanks for your kind reply and advice, gonna try keluar from kampung first, forgot to mention that am staying in Kampung right now.
my current working place is a old folks house, I'm considered young for them. haha

dude I'm bored and scared of travelling alone to oversea.

go to classy bar alone and dress better sitting there m sure they're guys will approach you

or else you could go to art gallery
basically just have a circle where you can mix with potentially higher quality circle of guys

Like ladies, most guys that are of partner quality would be taken as you have mentioned. Hence you are likely to meet married or was married guys, possibly 95% of the time. As you are probably in the 5% pool of "partner-able" women, finding the 5% of single/widowed/divorced "partner-able" men will take time and some luck.

Am sure he will appear someday when you least expect it